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'Let Toys Be Toys' Organising Thread - Part 2

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OneHandWavingFree · 02/12/2012 12:43

"Let Toys Be Toys - For Girls, and Boys" is a campaign started by a group of Mumsnetters, to convince retailers to categorise their toys by theme or function, rather than gender.

We're inviting everyone to 'like' us on Facebook, follow us on Twitter (@LetToysBeToys) and join us right here for discussion and collaborative decision-making about the next steps of our campaign.

Himalaya has been hard at work compiling the information gathered by our fantastic LTBT Mystery Shoppers, and we will be agreeing right here how the surveys will be ranked, which retailers we will be targetting with our message, and how we will go about it.

If you think that girls and boys should feel free to play with whatever toys that interest them most, and that they shouldn't walk into a toy store and feel pressurised to conform into archaic gender roles and stifling stereotypes, please join in the discussion!

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LadyKinbote · 07/12/2012 01:20

I agree to keep it simple. To do this 'properly' we'd have to survey every store in the UK & Ireland so we may as well be honest about the data we have and make some simple recommendations based on it.

OneHandWavingFree · 07/12/2012 01:11

Just checking in for a sec to say that I'm away from home for the next few weeks and only have intermittent internet access. So I'll be checking in to read as much as I can, and will post as well when I have time (and have something of use to say!).

Not that I think you've all been wondering Wink , but I didn't want anyone to think I've lost interest. Sooooo happy to see how much everyone's doing with this Thanks Thanks Thanks. You guys are amazing.

Himalaya I think the three categories idea sounds good. And in the case of stores with 'mixed' results, it will be useful to demonstrate that things can be done differently/better by showing how different branches of the same store chain are doing it, as well as how some stores have some aisles that are sorted by function (like the TK Maxx that had a 'puzzles and games' shelf with Spiderman and pink craft sets side by side), and other aisles that are labelled for one gender or the other (it was the same store that had the globe on a "Boys" shelf, and "Girls" shelves full of makeup).

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5madthings · 07/12/2012 00:26

Sign me in. I studied sociology at uni and enjoy reading up on social influence, development etc.

I cam.use fb or email.

Himalaya · 07/12/2012 00:26

OK, I have finally got the data that we have into some shape (sorry for the delay!)

I don't think it is too bad actually. If we keep it simple I think we can divide the stores up into 3 categories good/mixed/poor and it is fairly consistent.

What helps is keeping the '11 iconic toys' out of the ranking (but using it sepperately to say what we found) - it was quite variable which stores had what combination of toys and that was making the rating very variable. if you just stick to 1) do they have signs 2) how many other signals do they use 3) is gender a main organising category on their website you do come out with a consistent list.

If you want to come and kick the statistical tires the file is on the FB admin bit - send a message to the FB page be added there, or PM if you want it sent to you.

It is as Grimma describes basically [pombear] and Thanks and I think is defensible.

The only thing is if we want it to go in the (one of the papers this Sunday) we need to sign it off tomorrow!
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LadyKinbote · 07/12/2012 00:00

Good idea, I'd love to be part of that.

ashesgirl · 06/12/2012 23:21

Would it be worth pulling a research team together now? Given that media stuff is being handled.

Thinking be great to have more research/ analysis done on stores.

But also background research on kids' development, stereotypes, lack of women in science etc. then media team could draw on all this

TheJoyfulChristmasJumper · 06/12/2012 22:24

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LadyKinbote · 06/12/2012 21:47

So. How private do we want to be? Is there anyone who wants to discuss the detail but doesn't have FB / want to out their RL name?

aufaniae · 06/12/2012 20:27

IIRC an OTBT thread becomes searchable if someone links to it.

It's not a private place. It's much less public than a normal thread, but anyone posting there about anything should be aware it's not actually private.

WineGless · 06/12/2012 20:26

Still following thread and backing you all the way.

It might be worth pming Rowan for the specific questions we want answering by MNHQ

I have shared the survey tonight via email again so hope you get some responses.
I have done virtually all my shopping online this year so not much use in stores but when I have been in Moshi monsters have been firmly in girls sections in pretty much every store. DS aged 6 is mad into them and totally not bothered

ashesgirl · 06/12/2012 20:24

Sorry - reported

ashesgirl · 06/12/2012 20:15

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LadyKinbote · 06/12/2012 20:09

I have no idea what OTBT is...

AndIfATenTonTruck · 06/12/2012 20:05

It's not searchable but it doesn't have an entry password either! Or take a rocket scientist to find it.

ashesgirl · 06/12/2012 20:03

Think you are right. That's what I recall reading somewhere.

GrimmaTheNome · 06/12/2012 20:03

Is OTBT not searchable?
I thought that was the point of it.

ashesgirl · 06/12/2012 20:00

Thanks qumquat. Smile

Been a bit manic!

Yes, I think there are concerns about discussing everything in public. Certainly the media swat team have had to collaborate offline to get things out. Is OTBT not searchable?

AndIfATenTonTruck · 06/12/2012 19:51

I'll be in for that. Although if the marketing/pr types are reading this, it's not that difficult to follow. Perhaps moving to RL email would be best. Most of us seem to be using real names on fb so we have totally outed ourselves there/here! Even creating new email accounts on gmail/yahoo etc under MN names might preserve some anonymity but keep the team communicating better.

TheJoyfulChristmasJumper · 06/12/2012 19:47

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LadyKinbote · 06/12/2012 19:26

I'm happy to chat on fb (or elsewhere). Feeling increasingly anxious that everything here is open to the public!

qumquat · 06/12/2012 19:13

Massive respect to all of you on this thread. Am following avidly! Re evidence to back up the campaign, would something from 'delusions of gender' be good? I haven't read it yet but it sounds like there could be lots of useful research in it.

GrimmaTheNome · 06/12/2012 18:32

So we come out with maybe 5 key campaign targets with clear examples of what they are doing wrong and 3 companies that we give Thanks for doing better. Except as its toys maybe a Bear

That sounds good to me (I don't FB so I'll comment here if that's ok).
Another thought might be 'The Good, the Bad and the Ugly'

5madthings · 06/12/2012 18:11

Or we could a thread in.otbt? If you know where i mean?

5madthings · 06/12/2012 18:10

Some of us chat via fb?

Himalaya · 06/12/2012 18:07

Folks -

I have been working on the survey data and come a bit unstuck....

The trouble is that although we have done a fair few surveys, the data is not yet conclusive enough to compile a robust 'top ten'. Meanwhile time ticks on and we are bang in the middle of the window of opportunity for pre-xmas media attention, with journalists asking us for info.

So .....what I propose is that we choose our campaign targets in a more qualitative way, based on the data that we have but also on where we think we might make most impact. We can back that up with the data and examples, but we are not yet in a position to definitively say who is the best and who is the worst.

So we come out with maybe 5 key campaign targets with clear examples of what they are doing wrong and 3 companies that we give Thanks for doing better.

I don't know if we should discuss bit of campaign strategy here in public, or maybe send a delegation off into a darkened room (facebook) to shortlist, and then come back to you all with a proposal and test it out with you?