Is the term 'Angry Fucking' potentially offensive to some women?

Op I apologise that the thread has been reported. I was not in anyway trying to cause trouble asking you to start a new one I simply wanted to open the forum up.

I have also posted that it was 'agreed' as such that you did this however some have still reported you so apologies for this as I did encourage you.

Can we just make clear the difference between a view and a feeling? I don't think any of us can really dictate what is offensive, what 'should' be offensive and what other people ought to find offensive.

I think all anyone can do is say that they feel offended by certain things, or by certain people saying them, whether or not they are able to articulate why.

And ed, I'm going to respect your wishes about not engaging with you, but it's bad form to refuse to engage with people yet reference them in your posts.

Just pointing that out.

There are plenty of new posters on here osh.

If you didn't want the old thread and posters dragged in it wasn't a good idea to reference and link it.

And I said I wasn't going to comment on it. Look at me!

Anyway it's not been so bad, you have a few new viewpoints, and in the interest of fairness it was necessary to include the context.

What I am getting from this is that some other people don't like the term either, but there dosent seem to be much support for the view that it would be any less offensive to those that don't like it coming from a woman either.

Hi Ohsiena and sorry for getting your name wrong this morning.

I hid the thread when I said I would, immediately I'd posted and have not been back so I don't know what has transpired since then - apart from a few vague updates I've got from reading the 'sweary' thread I found today, where a lot of the posters I was arguing with last night seem to hang out.

just wanted to say, I hope you don't think badly of me for staying away from it. I'm going to read this now x

I'm reporting you for that pickled

Can't believe I said baby dancing. The lows I have reached. [hsad]

Baby Dancing? BABY DANCING??!!!!

Wash your mouth out!!!! You'll be chucking glitter all over the place next!

We are not that sort of place. Honestly. Some people [[hhmm]

I hate it! 'Fuck' is a massive turn off for me. DH used to ask me if he could...and it just made me feel like going and f-ing himself! Angry f-ing is just vile.

Well I don't call baby dancing fucking either.

But it's all about the context to me and this was clearly not a comment intended to be sexually threatening.

People can take offence at it though. I don't blame them for that. Honestly, I've looked at the original thread and have to admit I found the joke a bit distasteful, despite being a bit of a geek and knowing about the Hulk.

I'm just not a particularly sweary person, and it isn't normal to me.

Fluffy babydancing

"let's have relations?" Or "let's do the sexuals"

I agree with scrambledegg that I'm also disappointed that something is offensive just because a man has said it.

"Angry fucking" to me implies that sort of mad sex that sometimes happens after an argument when two people who care about and love each other just need to work off some frustration.

In addition, using the word "fuck" in the appropriate context can be extremely sexy and a great turn on for both men and women.

Fast moving thread :)

Seriously. If someone says fuck you, that is on a scale of disrespectful to incredibly threatening. I can't disassociate that from the term used to describe fluffy babydancing.

Ok phew!

No to aboutlastnight

And people being more upset that the poster who made the initial joke was a man? That's sexist. Really, really sexist

Exactly that yet they didn't see it as sexist. Basically all men are sexual deviants who shouldn't make sex jokes is how the thread ended

Was that to me polar bear as if so you must have misread my post.

So I'm struggling to understand how it can mean the complete opposite when used in asexual way. But hey Ho.

No reason to take offence?
I'll feel how I choose to feel thank you, which was mildly offended by a comment I felt was very bad taste. Please do not instruct me not to take offence.
Fuck when used in a non sexual Wu tends to mean screwed up, screwed over, meddled with, completely destroyed.

blood that was my argument. If your going to be offended by a joke that's your choice but it shouldnt matter what gender the person is who made it.

I couldn't say I want to fuck you to someone as they would probably laugh