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Seems Mums don't play with Lego...

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EduCated · 15/11/2013 17:44

...at least not according to one of this week's MN competitions Hmm

Let Dad relax and have some fun, quality time with the kids. Grab a box of LEGO and see where their imaginations take them. With the LEGO brick you can build anything your imagination desires, as the latest TV ad from LEGO shows.

LEGO has been covering playroom floors since 1949 and today it is still the number one kids construction toy. So popular is LEGO worldwide, that there are now 80 LEGO bricks to every person in the world! Why not challenge Dads and kids to see what they could build with 80 LEGO Bricks?

To celebrate the joy of LEGO, four Mumsnetters can win a LEGO Build & Play Box. The children are going to love it and Dad's will feel a sense of childhood nostalgia as they get back to playtime basics and build with the kids.

If Dad's are after some building inspiration, check out the latest TV ad from LEGO, tissues at the ready.

I mean, really? Are single mums allowed to enter, or is having a Dad in the house mandatory?

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DrinkFeckArseGirls · 15/11/2013 21:52

I think they should fire whoever wrote it and who proofread it.

Curbyourlassitude · 15/11/2013 21:50

I do 90% of the playing in this house whether it's lego, playmobil, dolls or role play.

I also get annoyed at the assumption that it's men who do all the swinging around/wrestling/rough and tumble stuff.

I've always done most of that too!

NothingMoreScaryThanAHairy · 15/11/2013 21:47

the more I think about this the more I think is it really 2013! Really? because that ad does NOT read like it at all!

Procrastinating · 15/11/2013 21:45

Thanks wonderstuff, I can see the colours are gendered, I just wondered if it goes further than that.

My dd will be doing star wars lego with her mother tomorrow. We are both extremely good at it.

NothingMoreScaryThanAHairy · 15/11/2013 21:42

Bloody hell! that's appalling HTF did that get onto the website!!!!!

For the record dh is shit not very good at lego where as I love it (and ikea which is lego for grown ups!Grin).

Come on MN you can do better than this....

SteamWisher · 15/11/2013 21:26

I love Lego. I've been building DS's sets every evening although DH has now taken over.

OrlandoWoolf · 15/11/2013 21:12

I'm sure Mitchell and Webb could alter this advert to reflect how advertisers see the role of mums and dads with their children Grin

CatherineMumsnet · 15/11/2013 21:12

Hi all, we're really sorry about this and completely see (and agree with) your point. We will flag it up to the relevant people, but as it's the weekend it may be a couple of days before we have a proper response for you.

Bear with us and keep the reports coming in, we do appreciate them.

Wonderstuff · 15/11/2013 21:09

Lego friends is if anything slightly more fiddley than 'normal' Lego, the figures are designed differently and don't stick to bricks so have to be balanced.

TheDoctrineOfWho · 15/11/2013 20:56

The phrase I hate most is, "Dad will feel a sense of childhood nostalgia..."

Even if you are trying to genderise Lego today so that you can sell Lego Friends, don't fucking retcon the "Lego is a toy for kids" out of history. 30 years ago, today's mums and dads were equally targeted as Lego users.

Procrastinating · 15/11/2013 20:56

Is lego friends easier to do than normal lego?

Wonderstuff · 15/11/2013 20:49

bsc the thing is that little girls are so aware of girls and boys toys that girls want 'girls' toys. I would be more than happy to buy any Lego for DD but she wants Friends. Other than Duplo, which is still reassuringly gender neutral most of the Lego sets have gender bias now, even Lego City has mainly male figures.

HazeltheMcWitch · 15/11/2013 20:48

I bought some pink bricks from that pick-a-brick thing in the lego store.

But - gasp! - for my DS. In my ongoing effort to make pink just another colour.

woollyjo · 15/11/2013 20:45

I have two sisters, no brothers and was bought lego by my mum, as I recall it was one of our fave toys. I have two dds and lego is constantly out and being requested (not lego 'friends', it is shite).

bsc · 15/11/2013 20:42

Oh- looked at the comp... we already have that box! We bought it at Legoland Windsor this summer Sad

samandi · 15/11/2013 20:41

Wonderstuff - Back in the 80s it WASN'T a boys' toy, so of course you wouldn't've been aware of it!

bsc · 15/11/2013 20:38

I fucking hate Lego Friends, makes me so Angry

The one toy that had no need to be genderised.

What makes me even AngryAngryAngryier and Sad is that Lego has seen a 25% increase in sales since they introduced it.

WHat kind of wankers wouldn't buy lego for girls before Friends was introduced?

Lego was both mine and DH's favourite toy as a child, and it is both my girl and my boy's favourite toy now. We don't have any pink pieces Hmm

Wonderstuff · 15/11/2013 20:36

I love Lego. Reading that gave me rage, disappointed with MN. Back in the 80s I wasn't aware that it was a boys toy, there was none of this pink crap, I'm sure mums and dads would have played with it in equal numbers.

I'm gutted dd is indifferent to Lego. Hoping ds will get it. If I win the comp I'll be playing by myself I suspect.

EBearhug · 15/11/2013 20:36

I don't mind the general "Lego is a good way for a Dad to bond with his son" vibe of the TV ad because it is actually true

Except that it could be "Lego is a good way for a parent to bond with his or her child."

Lego and Meccano were the best toys.

LEMisafucker · 15/11/2013 20:34

I am the lego-queen in this house, i put all the sets together no one else gets a look in. DP loves when i do the lego with DD as he has to play with her loads as i don't do imagination. I love lego.

Ilovexmastime · 15/11/2013 20:31

wtaf? this has pissed me right off. I spend more time playing with the lego than anyone else in our house (5-11pm one night last week!).

NeverKnowinglyUnderstood · 15/11/2013 20:23

lego is perhaps my favourite thing to play with with my boys.. I love building train sets with them as well.

monkeywrench · 15/11/2013 20:22

I'm also really getting the rage with all this pink lego boxes and lego friends crap, both DS and DD play with lego, DP is pretty crap at it, I, however, am FANTASTIC....i once built a tractor one handed for DS whilst BFing DD, without instructions, get me eh?

OrlandoWoolf · 15/11/2013 20:12

In advertising world, dads play with their children (Think Lego and that Robinson's friend advert) whilst mums do the parenting stuff like food, cleaning, buying clothes etc.

tribpot · 15/11/2013 20:10

EduCated - no, I am amazed to say that the Lego shop in Leeds is so enlightened that it is willing to hand out VIP cards even to the little ladies. Shockingly they also employ women as well - what is the world coming to?