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RAD FEM 12! Booking for the London conference is now open!

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DaisyHayes · 15/05/2012 23:03

How exciting! The website looks like it is accepting bookings.

Are any of you planning on coming? I am fully expecting the FWR Mumsnetters to take over the open mic section of the evening do Grin

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TheWomanFormerlyKnownAsSGM · 22/05/2012 18:13

I'd love to go but can't afford it. :(

I'm really shocked at the level of vitriol and threats on twitter aimed at some of the organisers. Someone's attacked a member of Object [who is currently on mat leave and only tweeted a link to the conference] and demanded that Object make a formal response. Considering the woman in question was tweeting from her personal account and not her Object account, I can't imagine why the attacker thought Object should get an opinion on it. Frankly, some of the anti-radfemmers are making similar comments that F4J made about MN. I can't believe how rude people are being.

solidgoldbrass · 22/05/2012 17:31

I am only vaguely aware of the whole thing due to FB friends Prolesworth. But I have no time at all for Sheila Jeffreys.

Prolesworth · 22/05/2012 15:46

If you're referring to Sheila Jeffreys as I presume you are, she is not a 'trans hater'. She is critical of transgenderism. It's a political analysis of transgenderism which is in no way motivated by hatred or fear of people who identify as trans.

solidgoldbrass · 22/05/2012 12:08

I'm kind of divided on this, as someone who has a fair few trans friends. I've seen and read and heard a lot of bigoted spite from feminists towards transpeople, and FWIW I think a lot of the objections to RadFem2012 are not so much about the exclusion of transpeople from the actual event, but are because one of the invited speakers is a trans-hater. I'm generally in agreement with the fact that gender isn't binary (FFS it is a biological FACT that a percentage of people are born intersex or hermaphrodite).
On the other hand, I do rather support the right of people who are organising a small-scale, one-off event without much funding behind it, to be able to choose who is and is not allowed to attend. Just like, if you are having a party in your house (or indeed in hired premises like a club or a community centre) you get to write the guest list and don't have to admit anyone you don't like the look of.

SinicalSanta · 19/05/2012 22:47

It's just Bad Manners

SinicalSanta · 19/05/2012 22:46

Good point about anti patriarchy issues. Yes there's loads of common ground. But transwomen have their own specific issues that they, their own spaces and their own voices are loudest there. Rightly so. It would be wrong for bio women to enter those spaces, and takes up space and airtime in those gatherings . Bio women aren't the authorityon transwomens particular struggles. And vice versa, surely.

EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 19/05/2012 22:45

Thank you Kim! I always say on threads likethis that some transexuals do think as you do, but I am rarely believed.

SeaHouses · 19/05/2012 22:37

I think it is a good thing that there are feminist events where everyone can go. I also think it is a good thing that men have feminist events (like the Minnesota ones), transwomen have them, liberal feminists have them and so on.

I could also see it as possible that women who consider themselves transgender or cisgender might want to organise an event together where they talk particularly about how misogyny has an impact on people whose gender is feminine. They may then feel that women who don't identify as cis or trans are perhaps not helpful in that space.

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EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 19/05/2012 22:36

Widow - I would hope that anyone who is a feminist - and this conference is for feminists - would have the decency and ethics not to lie

WidowWadman · 19/05/2012 22:33

Eats - my question was how the "non-woman born women" are identified. And how xy-women who have masculine visual traits, and possibly even beard growth (which can be caused by hormonal imbalances) are treated? Will they be asked whether they had their foof from birth?

WidowWadman · 19/05/2012 22:30

kim147 I have a friend who had her transition in her teens. She identifies as a woman, faces the same discrimination other women do, and doesn't introduce herself as trans to people who don't know her past. If I didn't know it, I would have no idea she was trans.

I'd find it weird if she was asked to give up that detail of her personal/medical history. (Fwiw, I've no idea whether she went through with surgery, and I haven't asked, but she takes hormones)

EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 19/05/2012 22:26

What was your question?

kim147 · 19/05/2012 22:23

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DaisyHayes · 19/05/2012 22:23

WidowWadman - "Do you know many trans folk who say feel like a woman who present with a beard, deep voice and "male" clothing? Doesn't sound very trans to me.".

Careful now - that sounds kinda transphobic^.

'Cause, yeah, it's a thing. The whole "I am a woman even if I present as a man" stuff.

And as to whether or not a transwoman would want to participate in a reproduction workshop, I have been to an abortion seminar where a transwoman started 'calling out' "cis-sexist language" because "some women don't have wombs".

So might a transwoman rock up to such a workshop at Rad Fem 12? Well I guess it's a possibility, because, actually, some (not all trans* folk by any chalk) trans activism in the past has been profoundly insensitive to the specific needs and concerns of FAAB women.

In terms of whether or not this is a straw man ? off the top my head, there is the famous Kimberly Nixon case in Canada:

A (not so) brief précis of the case:

Nixon is a transwoman who, despite the fact that she had been accepted onto the training programme Battered Women?s Support Center which DID welcome transwomen, insisted that she had a right to volunteer at Vancouver Rape Relief which held a FAAB women counsellors only policy, TO MAKE A POLITICAL POINT.

