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Childbirth rights- are you pro-choice?

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Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 18:30

I am sure majority of the ladies who post on the women's rights forum are pro-choice, and support a woman's right to terminate a pregnancy.

My question is more about the woman's rights when she chooses to continue with the pregnancy. Should she have full control over how she gives birth?

I'm not talking about outrageous requests like demanding that a doctor perform IVF and get you pregnant with sextuplets or that a doctor perform an appendectomy or chop off a limb during pregnancy just because the woman wants it.

However, childbirth is a slightly different situation because the baby will come out somehow and I feel liken the woman should have a voice in how and where that happens. It is also quite common for doctors to be biased towards fetal rights and override what the woman feels more comfortable with.

So I am therefore referring to a woman's right to choose how she should give birth, as I happen to think this is a feminist issue.

Do you think women should be able to choose the following (as long as they are fully informed about the pros and cons)?

A home birth?

An elective cesarean?

An epidural?

An elective induction?

Or do you think that a doctor should be able to force a woman to give birth in a way that she doesn't feel comfortable?

Despite the NICE guidelines saying that it is ultimately the woman's choice if she wants an elective cesarean or a home birth, women are still having to fight for these unconventional choices.

Just as it can be disempowering to be forced to stay pregnant against your will, it can also be disempowering to give birth in a way that you don't want

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Circaea · 24/05/2013 08:35

This is a very interesting thread. I'm still in two minds, having read all of your comments.

I think part of the dilemma comes from birth being both medical (complications) and non-medical (normal low risk birth). And disagreements about where the line is. I don't think there is enough evidence about risk in pregnancy for anyone to be categorical about many situations (although some are clearer) - as people have pointed out the policy on VBACs has changed recently.

So, it's a grey area. And also a sensitive area, with new life involved. And also the only major involvement with the healthcare system many people will have until old age. So 'healthy' people are rightly resentful of being 'medicalised' when they may not feel it's warranted.

Clearly, where the intervention of medical professionals is required they must be allowed to follow clinical procedure - they're trained after all and those procedures are designed to keep us safe. However, the standard rules of informed consent apply just as they would for any other medical intervention.

But I think the above circumstances have to be taken into account - it's unreasonable to expect women to go along with medical advice blindly, a higher level of information is required. It's not like breaking your leg, which is more clear cut. And with that goes greater choice about the outcome.

Do I think women should have absolute choice? Difficult.

To refuse treatment, yes. That's the right of anyone offered medical treatment.

To be supported in a natural birth in order to avoid medicalisation of birth, if medicalisation is not justified? Yes.

To demand treatment? No, as that goes over the line into the medical sphere where I think we need to live by the rules of healthcare provision (unless by exercising the choice to go against medical advice, we waive the right to complain/seek compensation if something goes wrong). There's obviously also a cost lens, funds are not infinite for healthcare.

However, all risk factors being relatively equal, women should certainly have a choice between medical options. And much more needs to be done to take the wishes of women more seriously - there are too many stories of women not being heard when they say their pain is unbearable, or they feel that something is wrong with their labour, or that they are terrified of birth.

I think it's an important debate, because approximately half the population will experience this at least once in their lives and it does have a lot of undercurrents about the wider position of women in society. I don't think the current situation is ideal, so I think we need to keep poking things to improve the situation.

Finallygotaroundtoit · 24/05/2013 08:09

Jedward I'm glad it went well but cost would come in to it if your baby needed special care.

Some babies don't get the care they need due to lack of cots. If a woman's right to choose means some one ele's baby suffers is that not a feminist issue?

scottishmummy · 24/05/2013 07:56

hcp,drs are accountable for interventions.this isn't a case mum singularly bear consequence
health interventions outcome affect the individual,the staff,the child
I think op grasp of health,and decision making is woeful,but she's got a line she's sticking too

VivaLeBeaver · 24/05/2013 07:50

If a woman asked a Dr for a procedure/operation which wasn't the safest choice and he agreed to do it as she was making an informed choice, if there was a bad outcome the Dr would still be held accountable and could potentially get Into trouble.

scottishmummy · 24/05/2013 07:38

no.its not only the woman in the clinical decision making,she'll be supported by team
this is most definitely not a singular decision.its a health decision facilitated by info hcp provides
of course the decision is shared as its assisted health intervention.the mother,the staff,the institution

Salbertina · 24/05/2013 07:14

Clinicians have to make decisions all the time -in all areas of health not just childbirth- the consequences of which other people have to live with! To question that is at best faintly ridiculous. Any operation etc would normally be on the basis of informed consent- as in informed by the expert clinician not google/some half-baked pressure group

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:40

jedward I am glad you made the choice you felt was best. :)

As I said, you are the one who has to live with the outcome so how can it be someone else's decision?

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JedwardScissorhands · 23/05/2013 22:34

I had an induction at just over 33 weeks actually. I had a risk of a complication from a previous pregnancy recurring, which ultimately could have lead to still birth or severe disability as a result of hypoxic brain damage.

