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What are feminists actually like?

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breko · 11/04/2014 23:31

Before I start, I'm not here to bash on about anything or anyone.

So, I'm not a woman myself, and i'll probably get banned for being a man on a 'mums' website, but anyway.

What are feminists actually like? There seems to be varied and mixed feelings towards you feminists. I've visited many sites and know many people who claim feminism is simply the idea of superiority and entitlements for woman, from posters, demonstrations and the media, im honestly starting to believe this. Can any woman actually give me a real insight into what you believe and what you think, and if feminism is actually needed in first world countries.
This is a pretty much useless post, just wanted to get thought from both sides.

Thank you. Its also quite late at night and i'm tired so this may not be worded perfectly.

OP posts:
EBearhug · 14/04/2014 00:34

he once accidentally pee'd on a pair of adders

How did the adders react? I can imagine they'd have been quite fed up. I would have been.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 13/04/2014 23:47

I could be talked into a urinal free society, I'm sure. I hate men weeing all over the place and/or leaving the seat up. Men's toilets smell. And women are usually the ones that clean them.

Women everywhere - forget equal pay, sexual equality, an end to male violence/rape culture. Let's unite to stop men standing up to pee! All hail!! Grin

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:44

So soxuhupe you are presumably nozubar? Have you gone off to change your name again? are you also the awol OP?

DadWasHere · 13/04/2014 23:43

And no, you won't be banned for being a man. This isn't Reddit.

No particular need to invoke gender for Reddit, the female posters in here would be banned from Reddit in a heartbeat if they postured anything negative about Belle Knox and choice feminism.

ErrolTheDragon · 13/04/2014 23:39

Wilson - mine too. Except when out on walks, of course... he once accidentally pee'd on a pair of adders, which I contend is the most interesting thing anyone is likely to say about vertical weeing.Grin

AskBasil · 13/04/2014 23:37

Do you have a 1 in 4 chance of being raped or sexually assaulted in your lifetime soxu.

I do.

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:33

oooh have we silenced him? come on soxu, come out to play

WilsonFrickett · 13/04/2014 23:32

My DH sits down to pee. He likes to have a little read while he wazzes, and it means there's no seat up/down arguments in our house. He's not even a feminist sox. What should I do about my urinal-rejecting DH? Will no-one think of the urinals???

CaptChaos · 13/04/2014 23:32

Then quit whining about urinals in your safe developed rich free-speech country and go fight for women's rights in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan.

Why can't I find a new bingo card when I need one?

ErrolTheDragon · 13/04/2014 23:31

'go fight for women's rights in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan.'

Feminists typically do that, while at the same time continuing to push for true equality closer to home too.

FloraFox · 13/04/2014 23:31

Good lord, here's a ripe one. Feminists conspiring against peeing? Next thing you know they'll be murdering two male partners a week.

Martorana · 13/04/2014 23:29

You know I've had a quick hunt for anything approaching the "peeing standing up is an unacceptable macho gesture" thing but can only find a Spectator article by Jasper Gerard. I suspect he might have been.....er...taking the piss?

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:28

soxu there is only one person who is whining about urinals here, and it is you

soxuhupe · 13/04/2014 23:26

You want to help women who really are oppressed? Then quit whining about urinals in your safe developed rich free-speech country and go fight for women's rights in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan.

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:24

soxu, have you ever experienced sexual violence, as a victim?

AskBasil · 13/04/2014 23:24

Do wipe your own mess up won't you Soxu.

joanofarchitrave · 13/04/2014 23:24

Nothing to stop women standing up to pee except our knickers. Poor women in Victorian times used to pee over the gutters in the street.

The Left Party must give its PR agency a bonus - a proposal made by a party with less than 6% of the vote in Sweden has become an internet cause celebre. Job done, presumably.

soxuhupe · 13/04/2014 23:24

I hope it's not against NM guidelines to point out feminism today in developed countries is a complete joke.

Actually I don't really care what the guidelines are.

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:22

soxu I hope it's not against MN talk guidelines to point out that you're a right saddo

soxuhupe · 13/04/2014 23:22

I always thought men stood to pee because it's simply quicker and more convenient, but I thank feminists for revealing the shocking revelation to me.

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:21

Yes soxu. That is an excellent precis of feminism!

Though actually I do agree that men generally piss on the floor and women generally wipe it up

Martorana · 13/04/2014 23:21

You know, I could easily find some bonkers MRA articles to show how virulently anti woman they are, and say that this shows that all men are virulently anti woman,But I wouldn't- because it's not true.I've tried to have a sensible discussion- but it hasn't worked. Off you pop and rant about urinals somewhere else.

soxuhupe · 13/04/2014 23:21

brb folks I gotta go pee triumph in my masculinity and degrade women by extension Grin

rootypig · 13/04/2014 23:19

Like........the implication they are not normal, soxu? Grin

soxuhupe · 13/04/2014 23:19

Young women in Sweden, Germany and Australia have a new cause: They want men to sit down while urinating.

This demand comes partly from concerns about hygiene avoiding the splash factor but, as Jasper Gerard reports in the English magazine The Spectator, ''more crucially because a man standing up to urinate is deemed to be triumphing in his masculinity, and by extension, degrading women.'' One argument is that if women can't do it, then men shouldn't either. Another is that standing upright while relieving oneself is ''a nasty macho gesture,'' suggestive of male violence.

A feminist group at Stockholm University is campaigning to ban all urinals from campus, and one Swedish elementary school has already removed them. Some Swedish women are pressuring their men to take a stand, so to speak. Yola, a 25-year-old Swedish trainee psychiatrist, says she dumps boyfriends who insist on standing. ''What else can I do?,'' said her new boyfriend, Ingvar, who sits.

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