A thread about a thread

Surely if you think a woman has low self esteem that would make it less ok to do the not calling her routine.

Don't know about the fred about a fred. But, fuck me, that thread is awful!

A woman teaching her son to disregard what women tell them about sex.

Men telling us we're sluts for sleeping with men before the men have decided that a magical time has passed when we're no longer sluts for sleeping with them.

Men and women saying that sleeping with too many men makes you in some ephemeral way 'damaged goods'

I don't know if I am more saddened or angered.

I think this is the right area for this. C & P alert.

So just curious, how many partners is OK?

As many as you want, it's none of my business. I've only been on 4 proper first dates and slept with 2 of the women involved, both of whom I went out with again. There have been times when I've met someone whilst in the pub or at a party and we've had sex. On only two occasions have I not slept with them again. The first was because the young woman didn't want to, the second was because I found out she was married. Two of my first night shags turned into 2+ year relationships, and plenty of others lasted 6 ish months.

And how many dates before you are "allowed" to have sex without looking like a slag a person of low self esteem?

As many, or as few as you want. Any man who judges you for either shagging him 'too soon' or not shagging him at all is a nobber.

Also if a woman really really enjoys having sex and just doesn't mean Mr Right, is she meant to remain celibate for years?

Nope. Your body, your rules. The women I know enjoy sex, nay, love it.