The obstetrician was very against this, wanted me to go full term, and I had to fight to be allowed to do this. The likelihood of the recurrence was very small, but the outcome much worse than problems associated with late prematurity. I preferred the higher risk of a less serious outcome.

The obstetrician thought I was bonkers; should I have been denied the right to make this decision because she disagreed with my logic? Rational adults can come to two different but equally rational and valid conclusions on the same set of facts.

Cost not an issue as I would have been induced at 39 weeks anyway, the disagreement was only about timing.

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:23

Yay! Grin

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VivaLeBeaver · 23/05/2013 22:20

Yes, I'm very glad she was supported by midwives. And she had a lovely home birth! Grin

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:18

Viva But at least she was supported by midwives. Imagine if they had refused to attend the home birth! As long as it was an educated choice, it was her decision and I support it.

Is she alright though?

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Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:17

scottishmummy Your grasp of reality is woeful.

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VivaLeBeaver · 23/05/2013 22:16

I know of a really, really high risk woman who had a home birth against advice. She was about as high risk as it gets. Drs told her she was risking the life of her baby and possibly her own.....they weren't exaggerating.

She had a home birth.....it's the one thing a dr can't stop. The woman can just decline to come to hospital. She was well supported my midwives in her decision, once it was realised that's she was sticking by her decision. At the end of the day it was her choice.

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:15

In the above two scenarios an investigation into the matter after the fact will be little consolation to the woman.

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Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:15

scottishmummy Hmm

So let's say I am refused a repeat cesarean and effectively forced into a VBAC. The VBAC results in uterine rupture and my baby dies. Will I not be the one to live with it?

Let's say I am tokophobic and I am refused an elective cesarean. If I suffer PTSD and a fourth degree tear, will I not be the one to live with it or will it be someone else?

The health risks of any mode of delivery are faced by the woman at the end of the day, not the person treating her. So obviously she is the one who will have to live with what happens.

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Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:11

badguider Exactly. I struggle to answer the same question myself. The situation with regards to abortion is very similar in many American states. Abortion is legal, but since their is no willing provider women who can't pay to have it done elsewhere have no choice but to continue with the pregnancy. And this, unfortunately, does reduce them to incubators.

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scottishmummy · 23/05/2013 22:10

actually no the woman doesn't just have to live with it whatever happens
trained staff are accountable,have professional regulatory bodies who investigate poor practice
your grasp of health care,resource and risk,and professional responsibilities is woeful

VivaLeBeaver · 23/05/2013 22:10

In America women as incubators is more of a reality. www.motherjones.com/politics/2013/05/buckhalter-mississippi-stillbirth-manslaughter

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:09

scottishmummy It might be more productive if you participated in the discussion instead of posting cryptic messages which are aimed at criticising.

What is your POV? Do you think women should be able to choose how to give birth or not?

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scottishmummy · 23/05/2013 22:06

you quite simply have an agenda that you're sticking too irrespective of contrary pov
women as incubators might sound really right on in socialsciencetatic essay
but it's hollow quip with no substantive basis

badguider · 23/05/2013 22:04

I support a woman's right to choose but I also support any individual hcp's right not to be involved in something they believe is very dangerous.
If I was a MW or doctor (I'm not) I would not be able to support somebody choosing a course of action I believed to be deadly - but if all hcp's refuse to support a choice then really the woman doesn't have that choice. It's a conundrum I have no answer for.

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:04

Also, like Viva pointed out protocol is also cost based, not just evidence based. Secondly, in many areas of childbirth we do not yet have enough evidence to be able to say with certainty what is best.

Whatever happens, good or bad, ultimately the woman has to live with it. Therefore, the decision should ultimately be hers.

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Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 22:01

Salbertina Gender is irrelevant. It could be a he or she, it honestly doesn't matter!

Clinicians are held accountable but many decisions are in a grey area. Such as the decision on how a woman with one prior cesarean should give birth. Or how a woman with tokophobia should give birth. There is no right or wrong answer here and even clinicians amongst themselves might disagree on these issues. Therefore, it is entirely possible for there to be a conflict of opinion between doctor and patient and it may be very difficult to say who is right and who is not.

I agree with you that ideally high risk women should not have a home birth. But would you advocate a high risk woman being forced to have a hospital birth against her will? Or would you advocate a woman being forced to have a VBAC/repeat cesarean?

Doesn't that sort of system reduce women to incubators who have no say in what happens to their bodies?

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Salbertina · 23/05/2013 21:56

Clinicians are held accountable and therefore cannot just follow their "personal bias" (and, btw, obstetricians are FAR more likely to be a she than a he!) They have evidenced-based protocol to follow and for a reason.

Safety -of the mother and baby/ must be paramount and therefore choice at times is secondary.

There is no way a high risk woman should have a home-birth (and i speak as someone who had a homebirth!)

Feminist5 · 23/05/2013 21:55

scottishmummy I am not digressing. I am actually trying to address the topic this thread was originally about- choices in childbirth. It isn't about trusting doctors because we all have our own opinions on that based on our life experiences. This is more about women being able to have more of a say in how they give birth.

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