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Pole dancing exercise classes

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BadgerBumBag · 20/11/2013 08:25

A friend is organising a group pole dancing class as a fun night out. I have reservations. I won't lie, most of my reluctance is due to being rather larger and less fit than the others, but I can't help feeling uncomfortable with the whole idea.

Am I being daft or does gyrating round a pole as exercise seem ok to you?

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Mitchy1nge · 20/11/2013 20:19

oh I seeeeeee is a night out

sorry

MummyofIsla · 20/11/2013 20:19

I used to do pole dancing (for exercise) before having DD. I even had a pole (which I sold to buy a cot haha.)

It was an all female class and it was the best fun i've ever had, not to mention extremely hard work! You only had to look at the instructor (tbf an ex stripper) who was about 50 but had the body o a 20 something year old to know that it worked.

Mitchy1nge · 20/11/2013 20:18

what about adult gymnastics or crossfit or something like that?

MistAllChuckingFrighty · 20/11/2013 20:15

This thread will become very polarised (see what I did there), they always do

"Pole dancing as exercise" is an absolute triumph of choicey, empowerfulising bollocks designed to make women look very silly indeed in the face of their own objectification.

Please use your brain, and not your manpleasing shimmy.

BadgerBumBag · 20/11/2013 20:08

I know, I have an underlying unease. It is good exercise but I have a niggle about it.

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Mitchy1nge · 20/11/2013 19:18

I would rather do gymnastics I think, everything about pole dancing seems so grim. Do you have to do it wear high heels too? Grin Maybe in about a million years when everything else has evened out between the sexes.

FloraFox · 20/11/2013 17:43

As Ryan Gosling's character said in Crazy Stupid Love: "The war between the sexes is over. We won the second women started doing pole dancing for exercise."

BadgerBumBag · 20/11/2013 12:42

I think I may try it... Might be fun. Looks like I may have the wrong impression of it. Thanks all!

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samandi · 20/11/2013 09:42

Oh and yes, no need to worry about being heavier - plenty of bigger women do pole.

samandi · 20/11/2013 09:41

I don't particularly like the "gyrating round a pole" aspect, but the more acrobatic elements are great. Not sure how much you'd learn of that just from a taster class, but you'll never know if you don't go. On the other hand, if nothing about it appeals, I wouldn't bother. I know that I wouldn't enjoy paintballing so there's little point in me going on a paintballing weekend. Just depends on your interests.

Chopstheduck · 20/11/2013 09:39

It's fantastic fun. It was a fab girly atmosphere and it was more like learning a form of gymnastics than seedy. Pole did originate as a sport long before it went into the strip clubs.

Don't worry about fitness or weight. Bigger girls can pole quite successfully! All you really need to start with is to be able to hold your own body weight for a few seconds - which almost anyone can do. I started quite overweight, I was running but needed to tone, and it was great for that. I would have loved to continue but it is an expensive hobby!

Check out She was fab on X-factor America, and really shows anyone can pole!

huhmuhguh · 20/11/2013 09:32

I've done pole fitness classes before and they were so much fun (and hard work!)

The class I did concentrated on learning how to spin and developing your core. It was most definitely not sexy in any way!

I wouldn't let being unfit or being a bigger girl put you off - I'm unfit and overweight myself and I was quite good at it Grin

BadgerBumBag · 20/11/2013 08:26

*does it seem wrong to you

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