Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Abortion to be reduced to 20 weeks

505 replies

avenueone · 02/10/2012 22:51

There is a story on the front page of the Telegraph tomorrow (paper review) saying that in brief due to babies? being able to survive from a younger age it should be reduced.
I personally don't think this is an argument as I doubt they could survive without medical intervention. I feel it is just another attempt to undermine a woman's right to choose what we do with out bodies. Sorry no link but there should be one around tomorrow and I will try and post it.

OP posts:
OptimisticPessimist · 05/10/2012 14:28

I would say that having an abortion is just as much taking responsibility as continuing the pregnancy. It is accepting that conception has occurred and deciding the best course of action for yourself, your unborn child and anyone else needing consideration. In some cases it could be considered less responsible to continue the pregnancy than to abort.

And I don't think it matters whether someone might have been fine if they hadn't had an abortion, what's important is that they didn't want to remain pregnant. It's not just about "coping fine with motherhood". I can't verbalise what I want to say here but I find it so wrong that just because women would cope fine then they shouldn't have the option of not having to.

pumpkinsweetie · 05/10/2012 14:23

Shouldn't not should -stupi phone

pumpkinsweetie · 05/10/2012 14:23

I believe it is a womans choice until the baby becomes capable of living-that can be as young as 21 weeks in some cases so i don't have a problem with this new legislation.
Obviously medical reasons are a different matter altogether but a normal pregnancy after 20 weeks should be aborted just because its the womans body as that fetus inside of her is also entitled to life.

MooncupGoddess · 05/10/2012 14:20

"I know of at least 3 women who between the ages of 19-25 have had 4+ abortions because they were a bit careless but could have continued with their pgs and gone on to be loving, responsible mums."

Are you suggesting these women should not have been allowed access to legal abortion?

Have you ever read any accounts of illegal abortions? Desperate women do not always just bite the bullet and go, 'oh, never mind, I'll have to become a loving responsible mum then'.

mumnosGOLDisbest · 05/10/2012 14:17

good points emmeline and glad things worked out.

i'm just not sure where the line between a persons rights and responsibilities should be drawn. we all know sex, even protected sex can result in pg so at what point do we say sorry for the cliche a person should take responsibility for their actions? maybe having an abortion is taking responsibility but not if you do it again and again.

OneMoreChap · 05/10/2012 14:17

Isn't MAP sometimes regarded as an abortion by some activists?

drjohnsonscat · 05/10/2012 14:13

I think the system is abused in that some (I know not all or even the majority) use it as an extension of contraception or the morning after pill

How on earth is that an abuse? Contraception, MAP and abortion are all ways not to have an unwanted child. Some act on processes before conception, some after conception but before implantation and some after implantation. The net result is the same.

TeaAndHugs · 05/10/2012 14:11

@mumnos

Why do you feel that you know better than those women about whether they could have been good mothers? If they didn't feel able to do it, I would be inclined to trust their judgement. Are you suggesting you know them better than they know themselves? Just because their life circumstances stayed the same between their abortions and their deciding to have children, it doesn't mean their mental state or readiness for motherhood didn't change dramatically during that time.

EmmelineGoulden · 05/10/2012 14:05

I had an abortion when I felt I was too young. I suppose you could say that I used abortion as contraception - we were using condoms but I got pregnant anyway and had an abortion so as to not end up with a baby. I didn't want the risk to my health at the time, but mainly the impact on my ability to make the most of my life. I didn't think I'd be a very good mother and there were lots of things I did actually want to do that weren't compatible with being pregnant or having a child.

More than a decade later I had children with the same partner (obviously my life and job had moved on a bit though). But I highly doubt the children I do have would be here if I hadn't had that abortion. I can't see that my partner and I would have stayed together. I don't think the child we would have had if I hadn't aborted would have had as good a life as the children we now have.

Our bodies make decisions all the time about continuing pregnancy. Some estimates suggest more than half of all pregnancies are naturally aborted. Why is our mind the only organ that shouldn't be involved in deciding whether our bodies should continue with a pregnancy?

mumnosGOLDisbest · 05/10/2012 13:53

I'm never sure what "abortion as a form of contraception" means. Can you explain what it means to you, mumno? To me contraception is a way to stop sex leading to pregnancy. For some that I know, it's taken that step further and considered as a way to stop sex leading to a baby, regardles of the pg already having started. Ok the term is incorrect but that's how some see it/use it.

I think it's a way of saying I'm ok with sensible, organised women whose contraception doesn't fail having access to an abortion (though they won't need it) but I'm not happy for disorganised women to have one, or women who had a stomach bug, or any other number of women that I don't like the sound of. Not at all. I think the system is abused in that some (I know not all or even the majority) use it as an extension of contraception or the morning after pill.

