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Why "fun feminism" should be consigned to the rubbish bin

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Nyac · 07/05/2012 18:43

article by Julie Bindel in the New Statesman.

www.newstatesman.com/blogs/the-staggers/2011/08/fun-feminism-women-feminist

Quote:

"We need to bring back the radical edge to feminism, and do away with any notion that slutwalking, lap dancing, sex working or Burkha-wearing is liberation for women. If men like a particular brand of feminism, it means it is not working. "Fun feminism" should be consigned to the rubbish bin along with the Lib Dem party."

Agree with Julie, that it's extremely irritating to see a bunch of interlopers attempting to elbow their way in and co-opt feminism, redefining it to suit patriarchy's needs. I've even seen people who support patriarchal institutions like marriage, BDSM or the sex industry calling themselves radical feminists. There is so much misunderstanding and misinformation about feminism out there that people feel like they can grab what they like without making an actual political commitment or any kind of challenge to the patriarchy.

Really liberal feminism (the old kind, not the sex industry supporting kind) and radical feminism are the only kinds of feminism that have ever effected any kind of positive change for women. They need to be reclaimed and supported, not erased by third wave non-feminist feminism.

She's right about the lib dems too. :D Or maybe they are in the same boat and need some classic liberals to reclaim their party from the Tory party's whipping boys.

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EclecticShock · 09/05/2012 20:16

Interesting question about being in government. However, if that was the case, people would have had to vote for them. That's the whole point, a minority cannot change things without support from the majority. This means a compromise has to be found. It requires negotiation not radical intervention.

EclecticShock · 09/05/2012 20:14

I'm not trying to change anyone's mind or educate you, that's seems to be the approach of rad fem. I am merely explaining my own viewpoint and thought process.

Beebacksoon · 09/05/2012 20:14

If a radical feminist political party came to government in the UK how do posters think they would change things?

garlicbutty · 09/05/2012 20:11

Nyac- Do people understand the differences between politics and someone simply doing something in their lives? Because they are different.

It's the second time you've made this point today. It astonishes me. I was taught that this very statement is the apotheosis of hypocrisy; the philosophical equivalent of "Do as I say, not as I do."

Is it what you really feel? Do you deny that everything we do is political, whether we're thinking about the politics or not? If you see 'political' as separate from 'personal', how then do you justify your critiques of the sex industry, or even of other women's feminism?

BasilEatsFoulEggs · 09/05/2012 20:11

Thank you for explaining it to us, EclecticShock.

Thank goodness you're here to put us right.

I've totally changed my mind about everything I believe, thanks to your brilliant explanations.

scottishmummy · 09/05/2012 20:05

fun feminism is lame put down used by im more feminist than youse types
who naturally think they have the ideological and moral high ground
odd how it's permissable to use put downs to describe other feminists.but hell if a man used same quip it would be scandalous etc

EclecticShock · 09/05/2012 20:03

Agree to an extent but you have to be very careful about the assumptions you base your argument on as that can render the following conclusions invalid. That's how i see radical feminism, based on over simplified mass generalisation and backed up with over complicated conspiratorial selective evidence.

fridakahlo · 09/05/2012 19:57

On a large scale when looking at systems such as political structures analysis has to be done through caterigerisation and identification of patterns.
When doing more in-depth analysis is when the broader and more diverse catorgerisation happens.

EclecticShock · 09/05/2012 19:45

There are two massive generalisations than underpin some of these posts.
All men are not the same. All women are not the same.

"how women's liberation now rests on how pleasing they are to the patriarchy. How palatable the message is and whether there is something in it for the guys"

Who are they guys? How do you expect anyone to take your discussion seriously when you over simplify and generalise everything? It's an immature approach to debate.

JuliaScurr · 09/05/2012 19:44

Yy frida (I've got your picture in my front room btw)

fridakahlo · 09/05/2012 19:40

And social structures as well as political and economical.

JuliaScurr · 09/05/2012 19:38

Feminism isn't about 'individual freedom', it's about economic/political structures which systematically disadvantage women. The emphasis on individualism is a key ingredient of both neoliberal economics and libertarian social politics - two cheeks of the same arse

BasilEatsFoulEggs · 09/05/2012 19:27

"A political movement to overthrow male supremacy".So do feminists want to have control over men?

