Honey. Everyone else got it, you are not stupid, so please don't expect anyone to believe you didn't get that too. You know that isn't true.
I refuse to engage with someone who seems to have a singular agenda, to whit, slagging the posters in FWR off. If you don't like posting here, might I suggest you stick to whichever baby club you're part of? It is impossible to debate things with a person who, despite their obvious intelligence, resorts to insults and abuse whenever they think they are losing the momentum.
I am not for one second telling you what to do, but you will find fewer and fewer people willing to be told what to think and do by someone who is incapable of carrying an argument in a bucket. You think differently from all of us, despite our differing views, despite our differing paths and experiences, to you, we're all a homogeneous mass of stupid, hysterical (context 1 or 2), irrational man haters. This really isn't the case, but you have made your mind up.