GetAll, when you try to find the women as equally culpable in the normalisation of lap dancing culture as men, you are failing to account for the fact that we are all living in an already sexist society. All women have been brought up in a society that, still, to some extent hints that women are the 'sex class' or the 'domestic class'.
How unequal society is still for women is debatable - sure, we've got the vote now, we've got the anti-discrimination and equal pay acts. Yet, somehow women, on average, still get paid less than men. They still tend to do the child rearing and part time/low paid work. There are still only a handful of women in the higher echelons of our government. There is still only a tiny proportion of women in Boardrooms. Women have a way to go before we have true equality in society.
How much equality we've already achieved seems to change on these MN threads, depending on the angle of the argument. I've been told on threads about 'feminism' that the 'war is won, we've got the vote, we've got equality, what are you all still moaning about, blah blah.' But then recently, on a thread about prostitution, I was told by a punter and by a prostitute that 'we're living in a sexist society, I can't see that changing' as a justification for prostitution. 
The woman being paid to take her clothes off in a club is already at a disadvantage in society, just because she's a woman. Add to that the constant barrage of sexual objectification of women in the media, page 3, porn, women being deemed worthless if they are unattractive to men (take the Mary Beard debacle) and then you've got your answer as to why women may look for jobs in the sex industry. It was described by TittyDancer as 'if you can't beat them, join them.'
Therefore, I will absolutely not hold the women working in these clubs, as equally culpable as the club owners, (who are overwhelmingly male, and cashing in on the exploitation of women), or the men that go and flash their cash in these clubs.