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NSPCC Sex Crime Survey

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limitedperiodonly · 04/04/2012 21:05

The news coverage majors on 'child abuse' which accounts for one third of offences.

We know that translates as 'little kids' = 'innocent victims'.

Two thirds of offences are recorded against people aged between 11-17.

I'm a journalist. I know news organisations will translate this as jailbait at best, manipulative scum at worst. Boys or girls.

That's why they don't want to touch it.

But I haven't seen anything on TV today from the NSPCC to try to say these are all vulnerable young people who are being fucked, trafficked and murdered.

I may be wrong and I'd be delighted to be proved wrong. Can anyone do that?

As it stands the NSPCC should be ashamed of itself to perpetuate the myth that there are worthy victims of 'child abuse' and the less-deserving others no matter how much money they hope to raise.

Otherwise they should save the money this survey cost and put it into playgroups.

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limitedperiodonly · 06/04/2012 19:44

nyac I read that as 'how do you know about radical feminism?' Didn't have my reading glasses on.

I come from a working class/lower middle class family who are very politicised.

I did a Women's Studies course that was an adjunct to my prestigious journalism course. We had to do other studies. I didn't want to do them. Didn't object either.

One of the others was woodwork which did teach me something I didn't know. I made a lovely articulated, hand-painted wooden child's toy of a frog and a turntable my mum used in her cake-decorating classes.

I don't think the college knew much else what to do with us. The rest of my Women's Studies group was taken up by young women on the nursery nursing course. The tutor should have done more to involve the other students rather than lazily embracing me and pushing at an open door.

These things affect all of us and it's the job of professionals to make it happen.

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limitedperiodonly · 06/04/2012 19:17

Probably osmosis nyac. Experience of events that have happened to me or to others that I came into contact with through personal contact or work, which in my work gets blurred. But you can attain that contact through lots of work if you try.

Plus, my epitaph would probably be: 'Enquiring minds need to know'.

That or: 'How would you like to be remembered?'

Answer: 'By a public holiday, of course.' Smile

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Nyac · 06/04/2012 19:07

Do you know much about radical feminism limited.

It is the politics that address the extreme violence that men commit against women and girls. It could probably give you some answers.

limitedperiodonly · 06/04/2012 19:05

Obviously the news reports are going to major on the horrific cases.

Asian women who slip away on barbiturates aren't going to feature and white women jump off balconies or under trains. But still.

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limitedperiodonly · 06/04/2012 18:49

Sorry to bang on about this but memories of SBS have made me think of something else which may be obvious to some people but not to the mainstream.

I was always struck by the violent methods of suicide taken by some Asian women - throwing themselves under trains, self-immolation or drinking drain cleaner.

It always struck me as: 'Fuck. That's painful.' BTW I am aware that those things could be murder.

Until I wondered about the options for relatively gentle death. How do you stockpile enough prescription drugs if your GP is from the same social group as your husband and family and is more sympathetic to them and the need for the group to save face than to you? Do you even get to go to the GP at all?

That's not a failing of SBS at all. They were fantastic and I'm sure they would have something to say if I was doing a story on that. But I don't do that any more and like everyone else, I'm busy earning a living. I'm just asking.

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limitedperiodonly · 06/04/2012 17:11

Thanks for coming back to me Nyas, KRITIQ and victoria.

victoria I'm not annoyed at the spin on the story by Sky. I expect it. I've done the same under orders by news editors.

What annoys me is that the NSPCC's press office appears not to anticipated it by specifically addressing the complexity of abuse suffered by teenage girls and dropping the under-11s for a while.

That is not by design but is their fault.

Some of these people will be former journalists. Or at least they should be. Maybe that's the problem. Maybe the office is staffed by people who don't understand how newsrooms work but know how they'd like them to work.

They could also have taken the stance of refusing to co-operate unless Sky, for instance, specifically talked about this issue. Maybe Jon Brown did talk about that and it was cut. What a press officer should have said is: 'No. We're talking only about this or we don't talk at all. These are our case histories. We'll do little kids next time but right now, this is our priority.'

KRITIQ it's shorter for me to say we agree in principle because I think we do. My issue here is one of professionalism by the NSPCC press office. I wonder what they think they get paid for and I wonder what they are advising senior policy staff about the media and 'disappointing' outcomes.

