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I support Page 3, who's with me?

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Beth9009 · 17/01/2014 12:10

This might not go down well, but I cannot accept the campaign to ban Page 3. Here's why:

There is nothing wrong with the naked female body. A woman posing with her breasts on show is not lewd nor is it harmful to children.

Hypocrisy - Page 3 is no different to male models posing shirtless in women's magazines.

Prudishness - People who claim that newspapers should be banned from showing topless women are no different to the Victorians or to people in conservative parts of the world who don't allow women to show bare legs. It's the same principle.

Market mechanisms - if there is a demand for something and a consenting adult willing to supply it, then who is the government to get in the way?

Freedom of choice - if you don't like it, don't buy the Sun!

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K8Middleton · 17/01/2014 17:13

beth, no-one is blaming your evident lack of sense on the fact that whisk doesn't agree with you. The two things are both true, and unconnected with each other.

Actual Muttley laugh here!

SauceForTheGander · 17/01/2014 17:12

Shitters . Is it that dangerous feminist agenda issue again,

BINGO

Beth9009 · 17/01/2014 17:12

K8Middleton Fri 17-Jan-14 17:10:04
So, erm, if it is not mysognistic words or imagery that needs to be tackled what am I supposed to be doing as a feminist?

Or Beth, do please tell me!
_-

Tackle individual words if you want, but don't try to get them banned. Just oppose them with argument. More importantly, try to tackle wider bodies of thinking. Modern feminists focus too much on individuals words and issues.

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CaptainHindsight · 17/01/2014 17:12

"These people are dangerous."

Sticks and stones love.

Rapists,Pedophiles and murderers are dangerous. Or are they just expressing their sexual desires? Free speech/thought and actions yeah?

Whiskwarrior · 17/01/2014 17:12

Maybe she was 'influenced' (not by me, I might add because I've not played the damn song or had the music channels on), but she still understands what's wrong with it. She gets it in a way you never will.

And if she is influenced, I'm glad she's under the right kind of influence rather than the kind who believe we're all just sexual beings and that's what matters.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 17/01/2014 17:11

You know, if I were an internet troll, which I'm not, I would stop using grammatical constructions that beg for snarky replies.

beth, no-one is blaming your evident lack of sense on the fact that whisk doesn't agree with you. The two things are both true, and unconnected with each other.

K8Middleton · 17/01/2014 17:11

just because you don't agree with me, it doesn't mean I don't have any sense.

And like an ever spinning wheel op, we return to the need for evidence. Just a shred would do.

SauceForTheGander · 17/01/2014 17:11

Even my phone is giving up.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 17/01/2014 17:11

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SauceForTheGander · 17/01/2014 17:11

But you haven't been influenced by society at all?

Are yo

K8Middleton · 17/01/2014 17:10

So, erm, if it is not mysognistic words or imagery that needs to be tackled what am I supposed to be doing as a feminist?

Or Beth, do please tell me!

Beth9009 · 17/01/2014 17:09

Whiskwarrior, just because you don't agree with me, it doesn't mean I don't have any sense.

And on your post, right, your daughter's decision to describe Robin Thicke as sexist was entirely off her own free will. Sure it was. I'm sure your daughter is a very bright girl, but obviously she has been influenced.

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 17/01/2014 17:09
Grin

K8 that's a horrifying image.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 17/01/2014 17:09

One of my pet hates is the over-general use of the term 'literature'.

'Literature' should not refer to political or ideological writing, IMO. War and Peace is 'literature'; The Second Sex is not.

However, despite the use of a high-sounding word to justify the fact you imagine we're not like writers of 'literature', actually, yes, these are part of the same thing.

It's called feminism.

(Oh, and I'm on the bandwagon with the sacking of men! Ooh yes! My DH first, please, the penis-bearing misogynist that he is, earning the money and supporting my witterings on the net.)

AMumInScotland · 17/01/2014 17:08

Yeah, right, everything that's wrong in the world can be blamed on feminism and political correctness Hmm

K8Middleton · 17/01/2014 17:07

You missed the bit just before page 4 LRD where Dworkin whilst posing in a pair of pale pink lacy pants, outlined just how liberating objectified pictures of women are.

And you call yourself a feminist. You're not half the feminist Beth is!

Whiskwarrior · 17/01/2014 17:07

I know posters on here who are younger than you and have more sense!

OP, you are embarrassing yourself.

I'm embarrassed for you.

Beth9009 · 17/01/2014 17:06

TunipTheUnconquerable Fri 17-Jan-14 17:03:20
Clearly you don't, if you think feminists challenging sexist language is anything new.

There's a difference between challenging it through writing literature and starting Facebook pages to have it banned. Banning words, ha! The arrogance is astounding. That's what some of these modern feminists want. They want men sacked from their jobs if they dare utter a word that isn't part of the prescribed terminology. These people are dangerous.

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Whiskwarrior · 17/01/2014 17:05

This is one of the most depressing things I've come across on this site. My daughter is 12. She is not a sexual object (and never fucking will be, thanks) and is leaps and bounds ahead of you, OP, in her 'free thinking' already. She can spot sexism a mile off (like that Blurred Lines song, which she won't listen to because she's twigged what it's about) and has figured out (without my input) that Page 3 is objectifying women in a way that is wrong.

My sons are 9 and 5 - I don't buy The Sun, but their Dad (my ex) does and did when we lived together. Do I want them growing up thinking that's what women are for? No, I don't.

And at the risk of being deleted I can say this to you - you are a child. I read your other thread about your step-son. Except he isn't because you are 10 years older than him, he couldn't even technically be your child because you were a child when he was born. He is not going to call you Mum and give it a few years and your desperation to be cool and hang out with him is going to embarrass him.

When you have kids of your own, I hope you look back at your posts and your attitude here and are ashamed of yourself. And I hope to God you never have a daughter because your idea of feminism is shocking.

K8Middleton · 17/01/2014 17:04
LRDtheFeministDragon · 17/01/2014 17:04

Don't worry, beth, I don't think your lack of understanding of historical issues is down to your age either.

I'm totes unradical myself, as we twentysomethings are wont to be. But which bit of Dworkin did I miss, where she discussed how page 3 is, like, well liberating?

CaptainHindsight · 17/01/2014 17:04

Im 26.

Not even as a teenager did I think men "needed" page 3.

My father taught me better than that.

TunipTheUnconquerable · 17/01/2014 17:03

Clearly you don't, if you think feminists challenging sexist language is anything new.

CaptainHindsight · 17/01/2014 17:02

I cannot be part of this movement.

^NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

This is the worst thing that happened to Feminism since Robin Thicko.

Beth9009 · 17/01/2014 17:02

Turnip, just because I'm 25 it doesn't mean that I don't know what I'm talking about when it comes to historical issues.

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