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Why "fun feminism" should be consigned to the rubbish bin

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Nyac · 07/05/2012 18:43

article by Julie Bindel in the New Statesman.

www.newstatesman.com/blogs/the-staggers/2011/08/fun-feminism-women-feminist

Quote:

"We need to bring back the radical edge to feminism, and do away with any notion that slutwalking, lap dancing, sex working or Burkha-wearing is liberation for women. If men like a particular brand of feminism, it means it is not working. "Fun feminism" should be consigned to the rubbish bin along with the Lib Dem party."

Agree with Julie, that it's extremely irritating to see a bunch of interlopers attempting to elbow their way in and co-opt feminism, redefining it to suit patriarchy's needs. I've even seen people who support patriarchal institutions like marriage, BDSM or the sex industry calling themselves radical feminists. There is so much misunderstanding and misinformation about feminism out there that people feel like they can grab what they like without making an actual political commitment or any kind of challenge to the patriarchy.

Really liberal feminism (the old kind, not the sex industry supporting kind) and radical feminism are the only kinds of feminism that have ever effected any kind of positive change for women. They need to be reclaimed and supported, not erased by third wave non-feminist feminism.

She's right about the lib dems too. :D Or maybe they are in the same boat and need some classic liberals to reclaim their party from the Tory party's whipping boys.

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SeaHouses · 08/05/2012 23:42

Julie Bindel was only born in 1962, so I doubt she framed her ideas during activism in the sixties. Although it would be quite impressive if she had been leading some kind of demo in infant school.

WorriedBetty · 08/05/2012 23:42

Mind you I do think the 'slutwalk' would have been better if it had been all men in shoes they couldn't run in, and women standing by and whistling etc.. oh dear, even I am sounding a bit 'on the buses switcheroo' Grin

WorriedBetty · 08/05/2012 23:40

Wow I have just realised how at odds I am with the infighting older feminists! The mantra has gone from 'its time women who aren't feminists adopt feminism' to 'it's time that feminism was reclaimed by actual feminists'

I'm sorry to say this, but this to me sounds a but 'in my day we really had it hard' .. ie. a bit miserable. Do we call working class people with cars 'hobbiest class warriors'?? Its just an odd angle for someone older who has framed their image of feminism and gender politics in the 1960s to wag their finger at someone learning it now and say that 'the old ways were the best'

How can something as radical as feminism once was have become so conservative??

Nyac · 08/05/2012 23:39

I didn't say that she had superior understanding of Andrea Dworkin, just an accurate understanding of her views probably given that they were colleagues.

I think you're nitpicking language here Kritiq, and I don't see it as very productive but I guess we'll have to agree to disagree.

Moving on, what do you think of Julie's view that sex positive feminsits need to stop diluting or twisting feminist politics in order to better support male interests.

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KRITIQ · 08/05/2012 23:35

Nyac, I'm not derailing. I'm only suggesting that language IS important and there is the risk that many feminists won't get beyond the term to actually engage with the issues Julie presents. I think feminists DO need to engage with those issues.

Having known Julie "back in the day," I'd be surprised if she herself would claim any exclusive/superior understanding of Andrea Dworkin's views based on her personal relationship with her.

SeaHouses · 08/05/2012 23:34

Yes, I've seen that before, but I think it is a concept that very few liberal or even fun feminists would ascribe to. Most liberal feminists would say that abortion was a women's issue in the same way that poverty was a women's issue.

Actually I wonder what fun fems would say about poverty. It is perhaps not in the range of topics they are particularly engaged with.

EclecticShock · 08/05/2012 23:33

Worriedbetty, please expand, that's a new and interesting concept.

Nyac · 08/05/2012 23:32

Feministing not Feministe.

Did you really just liken feminists to murdering terrorists WB? I feel quite sad you did that. :(

Radical feminists' objectives are nowhere near being achieved. We want to end male violence towards women in all it's forms. We haven't come close to that yet. As Dworkin said "I want a 24 hour truce during which there is no rape". That would be just for starters:

www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/WarZoneChaptIIIE.html

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EclecticShock · 08/05/2012 23:31

Porto, that's the last 4 posts of yours I don't understand. Must be a record, please explain, I obviously don't get the subtlety.

Nyac · 08/05/2012 23:29

SeaHouses, I do believe now that saying that abortion is a women's issue is transphobic. I'll see if I can find the source. I think it's Feministe.

Here it is:

feministing.com/2011/04/11/why-i-wont-be-talking-about-abortion-as-a-womens-issue-anymore/

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WorriedBetty · 08/05/2012 23:29

BTW this happens with all radical campaigns - the progression from desire for the majority to accept the radical view to resentment when they do is predictable. It was the sort of running joke about communism that was satirised by Monty Python with the 'people's front of Judea' joke - People want to hold on to their 'radical' identity despite their objectives being (closer to) being achieved.

The Real IRA is another example. Its a sign of the mission working that some people want to cling on to the old battles.

garlicbutty · 08/05/2012 23:28

Umm, I like the word 'empowerment'. Besides the misuses so regularly pilloried on here, it has genuine meaning. It signifies a recognition that certain sectors of society have less power than others, and attempts to rectify that. If you dismiss every word that's been abused by politicians, you'll end up with a limited vocabulary.