It's true I found Standing On My Own Two Feet a turn-off. That should be anticipated and something more accessible should be produced in tandem for reporters.

Anyway, your mention of Southall Black Sisters is really interesting. I agree that they worked with opinon-formers in parliament, local authorities and the police to influence policy change.

But they didn't neglect the press. I worked in Redbridge, Newham and Tower Hamlets and they were assiduous in cultivating friendly contacts with us and helping on the cultural aspects of stories that as a white girl from an all-white, lower-middle class background I had no idea of.

One story I remember would have got reported as a bizarre and titillating murder if not for them. A young Asian woman was found in the street in Forest Gate with ultimately fatal chemical burns in the mid-80s.

The police knew her husband had done it but were unable to give more insight. They weren't that bothered beyond clearing up a murder.

Someone from SBS explained to me the concept of 'honour killings'. I had no idea this went on. Why would I? They didn't judge. They just explained.

At the trial it transpired the woman had been taken to the workshop of a family friend and pushed alive into a barrel of sulphuric acid. The intention was to torture her as well as killing her. If they'd have pushed the lid down properly they'd have probably been able to dispose of what remained of her.

SBS's guidance resulted in a much more knowledgeable crime report. I'm not saying I'm a hero. I'm not saying the paper made much more of it after. But SBS patiently spoon-fed me because they knew I didn't understand but realised that I did care and that helping me understand might pay off in time. They must have replicated this hundreds of times because nearly 30 years on everyone knows what 'honour killings' are and we've started to do something about them.

A similar thing happened with a social worker who explained one idea behind gay adoptions - placing a girl who'd been abused by men with a single woman or a female couple to protect everyone involved.

Undoubtedly you know what I'm talking about but I didn't then and most people don't now. But if you take the time to explain it to one receptive person they will go on about it every time someone comes out with the vile Littlejohn line. Because I do.

That's all I ask of press offices.

Thanks for reading.

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KRITIQ · 06/04/2012 10:55

I'm still not entirely getting it (and I learned about the 35 word paragraph limit and not using the Oxford Comma in high school journalism - thank you Mr Gwaltney!)

I'm still with victorialucas on this. I honestly didn't get the same impression as the OP that NSPCC either by design or omission were "ignoring" the spectre of child sexual abuse affecting children over 11, or that it affected girls six times more than boys. Both of those facts were set out clearly in the original article and in most of the media reports about it. So Jon Brown has the media savvy and charisma of a cane toad. There seems to be a disconnect between insisting that NSPCC should have more media savvy peeps to front their stories, but then arguing that they are spending too much on things like that.

I have mixed feelings about large children's charities, and large institutions of any kind. However, even if we accept (and I don't actually) that this story was a gaffe, a missed opportunity, what about all the other studies that they have commissioned like those on child trafficking (pointing out clearly that it's girls more than boys who are affected,) and the report I linked above about abuse in teen relationships?

That report in particular pulls NO punches when it comes to the gendered nature of abuse in teen relationships. Many of the studies I've read about sexual bullying and abuse in young people's relationships tend to gloss over this or at least not highlight it as an important factor when it IS the most important factor. So, NSPCC has stuck it's collective neck out on gender based violence before. The same report recommends a complete re-think as well of teen pregnancy prevention strategies, acknowledging that it's pointless ticking off pregnant girls when many have no actual control over when, how or with whom they have sex!

It's also not just about getting column inches (or whatever the equivalent is in digital terms) for a story. It takes more than a cleverly worded article to shift public opinion on an issue enough so that they will demand change. I think the general public prefer to bury their heads in the sand about child abuse over all and maybe worse, try to rationalise that sexual abuse of those in the teen years isn't maybe really all that bad.

In my experience, if you are trying to get support for policy change related to what will be a pretty "unpopular cause" amongst the public, you can waste alot of valuable time, resources and energy trying to persuade Jo and Joanne public to back you. Small campaign groups like Southall Black Sisters and Justice for Women have gone straight to decision makers, presenting them with evidence, and achieved significant changes, despite "popular opinion" still not giving much of a toss about things like forced marriage or women who kill their partners after years of abuse. If they'd just relied on convincing "the public" to rally in support of their causes, we'd still be waiting, for a long time.