I would be extremely surprised if women who had had multiple multiple abortions (i.e not two or three) were not overwhelming women with drug issues or similarly chaotic personal lives. I know of at least 3 women who between the ages of 19-25 have had 4+ abortions because they were a bit careless but could have continued with their pgs and gone on to be loving, responsible mums. 1 wanted to continue her uni career (understandable but worth a life?), 2 felt they were too young both of whom went on to have children with the same jobs, partners, life as they had a few years before.

MooncupGoddess · 05/10/2012 13:50

Guybrush, that is terrifying! And quite rage-inducing.

GuybrushThreepwodWasHere · 05/10/2012 13:39

You'llLaugh I agree, the lack of of proper research in anything to do with pregnancy or women's health is frankly quite disturbing. I've worked with several high ranking medical professionals that have said flippantly that women's health is about 100 years behind what it would have been if the medical profession hadn't started out so male dominated and had 2000 years of everything being attributed to hysteria.

YoullLaughAboutItOneDay · 05/10/2012 13:38

MrsTittleMouse - That article is interesting. I couldn't disagree more with the 'giving out condoms encourages sex, which results in more unintended pregnancies' argument from Ms King. I do sometimes wonder whether condoms are the right focus for these programs though. Obviously, it is an extremely tricky area as only condoms give protection from STIs. But I wonder whether a better focus isn't long term contraception like the injection, mirena and implant, rather than something you have to use every single time. (It is, of course, a whole feminist issue why women end up taking responsibility for contraception, but I'm focusing at the moment on protecting women as best as possible within that unfair situation).

YoullLaughAboutItOneDay · 05/10/2012 13:30

I would be interested to see a proper study on that Guybrush. I would be extremely surprised if women who had had multiple multiple abortions (i.e not two or three) were not overwhelming women with drug issues or similarly chaotic personal lives.

MooncupGoddess · 05/10/2012 13:28

Yes quite drjohnsonscat. There are a lot of people who want to scrutinise in great detail the lives of women seeking abortions before making a decision: 'Ooh, well, she missed her pill three times and had sex with someone she'd only met the day before. No way are we letting that careless trollop have an abortion.'

or:

'Well, Mrs X has three small children and a disabled husband, and she's very unlucky that her coil came out of position. I think we'll allow her the procedure.'

Thank God these people are not in charge of the law.

drjohnsonscat · 05/10/2012 13:27

also can we hear a round of applause for those women who go through abortion seven times. Something is going wrong in their lives - but they are not prepared to let that wrong thing perpetuate and become an unwanted, unloved child in a chaotic home environment.

TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 05/10/2012 13:27

ZOmbies, the Women's Minister voted for it to be reduced the last time there was a free vote and she hasn't changed her opinion. As far as I know, there are no current plans to allow another free vote on it.

GuybrushThreepwodWasHere · 05/10/2012 13:20

Doctrine

Some clinicians have referred to it when they have done studies on the number of times women have had abortions and found some women that have aborted up to seven times. These statistics are rarely properly examined in context (e.g. is abuse or a lack of education to blame rather then the lady finding it to be an acceptable form of contraception) and are used as 'republican' or 'conservative' fodder very blindly. It's a vile phrase that shouldn't be used but is Hmm

drjohnsonscat · 05/10/2012 13:15

I don't understand that either Doctrine.

I think it's a way of saying I'm ok with sensible, organised women whose contraception doesn't fail having access to an abortion (though they won't need it) but I'm not happy for disorganised women to have one, or women who had a stomach bug, or any other number of women that I don't like the sound of.

TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 05/10/2012 13:11

I've got to say, I'm never sure what "abortion as a form of contraception" means. Can you explain what it means to you, mumno?

SarryB · 05/10/2012 13:01

I agree that it shouldn't be used an contraception, but that comes down to another matter - about sexual and birth control education.

SarryB · 05/10/2012 12:57

I'm with optimistic - adoption would never be an option. It would be abortion or keep the child. I can't imagine how hard it would be to have to go through labour (especially if it was as painful as last time!!), and give the child away because I didn't think I could look after it (for whatever reason).

I think a woman's right trumps any right the foetus has.

mumnosGOLDisbest · 05/10/2012 12:54

just caught up with the other posts inbetween mine. i really don't doubt there are lots of cases where abortion is a hard and necessary decision but i do know of some where it hasn't been the only option and even, dare i say, used almost as a form of contraception (talking early abortions).

just to make clear, i am only airing my opinions, mean no offence and respect other opinions :)

mumnosGOLDisbest · 05/10/2012 12:42

doctrine probably because i'm not completely certain where i stand myself Grin. i think i'd like the option not to be there to abort at all except for health (physical/emotional). however whilst it is an option i would/did support a woman who takes that option. i also understand that if the option was removed women would find other ways (not all safe as history has proven).
abortion should and for most women is the last and only option imo

ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 05/10/2012 12:34

Is it to be reduced or did they say that it should be?
Either which way, I don't agree that it should be reduced.

Swipe left for the next trending thread