To quote one of the comments
"There is a lot to what ' Fathers for Justice ' are saying. Perhaps this poster is a little strong but in principle I'm with them. I know a boy who loved his wife and child but who found that she preferred someone else. They were living in a house he had inherited from his father and the judge ordered him out, awarded custody to the girl and because her new 'boy friend ' was unemployed, made him pay maintenance. He was allowed to see his son every other weekend. He killed himself. Primarily two people were responsible for his death, his wife and a stupid J.P. There are many times when men over step the mark but women can be very difficult too and I believe there is a degree of overcompensation going on where men, mostly young men are the victims. I believe in prenuptial agreements where it is agreed before hand who keeps what if a relationship fails. I think all couples should press for this."