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John Grisham's twisted views

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Stressing · 16/10/2014 12:36

So fuming about John Grisham airing his twisted views on child porn. /www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/books/10624453/John-Grisham-child-porn-argument-wrong

Especially this part, whilst referring to his friend who had the book thrown at him apparently: "So he went there (to the site), downloaded some stuff - it was 16 year old girls who looked 30.

"He shouldn't have done it. It was stupid, but it wasn't 10-year-old boys."

WTF? So it's okay apparently to get pissed and wank off over images of young teenagers who may or may not be around the age of consent, so long as they look 30. And, more importantly, it's okay to do this so long as they are not male.

The fact that we live in a world where there is any kind of grey area surrounding child porn depresses me. How the male need to be sexually gratified is SOOOO important that it presides over the innocence and well-being of a child makes me utterly sick to my stomach.

JG has the arrogance and self importance to put the US justice system on trial due to his version of what he thinks is acceptable and not acceptable - of who is worthy of law enforcement based on age and gender.

You can bet your life that his mate didn't just view a site depicting consenting age females. He went there because he was drawn to the borderline element of the site, obviously, and probably went elsewhere - which is why he had the FBI knocking on his door.

But, according to JG, the fact he wasn't looking at boys means he wasn't really doing anything wrong.

It incenses me.

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Nestinghedgehog · 21/10/2018 11:05

Sorry meant to say although I have enjoyed his books in the past I refuse to read another one.

Nestinghedgehog · 21/10/2018 11:05

Hi - I know I am resurrecting a Zombie thread but I see that John Grisham has a new book out and is being fawned over by the press.

I have read and enjoyed many John Grisham novels over the years

I remembered that he was a paedophile apologist and thought how can he suddenly be Mr Nice Guy. Do people have such short memories.

Not really sure why I am posting except that I am angry. Thanks for reading

scallopsrgreat · 18/10/2014 19:23

"The fact that JG minimised this SO much makes me wonder what HE gets up to in his spare time." My exact thoughts different.

SevenZarkSeven · 18/10/2014 11:12

If he wanted to make a point about the extremely high rates of imprisonment in the US - OK

If he wanted to talk about the terrifying fact of the % of black men in the US in prison (I forget the stat now but it's just so awfully high) and flag up why that might be and what needs to be done - alright

If he wants to talk about people being imprisoned when it's not appropriate in his view - he could have used examples like people with mental health problems, people in poverty for minor drugs offences (I'm guessing here, not about to research US prison stuff but with so many people in prison there must be ones with a valid argument for a different approach) - well fine

To use the example of a man who had downloaded and shared multiple images of child abuse including child rape and young children - WTAF?

It seems to me the other way around. He was using the first few points in order to try to minimise and justify why people like his friend shouldn't be in prison. Using a "nicey compassionate" argument to try and get people like his mate out of prison which is absolutely where they should be.

Good grief.

Hope this man doesn't recover from this one and TBH I'd be wondering what he's been up to if he doesn't really see any problem with what his friend has done past a little bit of poor judgement that could happen to anyone the poor chap.

differentnameforthis · 18/10/2014 01:55

The fact that JG minimised this SO much makes me wonder what HE gets up to in his spare time.

If this was my friend, I would NOT be minimising the shit out of it, writing them a reference or publicity stating that too many men go to prison for 'accidentally' accessing this material.

Unless I had a vested interest in doing so...

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Damsilli · 17/10/2014 13:00

Stressing, I understand your point better now. Yes, I think I agree up to a point. But I do wonder if, with a view to overall protection it is better to weed out people at lower level for a more 'rehabilitation' package than retribution one. Are children less at risk if a low level online abuser becomes a prison convict with a new social circle of other more direct abusers? I don't know.

Calling online viewing 'lower level' condones nothing btw. I am wary of calling all activity the same - but yes, I see your point.

Stressing · 17/10/2014 12:52

Damsilli - his friend did act though, he didn't bury his impulses and hit the off button did he?

I worry that by acknowledging an attraction to children as 'normal' to many men (as has been reported) it will create a silo whereby potential perpetrators feel protected. It gives them an identity and a belonging - shared support, with other 'victims' of nature.

I would not be surprised if MANY humans could - under certain circumstances - feel excited by the thought of sex with a child. However humans are captains of ourselves - mind, body and soul. We have to be responsible for our choices.

I cannot understand how a person would justify letting themselves get to the point where they are seeking out these images. How can they think it is okay? We need to be completely black and white and say: 'as a species, human beings do not tolerate sexualising its young - ever'. So that there are no excuses/reasons/ifs, buts, maybes. That's why when it comes to protecting our children there are no grey areas - you cross the line, and you're going to get the book thrown at you.

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Damsilli · 17/10/2014 12:35

JG was wrong and his example an appalling one. Not relevant to my point.

Damsilli · 17/10/2014 12:35

But actually, re Stressing's point, it is vital to differentiate between people who are attracted to children and those that act on that attraction. It's vital for society to take steps to ensure abuse doesn't happen in the first place. There is no such thing as consent - as stated elsewhere. There is no child porn, only child abuse.

YonicScrewdriver · 17/10/2014 12:33

Dam, have you read the further detail about this guy sharing images of 12 year olds? JG just minimised the hell out of that.