So, evidence from research commissioned by organisations like NSPCC can be used to influence decision makers - whether its arguing for funding for prevention or support services or getting laws changed. As a journalist, you found "Standing On My Own Two Feet" a "turn off, but it wasn't intended for you or for the general public with a goldfish span of attention.

victorialucas · 06/04/2012 09:36

Limited- you are obviously annoyed at the spin that has been put on this story. I've read/watched the links and I don't read the implied 'emphasis on vv young victims' comes from the NSPCC itself.

It doesn't surprise me at all for Sky et al to label abuse of pre pubescent children as worse than abuse against teenagers because that is the standard line in our media, sad as that is.

Nyac · 06/04/2012 09:32

"The greater level of abuse against older children, overwhelmingly girls, wasn't touched."

Thank you for posting this in the feminist section, this is an important issue. We have had threads on Mumsnet where girls of 10 and 12 who were raped have been accused of being to blame for what happened to them. Or fifteen year old girls who describe what sounds like a rape have been accused of being liars. It's very disturbing and it comes from a public attitude which views girls of this age as not deserving of protection.

FWIW, I believe you're a journalist.

jifnotcif · 06/04/2012 09:00

Ok. Whatever you say.

limitedperiodonly · 05/04/2012 19:46

jifnotcif I am a journalist. You can search if you want to.

When I started training in 1983, I was taught to write in sentences of 30 words or fewer, so that most people could understand them.

It was drummed into me that just because I had a high standard of education and comprehension, not everyone else did. I might find myself writing for people who left school at 12-14 - because in case you don't know, that's what used to happen, indeed it happened to my parents - and who were as entitled to be informed as the most erudite person.

There was another, more practical, reason. I worked on typewriters on A5 paper. If you wrote in pars of one sentence you could swap them about, just renumbering the pages, if you needed to move information up and down the story without rewriting the whole thing.

Need any more proof that I've done this thing for a living for quite a long time? That's a rhetorical question.

Anyway, easy comprehension for all was the most abiding lesson of my training and informs my attitude to the dissemination of, and access to, news.

BTW I was forbidden to use split sentences, dashes and words such as 'erudite' for the same reason. But I'm going to take the chance that you can handle them.

Much later, when I began writing for websites, I was reminded to write single sentence pars because the human brain finds it difficult to process crowded information on screen.

You must have noticed this from some posts on Mumsnet and other sites. There's an awful lot more that human brains find hard to process, don't you agree?

Writing for tabloids is more difficult than writing for broadsheet readers who know quite long words. That's a fact; though I write for both. You may look it up, along with other aids to comprehension that I learned, such as the Fog Index. I don't know whether you know that and frankly, I don't care.

So, IM really-very-informed O the NSPCC press office has failed for the reasons I outlined in previous posts and now in this one.

BTW you would have been better to use a semi-colon instead of a comma between 'support' and 'don't' in your last sentence. HTH

Mrsrobertduvall

  1. No;
  1. Yes, I do, against people who aren't doing their jobs properly and failing vulnerable people. Do you want to give reasons to defend people who draw salaries for holding down such important jobs and yet appear to fail at them?

You two have been rude in a way that the other people who responded to my posts have not.

If those people want to come back and say I've got it wrong and they intended to be rude to me all along, that's okay. If anyone else wants to be rude I can take it.

But I'd much rather that people asked me to explain my POV, even criticised it in the coherent manner of the previous posters and debated what I think is the very important subject of what I see as the disservice done to teenage girls by one of Britain's premier child care organisations.

I'm an expert in what I do but I'm not a know-it-all. I accept that, that my first post was more heat than light and that my argument has been tempered by some careful questioning.

I want to listen to people who have reasonable arguments, whether they agree with me or not. Does anyone else want to do that?

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Mrsrobertduvall · 05/04/2012 17:53

Have you just been made redundant from the NSPCC press office?
You do seem to have an axe to grind.

jifnotcif · 05/04/2012 17:40

I don't believe you are a journalist at all.

No journalist would write with such short paragraphs.

