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Lapdancing and telling off dh's mate.

365 replies

Manchesterhistorygirl · 02/10/2013 17:41

I blame you lot. Thanks.

Last night dh's friend was telling him all about his recent visit to a lap dancing bar. I told him he and his mates were a bunch of twats and I was disgusted at them all, especially since they all have partners.

I also told dh if I ever found out he'd done the same it'd be the absolute last thing he ever did.

So my nest of vipers, thank you for giving me the confidence to handle a situation I've always found disgusting, but wouldn't have ever spoken out about until I joined here.

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Yougotbale · 04/10/2013 01:34

That was me knobber and I apologised first. It was a bit tongue in cheek lol

BitBewildered · 04/10/2013 01:32
Wink
SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/10/2013 01:31

"It was yougotbale" Grin ha ha.

BitBewildered · 04/10/2013 01:29

It was yougotbale.

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SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/10/2013 01:20

Who says that registary? No one I know that's for sure. Sure you're not falling back on the MRA straw man there?

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SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/10/2013 00:42

He could do that. If he was a misogynist twat, who hadn't actually realised that women are equals.

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ravenAK · 04/10/2013 00:31

It actually is quite nice.

It would make it slightly socially easier for OP & her dh to chuck the wanky little grub out of their home, rather than feeling a bit guilty because he's a family friend, who hadn't hitherto revealed himself as quite such a wanky little grub.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/10/2013 00:30

"little morals" yes registry. That's right. Women's feelings are all "little" and "inconsequential" aren't they? Hope you enjoy your limited time on MN - or that inventing new e-mail addresses is a particular hobby of yours

Jess, I know exactly what you mean.

JessInAvalon · 04/10/2013 00:28

That's nice Registary.

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JessInAvalon · 04/10/2013 00:15

Wow, not checked for most of the day and now see there are nearly 300 replies on this thread!

I wish I could like a lot of the responses on here. When my ex boyfriend went to a strip club I didn't have the guts to speak out. We did argue about it later. There's no way I would put up with it now and I would always challenge someone for going now. I think it is a form of cheating because most people wouldn't put up with their partner paying an 18 year old to rub themselves naked on their lap at home. And most men are very hypocritical and would hate it if it was their sister/daughter doing it. So ok to degrade someone else's sister/daughter but not their own. I hate it that some men divide women into two groups - one group they can respect and another group they don't have to. Hypocrisy IMHO.

Yougotbale · 04/10/2013 00:14

What? A cat man rather than a dog man.

We had a tabby and a pure black one just like Sabrina

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 04/10/2013 00:11

Yes, baley. I thought you'd get onto that sort of thing soon. We all knew the sort of poster you were. Did you think you had us fooled? Ha ha. Or should that be f**led? Ten a penny.

Yougotbale · 04/10/2013 00:01

Those same kittens would eat you if you passed away. Only kidding, I like pussies. I prefer the general domestic to the over bread ones. They tend to have better temperaments

SunshineSuperNova · 03/10/2013 23:59

Manchester well done for speaking up.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:55

Kittens are cute and endearing. You are not.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:50

Ok SAB, sorry. I thought abuse might be on a spectrum. That thing you said about kittens is still fresh. I mustn't yawn

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:49

Plus, I thought you'd apologised for reading the op wrong there, bale.

Gah. Can anyone be arsed with these posters? They're so tedious!

AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:48

Being lumped in with the goady hecklers must be very upsetting and feel like you have been treated very unfairly. What say you, YGB ?

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:45

yawn. how boring you are bale. I'm terribly tired of people like you.

BasilBabyEater · 03/10/2013 23:44

Another ten-a-penny nincompoop