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do you believe in the patriarchy?

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bejeezusWC · 08/06/2012 07:47

A poster on another thread said she views feminism as the struggle against patriarchy. That is how I view it too. I believe that is considered the rad fem stance?

Another poster said she didn't believe in patriarchy

I don't geddit

Why/how are women so unequal if not for patriarchal societies? WHO has been oppressing us?

Please tell me what you think, if you don't believe in patriarchy

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swallowedAfly · 11/06/2012 11:49

yes WE are biological things, animals and evolution applies to us as such. economies are not. how is this fucking unclear unless you're deliberately obfuscating.

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 11/06/2012 11:45

Porto, I'd happily go with the second position. I haven't seen anybody arguing the first. Some seem to be arguing that the patriarchy is entirely cultural and has nothing to do with the way we have evolved (I think - I'm pretty confused too).

I think the third position doesn't really get us very far. Male violence won't stop just because we want it to. I think there is nothing wrong with looking to see if biology can give us some clues as to the root causes of male violence - not to excuse the status quo but in the hope that greater understanding will enable us to eradicate it quicker. I completely understand why feminists are very wary of biological explanations though because they have been so dreadfully misused over the years.

I agree kyriarchy is a distraction.

Beachcomber · 11/06/2012 11:40

Kyriarchy = Female porn stars are oppressing men.

What a vacuous argument.

bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 11:35

porto it does seem like an enormous waste of energy doesnt it Sad
all this arguing over terms......it amounts to the same, whatever you call it

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Beachcomber · 11/06/2012 11:26

I think that's about it Porto.

You just missed out 'patriarchy only exists in feminists' heads' and 'patriarchy doesn't advantage all men all the time and is a complex set of interlinking hierarchies - can we call that something else in order to take the focus off the fact that it is men running the show'.

EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 11:22

This article explains a line of thought which I identify with. kyriarchy and patriarchy

Himalaya · 11/06/2012 11:19

SAF -

"you are applying a biological term and process to non biological 'things'." - we are biological things. At what point do we stop being biological?

"yes they'll win nobel prizes for theories that support the idea of the status quo being natural and good and some evolved state ffs"

Have you read any of Daniel Kahneman? How do you come to the conclusion that his work exploring the irrational ways humans make decisions about risk is about 'supporting the idea of the status quo being natural and good'?

Of course the status quo is 'some evolved state'. Dying of cancer is an evolved state. Extinction is an evolved state. Everything is an evolved state. It isn't another word for good, it is a way to understand the dynamics behind biology.

"i don't believe in pinnacles." I don't believe in pinnacles either. modern biology doesn't believe in pinnacles. Victorian social darwinists believed in pinnacles. You brought up the word pinnacle presumably because you think that something in modern biology or in what I am saying is based on the idea that there are pinnacles in evolution. Otherwise why bring it up?

Portofino · 11/06/2012 11:18

I have got all confused. Are we now arguing:

Patriarchy is all down to evolution - it is the "natural order" - men are stronger than women so....blah blah blah

vs

Patriarchy is a social construct made up of lots of different influence, cultural and historical and, yes there might be a bit of evolution in there...

vs

It doesn't matter how it came about, it is shit and needs to stop.?

Thanks! Grin

Beachcomber · 11/06/2012 11:16

Would somebody care to tell me who holds the power and controls power structures in this so called Kyriarchy?

(Hint it isn't women.)

It is just another distraction.

EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 11/06/2012 10:46

kyriarchy I think is just used as another way imo of saying stop talking about female oppression and start talking about other kinds of oppression instead. Of course other types of opression exist, but this is literally the only context I have ever seen thsi word being used in

bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 10:44

Ill answer your question eclectic when you have answered mine Grin

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bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 10:44

it raeds more like;
'There is no patriarchy. Women are oppressed...just because that is how it is......'

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EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:43

What do you think of the term Kyriarchy?

bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 10:43

Im sorry eclectic i dont actually see any 'concepts' that himalaya has discussed...because men have more upper body strength? was that one of hers?

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EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 11/06/2012 10:40

Agree bejeezus - its fine to talk about every other kind of oppression imo except about oppression against women.

EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:37

Quite a few of the concepts that himalaya has discussed for a start.

bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 10:35

IYO-what other influences?

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EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:32

Oppression of women not impression

EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:31

No one is denying that there are elements of male supremacy in the world and that they contribute to the impression of women. What is being argued, is that there are lots of other influences that all contribute to the oppression of not just women but people in general. I think the problem here is what people are calling the patriarchy and whether they believe it is the root of all oppression.

bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 10:24

no one is denying other forms of oppression

but a few people are denying that there is patriarchal oppression

its a bit of a diversion/avoidance IMO

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EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:21

here is the thread

EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:15

Kritiq has an interesting post on one of the other threads about intersectionality.

Beachcomber · 11/06/2012 10:14

Himalaya, how about instead of telling me what my argument is and translating it into something I haven't actually said, you tell me what your argument actually is?

Because apart form the faith/god stuff of earlier I don't really know what your argument is. (Can you summarize it in a couple of sentences like I did with mine?)

And what in the name of arse has credible research got to do with the fact that; violence against women exists, violence against women is global, violence against women is a human rights issue?

I can read all the evopsych in the world and it will change absolutely zero about the above. I can see it with my own eyes, no need to research it.

Feminism is a grass roots movement about protesting against concrete actual physical harm that is being done to women. It isn't about academic discussions/research which attempt to justify the status quo and are rewarded by the status quo with Nobel Prizes (no shit!).

It Is All A Distraction.

EclecticShock · 11/06/2012 10:12

Please can you define patriachy again, just to be clear, as it seems people have different understandings of it.

bejeezusWC · 11/06/2012 10:12

modern biology, behavioral economics etc etc etcare all very ineresting

but, how is it they come together, the world over, in many different cultures/societies to produce inequalities/ oppression and obuse of women?

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