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This has really upset me.

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HighBrows · 21/01/2013 17:28

Man out on bail for rape of daughter

Basically this animal man raped his daughter for over 10 years. She finally got her day in court and the 12 year sentence was reduced to 3 years ANC he's been given bail to appeal.

This judge gives very low sentences for sexual assualts. My daughters 11& 12 were listening to this with me and I told them the only way for change to shit like this is for them to strive and want change too. I told them to become future law makers.

I'm heartbroken for this woman, she is so brave and she deserved justice.

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Branleuse · 21/01/2013 19:36

thats horrific. That poor woman

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HighBrows · 21/01/2013 19:25

It seems to be the judge.

I'm going to email the minister for justice this evening.
Marceline, both are great starting points too.
I want to email the Irish Times too.

I'm so very sad this evening that this judgement is so anti women.

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MarcelineTheVampireQueen · 21/01/2013 19:12

This has really upset me too. It is becoming more and more obvious that women in Ireland arent worth considering, that we are lesser people. That we are not really people at all.

I have emailed the Rape Crisis Centre and the National Womens Council Ireland to see if there is anything to be done. This is the first time dI have ever done anything like this so I am not sure if I am going to the right places but its where I will start.

spatchcock · 21/01/2013 19:05

That poor woman. I feel teary after reading that. He's old and sick? Tough shit. His daughter will have to live with what he did to her for the rest of her life. He should be rotting in a dark dungeon somewhere. Disgraceful. The fact that he's expressed remorse is laughable. He raped her for ten years - he had plenty of time to think about what he's doing.

Is this some aspect of Irish law that has allowed this to happen? Or just because of this judge?

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HighBrows · 21/01/2013 17:56

Stuffez, this judge gives awful lenient sentences. I'm also on phone so not expressing myself properly. I feel I need to do something. I'm fed up of these men getting ridiculous sentences for crimes against women. What can I do -suggestions?!

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HighBrows · 21/01/2013 17:53

Tribpot, that's exactly it.

The audio is utterly heartbreaking, this woman was given no justice.

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StuffezLaBouche · 21/01/2013 17:52

I just dont get it. if he'd been raping unrelated women in their houses over a period of ten years he'd be down for life, surely? On crap phone so.cannot type what i want to say, but.just confusong and.upsetting.

tribpot · 21/01/2013 17:46

On the other side if I impose a heavy sentence unsuspended I will be branded as a trial judge who substituted one injustice for another. I am trying to strike a balance.

Let me see if I could find the apparent injustice against a serial rapist as more palatable as a definite injustice towards his victim and daughter? Why yes I do.

The argument seems to be, he's old and so being in prison would be tough. Guess what - she was young. She was a child. She was his child. And the prison service confirmed they would be able to offer a reasonable standard of care. He's pleaded guilty and expressed remorse - this was hardly a one-off crime.

The judge then seems to have put the prosecuting attorney under pressure to be the one asking for a custodial sentence - WTF. The guy deserves to die in prison.

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HighBrows · 21/01/2013 17:37

No they don't. I'll try and put up the audio from this woman outside the court today. I was in tears listening to her.

Her mum stayed with the father and in the past called her 'your fathers whore'. The mother should've been in the dock too.

I just hope the woman of Ireland call for change.

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TunipTheVegedude · 21/01/2013 17:33

Poor woman.
They just don't seem to count harm done to women as very serious or important, really, do they?

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HighBrows · 21/01/2013 17:29

ANC should be and.

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