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Lapdancing and telling off dh's mate.

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Manchesterhistorygirl · 02/10/2013 17:41

I blame you lot. Thanks.

Last night dh's friend was telling him all about his recent visit to a lap dancing bar. I told him he and his mates were a bunch of twats and I was disgusted at them all, especially since they all have partners.

I also told dh if I ever found out he'd done the same it'd be the absolute last thing he ever did.

So my nest of vipers, thank you for giving me the confidence to handle a situation I've always found disgusting, but wouldn't have ever spoken out about until I joined here.

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Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:42

Sab - I see violent threats different to an opinion on a situation.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:42

I think I'll go back to the kittens now.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:40

Registary - it wasn't the OP passing legislation that effects you. It was a point made to her husband and his mate.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:38

bale you've been abusive to the op, and been reported for it Hmm why up in arms about someone else?

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:38

Sab - that's fair enough. It was people telling me to get outraged when I thought I was.

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SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:37

Post pub chuck out = hairy handers everywhere.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:37

Registry - don't you have school tomorrow? You have been reported, and don't personally attack the OP. Especially when being abusive. If you feel you have a point make it more generally.

Wow

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:35

I'm not sure they are, bale. Or maybe we're just ignoring you as we should have done from the beginning.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:33

Are my post not showing?

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:33

Or maybe not.

Maybe OP is justified in being against lap dancing clubs - just a thought.

AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:33

The MRA klaxon has clearly been sounded somewhere in the bowels of t'internet

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Manchesterhistorygirl · 03/10/2013 23:32

Odfod registry. If another adult enters my private space, spouts mysogynistic shite and I call them on that behaviour I then run the risk of being physically attacked in my home? What a crock of shite.

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AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:32

Me? I'm flabberghasted.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:32

Sab - one of my mates? What?

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SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:31

For several hours you argued about OP's choice of words on this thread - yet registry is ok? Just a bit mad. How surprising.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:30

He give humans/men/his family/ apes a bad name. That is clearly abusive. It's in black an white. It's not been goaded. It's some deep routed shit.

Please report it. I don't want to say 'you can't talk to women like that' but I have. Sorry if that is annoying

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:28

Ah, he's a nutjob. but he's one of your mates So no point speaking out? Yet you were so vociferous against OP....

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Manchesterhistorygirl · 03/10/2013 23:27

Bale I only cleared it up now because I've been put all afternoon and evening, hence the enormous time gap in my posting.

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Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:26

He clearly is after a fight. If he knocks my teeth out i will have knotted hair or flys that won't do up.
You guys have already reported? Right?

He is a fundamental nut job

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:25

Come on baley - where's the distraught about op being threatened with getting her teeth knocked out over her stance against lap dancing clubs? Lets have a little continuity here!

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:22

Yes, I think you should baleyboy.