FreudiansSlipper · 17/10/2014 12:33

interesting that he describes the men that he is talking about as men like him, not only age but ethnic background to

any viewing of child abuse on these sites you are part of the network that keeps children being abused you are supporting those that rape these children the only importance is for the children to be protected not those who after a few drinks goes on line to view such images

some seem to feel more comfortable if the lines are blurred to justify their own desires. consenting ADULTS being filmed or photographed having sex/role play is that consenting adults children being involved is abuse/rape that is what you are viewing and that is why prison sentences are needed you have supported the abuse of children

Damsilli · 17/10/2014 12:31

dangerously close to normalizing pedophilia

Really? In a country where a paediatrician's house was burnt down and an innocent man with special needs was killed in a vigilante attack? Where paedophiles are hiding in every bush, according to the tabloids.

The only thing I can see being normalized is the concept that there is only one degree of appalling and any attempt to differentiate appalling is equivalent to condoning it.

YonicScrewdriver · 17/10/2014 12:23

I linked a document somewhere from the US legal system which covered the fact that child abuse viewers had high rates of recidivism and were likely to already be or go on to be perpetrators and that sentencing should reflect this if appropriate for a given case.

It made sense.

Stressing · 17/10/2014 12:13

"...the lengthy sentences have raised questions in American legal circles after it emerged that people who viewed child pornography were sometimes facing harsher sentences than those who physically abused children." This may have been more along the lines of what Grisham meant, but he failed miserably and decided instead to take up the case of his (assume) white, middle class, middle-aged male friend - with an obvious misguided sense of entitlement - over and above abused children.

Why? Why use your position to speak out against this, instead of a case supporting vulnerable human beings? I don't know much about him but I bet he doesn't stir up a hornets nest about much else - apart from when his poor privileged mate gets caught with his pants down.

The thought of anyone in his social circle actually being held accountable for their actions is obviously waaaay too important. More important than child abuse.

I am really worried by all this speaking out in support of men and their pedophilic tendencies as being 'natural'. Some lord was on about it the other day as well. We are getting dangerously close to normalising it - saying 'hey it's okay, we understand what it's like to be a bit unconventional, to be liberal. You have rights too - your right to want to abuse vulnerable children for your sexual gratification. It's not your fault, it's how god made you.'

Bollocks to that.

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PuffinsAreFicticious · 17/10/2014 11:43

Jesus! I am actually even more angry about this now. People who defend that kind of behaviour should be ashamed of themselves. If JG sees what his friend did as just a little thing, it rather casts doubt on HiS moral compass as well.

differentnameforthis · 17/10/2014 11:11

sashh they weren't just naked, they were being RAPED for heaven's sake!!! As were the other children in the images, some who were under 12!!! PLus he actually SHARED the images, so bollox did he 'stumble' acorss a site while drunk!!!

However unseen newspaper reports of Mr Holleman's trial in 1997 obtained by the Telegraph from the local Sun Herald newspaper paint a far more serious picture of the case than Mr Grisham

An undercover agent who asked for some of Holleman's pictures over the Internet earlier this year received 13 images, all of children under 18, some under 12. They depicted children during sexually explicit conduct, including intercourse," said the report from November 1997, quoting a US justice department lawyer, Kathy McLure."

here

scallopsrgreat · 17/10/2014 10:21

I have read the article in its entirety and disagree with your assessment of it sashh. It is very clear what he thinks and I'm shocked that you are defending him.

ChoochiWoo · 17/10/2014 09:32

I think by saying that load of bile he has made his own noose, i dont believe him for a minute.

FuckOffFerret · 17/10/2014 09:11

He would have simply said "he was looking at 16 year olds NOT 10 year olds" wouldn't he?

Not he was looking at 16 year old girls NOT 10 year old boys.

An effort was made. The way he made an effort to talk about old white gentlemen in prison. NOT the sort to actually do bad things

YonicScrewdriver · 17/10/2014 07:35

It does seem odd that he chose boys when the friend n question actually looked at girls.

sashh · 17/10/2014 06:28

What's "technical" about "images of child abuse"?

How about a photo of a 16 year old Sam Fox that was deemed suitable for publication on page 3 in the 1980s but is now illegal.

If you don't believe me try to find a pic of her topless on the internet - you will find them, but not the ones when she was under 18.

I agree with OP that what he said was vile, but, yes a big fat BUT he was talking about people being imprisoned for things they (in his opinion) should not have been, or long sentences that he thought should be shorter. He also talked about Martha Stewart and young black teenagers. It was also quite clear he was talking about 1 person, someone he knew.

Please read the full article.

Get angry, but do it from the entirety of what he said, either in the original article or in the video in the link. Then read his apology.

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/11168234/John-Grisham-apologises-for-child-pornography-comments.html

www.jgrisham.com/a-statement-from-john-grisham-2/

differentnameforthis · 17/10/2014 01:55

This is outrage over John Grishams views on sentencing of people who have accessed illegal images - not outrage over child abuse per se.

You do realise that children were abuse to create that material in the first place, right? I once read an article that stated those who watched film/viewed images of children being abused were as guilty as those who did it & filmed/took pictures of it.

I agree.

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