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Have you seen the Emma Watson Speech?

372 replies

Sallystyle · 22/09/2014 07:19

Awesome

www.upworthy.com/her-voice-might-tremble-but-emma-watsons-message-is-strong-and-clear?c=ufb1

I don't know how old it is or anything but it is really good

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7Days · 22/09/2014 22:37

I'm glad of this. Look at all the young people who have grown up looking up to clever Hermione.

ThursdayLast · 22/09/2014 22:04

Thanks for the transcript.
She's a good egg

WhyBeHappyWhenYouCouldBeNormal · 22/09/2014 22:03

heforher would have sounded nicer - but I have issues with it sounding like we need men to swoop in and save the feminist movement...

mumble grumble. nit picking really. It's not perfect but it's a lot better than most stuff that goes on, and if it helps young people to understand feminism than that's enough for now.

Mitchy1nge · 22/09/2014 22:02

so we can forgive her for that awful rape joke scene in The End recently then?

sugarhoops · 22/09/2014 21:55

Brilliant!

I have a big thing about girls being labelled bossy but boys acting similarly are labelled as leaders .... boys are never described as bossy, girls (or my 6yo DD1 to be precise) often are.

Its not fair and its not right and its one thing i'm often on my bandwagon about in the playground in my little sleepy corner of England. I hope it starts to make some difference.

ineedsomeinspiration · 22/09/2014 21:43

Wow, what a speech! I naively would not have described myself as a feminist before listening to that but now I can see that any sensible human being is.

Very inspiring, made me well up at several points.

HermioneWeasley · 22/09/2014 21:42

She was fantastic- eloquent and poised

PetulaGordino · 22/09/2014 21:39

likklemum i'm sorry that your dss attempted suicide, that must have been terrifying and i'm sure you're still feeling the aftershocks of that. i hope you are all getting the support you need

but feminism has never been "closed" to the idea that gender stereotypes negatively affect men too - a central tenet of feminism is that gender stereotypes are damaging to all. feminists have fathers, brothers, partners and sons and it's not about making the world a miserable place for them all. you are misinterpreting her words - she is saying that feminist has been linked with those things incorrectly - they should not be ascribed to feminism (and it's not feminists who have "elicited" those connotations, either). she's not trying to create something new, she's trying to open the eyes of those who have made incorrect assumptions about feminism

and what do you mean by "effeminate"?

likklemum · 22/09/2014 21:27

*connotations, not innovations Confused

likklemum · 22/09/2014 21:25

Well done that girl! As a mother to 3 DS's and a DSS who recently seriously attempted suicide, I am so grateful that feminism is opening up to the sexism that males experience too. I am aware that across the world the issues that women have battled for decades, centuries even, are of an overwhelming number and magnitude, but I love the way EW is uniting the genders in one fight which will benefit both. She is right that the word 'feminist' elicits harsh innovations: man hating, aggression and isolation. However, I'm not a fan of the name heforshe. Heandshe would of sounded more uniting and less effeminate- it is quite close to 'he-she' too which may be another stumbling block when attempting to empower men to unite.

Bifauxnen · 22/09/2014 21:20

And now 4chan are threatening to release her nudes in 4 days time as punishment Angry

www.salon.com/2014/09/22/4chan_users_respond_to_emma_watsons_powerful_un_speech_by_threatening_to_release_her_nude_photos/

ABlandAndDeadlyCourtesy · 22/09/2014 21:03

Time, iirc, females make more suicide attempts, males succeed more often, sadly.

Timeforabiscuit · 22/09/2014 20:57

Apologies, female suicides are NOTcatching up, approx three times as many male to female suicides.

northender · 22/09/2014 20:54

Such a brilliant speech

Timeforabiscuit · 22/09/2014 20:52

About the increases in male suicide, yes this is documented as part of the post industrial society transforming into a knowledge based economy. During this time there were absolute increases in death in younger men from accidents, drugs and violence and suicide.

I haven't looked into the figures recently but I think female suicides are catching up Sad

AtrociousCircumstance · 22/09/2014 20:35

Fantastic. And timely.

ThisFenceIsComfy · 22/09/2014 20:34

Great speech. Brave woman.

BaconAndAvocado · 22/09/2014 20:27

Beautiful, talented AND intelligent. I'm amazed and, strangely, feel quite proud of our Hermione Smile

Downamongtherednecks · 22/09/2014 19:59

impressive!

ArrivedAtPanicStation · 22/09/2014 19:46

She's a fantastic grounded lady

LumpySpacedPrincess · 22/09/2014 19:31

Bless her heart, that made me well up. What a wonderful role model she is.

LeBearPolar · 22/09/2014 19:23

I was so pleased today to hear my class discussing it - and being impressed by it. In the past few years I have been profoundly depressed by my female students declaring that they weren't feminists because they didn't want to be associated with that image, but the girls today were really excited and enthused by Emma Watson.

Can I share another good moment, sort of on topic? I was even happier to take my class to see a production of Streetcar Named Desire last week, and in this production Stanley has sex with Blanche when she is passed out drunk (rather than clearly raping her when she is fighting him, which is how many productions portray it). I was bracing myself for the inevitable comments (you know what I mean: she wasn't fighting back, she didn't say "no", etc) but all of them - boys and girls - were very emphatic that that was clearly rape.

I feel more optimistic about young people's feminism than I have for a number of years.

ABlandAndDeadlyCourtesy · 22/09/2014 19:21

Aerfen, EW explicitly referred to UK stats.

TyrannosaurusBex · 22/09/2014 19:14

I guess 'we're all in it together' was already taken...Grin

It's a great speech, I will be discussing it with my DDs. She's an impressive young woman.

Aerfen · 22/09/2014 19:01

"Interesting, certainly agree about men's mental health. Which is strange that is going to go down well with the MRAs if they can get more funding to help lower suicide. Lost a close male friend and no one to this day knows why he took his life."

Any actual evidence that it has anything to do with gender inequality? For example is male mental health worse than female and are rates of male mental ill health higher in those societies where gender inequality is highest?

If not then Watson just made this up!