When Rape Relief maintained that she would not be able to volunteer as a rape counsellor, Nixon made a formal Human Rights Complaint.

When Vancouver Rape Relief collective women were informed of the complaint the women were sorry to have offended Kimberly Nixon and quickly tried to make amends.

The Rape Relief collective women offered a formal written apology, and suggested that Kimberly could support the rape crisis line and shelter work by joining a fundraising committee. The collective also offered to apologise in-person to Kimberly as well as offering $500 in acknowledgement of Kimberly's hurt feelings. The Rape Relief women also requested mediation. Kimberly Nixon rejected these offers.

A lengthy and expensive BC Human Rights tribunal ensued. After this, it went to the Supreme Court who found that Vancouver Rape Relief had not discriminated against Kimberly Nixon and the group does have the right to freedom of association to organize as women only.

The Supreme Court of Canada dismissed Kimberly Nixon's request to appeal the B.C. Court of Appeals decision. The Supreme Court further awarded Vancouver Rape Relief with "costs" which Kimberly Nixon has not paid back.

Rad Fem 12 isn?t some massive organisation hell bent on trying to harm the needs of trans*people.

It?s a group of women with no budget, no funding and jobs and families and responsibilities to manage, trying to make a space ? the first one in the UK for decades - for radical feminists to share experiences and ideas in a space which they define the boundaries of. That?s all.

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WidowWadman · 19/05/2012 22:17

Eats - I'm not interested in the genetic make-up of people who identify as women, nor do I feel the need to check their pants - if someone identifies as a woman, that's in my view all that's needed.

I don't see the need for a "biological women only" space, as I don't see the need to distinguish or put in a hierarchy of womanlyness.

Still waiting for the answer to my question. Why does that get ignored whilst the same old stereotypes keep getting repeated?

EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 19/05/2012 22:12

Yes I have met the over feminised ones as well. But I agree I haven't met any Trans "women" with beards. Agree people can have an opinion about Trans issues and give their opinion. I just get annoyed that some people see any space for biological women as transphobic

kim147 · 19/05/2012 22:08

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EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 19/05/2012 21:59

Widow - Do you not think biological women should ever be able to meet by themselves in any circumstances?

EatsBrainsAndLeaves · 19/05/2012 21:58

kim - Have you met many Trans people? Because like most feminists who value and try to create women only space I have. And I have met Trans "women" like that. And Kim, some Trans "women" actually do recognise that biological women might want some space just for them.

Alice - I know the F-Word do that. Early on in reading it I tried to make some very polite comments around transgender issues. They were never published as apparently it is "transphobic" to think there is any value in any space for women born women.

"There are plenty of issues which affect all people who want to challenge the patriarchy." Yes there are, including issues that affect men. there are loads and loads of spaces for women, Transexuals and men to come together to discuss feminism. This is one space that personally I value.

WidowWadman · 19/05/2012 21:57

DaisyHayes - this hirsute adam's-apply masculine transwoman in a lumberjack shirt who wants to invade rape workshops sounds like a straw(wo?)man to me, to be honest.

And you have not answered my question about cis women who have beard growth due to hormonal problems, or those with more masculine features -do they have to present their birth certificate? Will their genitals be checked? Will they make other women uncomfortable simply because of their appearance and thus should be excluded?

kim147 · 19/05/2012 21:50

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DaisyHayes · 19/05/2012 21:46

Yeah, that's what I was saying WidowWadman - exactly that. I'm all hung up on the shade of the foundation Hmm

Tell me - you'd be cool with someone with a penis, a beard, 'male clothing', an Adams apple, a deep voice taking part in a workshop for female rape surviors because they feel that they a woman, would you?

You think that it would be totally cool with vulnerable biological women who are looking for a safe space? To be engaging in exercises and sharing traumatic confidences with someone who is a man in every respect other than the fact that he says that he 'feels like a woman'?

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WidowWadman · 19/05/2012 21:38

I know women born as women who have beard growth - would they have to undergo knicker-checking to be admitted? Reminds me of all the offensive foolishness of idiots going on about how Florence Welch or Lady Gaga must be trans.

Basically, you're saying a woman born as a woman is ok to present in masculine clothing and a crew cut, whilst a transgender woman isn't? Why? How can you reject hyper-feminity and at the same time make others who reject it too out to be less of a woman? That's confused to say the least.

DaisyHayes · 19/05/2012 21:27

A woman with a penis, yes that is correct.

"Next time you talk about childbirth, remember not everyone who gives birth is a mother.

Next time you talk about how many women are raped, remember that a significant group of those women, of us, don?t have vaginas.

Next time you talk about sisterhood, try to remember that you have nonbinary siblings and brothers with the organs you use to label your sisterhood and sisters who lack them.

Try to remember that penis is not the enemy because women have them too.

Try to remember that theorizing about gender isn?t very helpful when you don?t know shit about the people who experience it most directly, most vividly, most painfully."

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