There is an old saying - "there's none so blind as them as won't see"
I appreciate that trying to argue the cause of reason on this group, is akin to trying to reason with a group of ISIS fighters. But there are surely limits even here, as to what constitutes reasonable behaviour. To those that responded to my recent post with these comments;
"He's trying to justify rape. Because he has behaved like that before. That is the only conclusion I can come to after reading his posts."
"Fatbloke....have you ever raped anyone ? I have a feeling you have"
"How many of the men out there, who are so desperate to plead the case for his innocence, are doing it because they don't want to think about their own behaviour?"
"I would think all men who justify what Ched Evans has done would do well to examine their own sexual behaviour"
"After having many many men tell me that what those men did to that young woman wasn't rape, that she was a slut and loved it blah blah blah, yeah, I agree, my first thought is that they have done similar and are trying to justify themselves and their rapist pasts."
etc etc
Well your logic simply beggars belief.
NONE of you have ever met me!
NONE of you know anything about me!
NONE of you even know my real name.
But just because I'm prepared to stand up in this forum and put forward a structured, reasoned argument, which is referenced to the available evidence including the relevant case law - YOU, that's right YOU, feel free to brand me as a rapist.
If you consider yourself "feminists" then you are doing yourself and real feminists no favours at all!