In a not unrelated vein, I thought the slutwalks successfully raised the profile of rape myths, consent and victim-blaming. The media's predictable focus on superficial aspects of the walks got the story seen (a bit), the message promoted (a bit) and fed into a general tide of changing opinion. You only have to look at the 'sleep sex' thread to see how many rape myths still need busting. The majority of people will not see stunts like slutwalks through the narrowed eyes of radical feminism; they'll go "What's that all about?" And some will pay attention.

Pole dancing's an odd one. I refused to 'like' a friend's FB photo of her prize-winning pole routine (done in gym kit, in a gym) out of feminist principle. I felt like a right old meanie. The woman was a competition gymnast at school and had chosen this readily-available gymnastic activity as part of her self-affirmation programme following an abusive relationship. It's a great deal easier to find an advanced pole dancing class than an advanced gymnastics class. I'm sure this is partly to do with the fact that you only need one piece of equipment per gymnast and can squeeze more students into a room.

Should the activity's provenance taint its sport value? I don't know. If so, for how long? The waltz was originally considered a dance for harlots!

All a bit waffly, sorry, and nothing new from me. I do worry about feminism being unduly negative, though, and potentially self-limiting in consequence.

EclecticShock · 08/05/2012 23:26

"I am tired of being told by so-called third-wavers that my feminism is fascist, old hat, irrelevant and man hating. It is nothing personal to me; just that feminism is something that has been central to my life since I was a teenager. I do not want to see its radical edge co-opted by over-privileged, self-serving faux feminists.

These "fun feminists", who have little or no idea about the theory or practice of this movement, take advantage of the benefits that radicals have fought long and hard for, whilst contributing nothing. In fact, they are damaging to other women, and are destroying progress won by those of us who do not weep when men disapprove of our views."

This is exactly the part I have a problem with. Just because other women who believe in feminism do not agree with you doesn't mean we weep when men disagree with our views. How ridiculous and patronising.

SeaHouses · 08/05/2012 23:25

NTFS, for some reason I don't think of this site as being indicative of what is going on in feminism.

Nyac, I do think that there are some issues where all feminists do tend to come together - reproductive rights for example.

scottishmummy · 08/05/2012 23:25

lol nyac people are engaging just not on your terms maybe
you see thats how threads go, we all interject,discuss etc.
we don't necessarily need guided back to your op and more c&p quotes. why don't you actively go with flow see where convo goes

Nyac · 08/05/2012 23:24

I hope people do look at the trans thread, because despite the claims, I did not make any personal attacks on there.

I did have some posts deleted for apparent "transphobia". Although it appears that any radical feminist view on trans is "transphobic" so it's surprising that they weren't all deleted.

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Nyac · 08/05/2012 23:23

She's right, making your politics so dilute that they appeal to the class that oppresses you, or even turning your politics around so they represent the oppressor class's interests, is a huge mistake.

It's important for feminists to examine our strategies.

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Portofino · 08/05/2012 23:22

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Notthefullshilling · 08/05/2012 23:22

Seahouses Yes the evidence for that is on this thread and others on this site.

EclecticShock · 08/05/2012 23:21

Interesting thread. Too late for me as I have womanly duties to attend to in the morning ;)

Nyac · 08/05/2012 23:21

Julie Bindel was a friend of Dworkin's. I think it's unlikely that she's taking Dworkin's words out of context. They shared the same politics. Julie Bindel even got Dworkin her contract with the Guardian here in the UK.

Anyway I think you're missing the point. Seizing on the term "fun fem" to take issue with, rather than addressing the substance of Julie Bindel's argument that the people who are espousing those views are doing real harm to women and to feminism, seems a little bit of a derail. It's not her who can't get past the namecalling it seems.

It really is time that feminism was reclaimed by actual feminists. Radically Speaking which you mentioned earlier, argues the very same thing, although they are talking about postmodernists who decided to claim they were feminists, rather than the sex positives (although they are closely connected).

Maybe I should just quote a bit more of the article, and it might tempt people to engage. We'll see I guess:

"I am tired of being told by so-called third-wavers that my feminism is fascist, old hat, irrelevant and man hating. It is nothing personal to me; just that feminism is something that has been central to my life since I was a teenager. I do not want to see its radical edge co-opted by over-privileged, self-serving faux feminists.

These "fun feminists", who have little or no idea about the theory or practice of this movement, take advantage of the benefits that radicals have fought long and hard for, whilst contributing nothing. In fact, they are damaging to other women, and are destroying progress won by those of us who do not weep when men disapprove of our views."

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EclecticShock · 08/05/2012 23:19

porto I'm beginning to warm to radical feminist humour :)

scottishmummy · 08/05/2012 23:19

fem topic bingo has someone been called troll?
clickety click
nowt like a good bit of youse this and dat to enrich a thread

I don't know or care who is troll
but you know what accusation of troll is equally lame and distracting

SeaHouses · 08/05/2012 23:17

NTFS, do you think that there is a troubling split in feminism?

Portofino · 08/05/2012 23:16

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