Why would you make that jump? Overthrowing male supremacy, means stopping men having control over women, not inverting their horrible patriarchal system.

minimathsmouse · 09/05/2012 19:16

For me I want equality based on class as well.

amillionyears, it's the opening paragraph of the Bindel piece linked by OP.

For me it seems clear that feminism is about the overthrow of supremacy not women gaining supremacy over men. Anyway what use would power over men be? what might we become if we had it? "power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely"

fridakahlo · 09/05/2012 19:08

For myself I want equality and co-operation between men and women and for people not to be pre-judged because of their gender.

amillionyears · 09/05/2012 19:00

minimathsmouse, can you clear something up for me please."A political movement to overthrow male supremacy".So do feminists want to have control over men?

minimathsmouse · 09/05/2012 18:51

It's the marketing coup of the century duchesse. Clever how women's liberation now rests on how pleasing they are to the patriarchy. How palatable the message is and whether there is something in it for the guys.

fridakahlo · 09/05/2012 18:49

Fifty Shades of Grey. That book is really bugging me at the moment because it is bringing into wider mainstream culture the idea of submission as a lifestyle.
And that is one thing that bugs me about the BDSM scene is the idea that because you enjoy something sexually, you should define your whole life around that aspect of yourself, which correct me if I am wrong, is a concept that is hugely fought against within feminism and is likely to have a larger impact on the person in the submissive role both within and outside of the scene.

duchesse · 09/05/2012 18:46

I believe that this so called "fun feminism" is some crap spun by people who want women to behave in a particular way, but realise that women know they have self-determination and would only do if they wanted to. So they have somehow managed to convince some women that they are in a position of power if they choose to pole-dance or become a sex worker. Jeeseus only knows how they achieved it, but the end result is still the same as when women felt they had to be people-pleasers- girls who feel the need to appeal to men to get along in life. You only have to ask yourself who benefits from women playing along with this? It's a marketing coup.

BasilEatsFoulEggs · 09/05/2012 18:43

OK I get what you're saying about potential slut-shaming SGB, but I have never heard radical feminists express it in those terms.

Believing that doing sex work is a harmful choice, a choice that harms women, is not condemning the woman who makes that "choice" (except in a tiny minority of cases, it's not a real choice). It's making a political analysis of that choice. It's not condemning a woman any more than it condemns a woman for wearing lipstick; it's just not pretending that it's somethign women do in a cultural, social and economic vacuum.

minimathsmouse · 09/05/2012 18:40

"What is feminism? A political movement to overthrow male supremacy, according to us radicals. These days, however, young women (and men) are increasingly fed the line from "fun feminists" that it is about individual power, rather than a collective movement"

From the first paragraph in the article. So SGB and other sex positives or fun feminists, are individual freedoms more important than the emancipation of ALL women?

scottishmummy · 09/05/2012 18:40

I have never met a woman who chose sex industry
yes I do think sex industry choses them is a good summation
I know await someone repackaging the happy hooker as the bright as a button law student turning tricks to pay way through uni

minimathsmouse · 09/05/2012 18:37

a cornerstone of patriarchal thinking is the idea that women exist for other people's benefit, not their own

A cornerstone of patriarchal thinking is the idea that women exist for men's benefit not their own. Unless there is a third sex.

minimathsmouse · 09/05/2012 18:34

Thank you FridaKahlo you have put that far more succinctly & clearly than I could.

I think one of the unintended consequences of the hard won freedoms in regard to sexual liberation has been the fact that so many younger women now engage in situations and relationships where they have little or sometimes no power. Feminism isn't about and up to very recently has never been about glorifying, normalising or ignoring the abuse of other women in the name of personal liberation. My freedom should never have the knock on effect of denying you yours.

Nyac · 09/05/2012 18:33

We're not criticising women who choose to work in the sex industry. Each woman has to make her own decisions about how best to survive under male supremacy (although for a lot of women in the industry, they don't choose it, it chooses them).

This article is about a specific brand of feminism - sex positive feminism - that actually promotes working in the sex industry and other woman-harming activities like BDSM as feminist. Sex positive feminists are a problem and they do need to stop getting in the way of feminists who are challenging male harm to women.

Do people understand the differences between politics and someone simply doing something in their lives? Because they are different.

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