Give the NSPCC support, don't undermine them.

limitedperiodonly · 05/04/2012 17:25

If I gave the impression I blamed Jon Brown that was unfair of me.

He has a job to do and I've no reason to believe he doesn't do it well. He didn't perform very well on TV and the report/press release he wrote was dull but that's not his job. For all I know he communicates very well with his peers. Communicating with the press is easy when someone teaches you how.

If he's not comfortable being interviewed, and not everyone is, the press office should find someone who is and collaborate on the reports he wants to release so everyone gets his message.

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sunshineandbooks · 05/04/2012 16:29

Ok. I'm not sure the fault lies with a single individual at the NSPCC, but yes, your're right. It's very sad how the abuse of teenage girls is basically considered not newsworthy enough in comparison to younger children who always evoke so much more sympathy. That definitely is a feminist issue. Sad

limitedperiodonly · 05/04/2012 16:08

Basically, yes.

Jon Brown's statement said the NSPCC needs more members of the public to be aware of abuse and how to prevent it. Yes, it does.

And yet the news coverage, such as it was, focussed on the abuse that many people are already aware of through past campaigns by the NSPCC and others - abuse of younger children usually in domestic situations. The greater level of abuse against older children, overwhelmingly girls, wasn't touched.

I know no organisation can dictate editorial lines and I understand, not least through stories I've covered, that the public and media are generally unsympathetic to stories of abused teenage girls.

That doesn't mean you don't try. You call on friendly press contacts, you set up moving case histories with girls and parents, you explain the kind of abusive situations they face and you put forward engaging people such as youth workers, police and prosecutors who are working to change their lives who will fight their corner in the press and on TV in plain language.

To me the lack of sympathy to older girls suffering abuse is a feminist issue. Many people blame teenage girls for the situations they find themselves in when they should be blaming the abusers and the society that makes them vulnerable.

Yes, keep telling us about little children. But don't ignore them once they turn 11 and have complicated lives and personalities that some people find difficult to sympathise with.

As a journalist I've worked with very good press officers from many organisations who think about what they're doing and how to show the work of their organisation and its clients. I didn't recognise anything of the kind here.

That's all

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sunshineandbooks · 05/04/2012 13:22

Is the problem with this press release is that it implies (indirectly) that child abuse victims are under the age of 11 and so whitewashes older children out of the picture?

Is there a particular feminist angle on this? Kritiq is the 6x as many girls as boys figure you mentioned made up to illustrate a point or is it taken from the report?

Sorry for all the questions. Just trying to get this straight in my head.

limitedperiodonly · 05/04/2012 09:25

KRITIQ, yes, my beef is with the NSPCC. I don?t dislike the charity. In fact, I respect it. I think they are being done a disservice by their press office and therefore children are being done a disservice.

A great deal of information was gathered through this FOI request. I don't dispute its accuracy and I don't believe it has been misrepresented.

But I do not believe it has not been used effectively.

I do strongly believe the NSPCC should be, as you say, 'investing in awareness - raising or trying to influence policy'. They may have done that with professionals in the field of child abuse but they did not do that for the wider public.

That is their job.

The figures were not widely circulated and are contained in a research report which is not accessible to ordinary people - that includes journalists who do not have the time or inclination to rummage for information. No matter what you think of that, it's true.

I'm glad you think the Jon Brown's article is jargony and befuddling. That's not a particular failing of his. It is the job of a press officer to make his words accessible while maintaining accuracy.

Like you I've seen some awful press releases. That's not an excuse. This is an important job and it wasn't done.

They failed to persuade news organisations to pick up the story let alone report more widely on the issue of child sexual abuse than most people's definition of a child eg someone very young.

It is not the NSPCC who are 'perpetuating myths'. I apologise. Those were my words. But it is the job of the press office to dispel myths, or more properly, widely-held perceptions. They did not do this.

I accept they have little control over news reports but it is their job to try. On the evidence here I don't think they've tried. The NSPCC is a high-profile charity with respected views. I find it difficult to believe news organisations wouldn't be interested in their message if that message was conveyed properly.

I agree with you that a child is someone aged up to 19. Many people do not grasp that. It is the press office's job to help them to.

The fact that most journalists don't rummage is an advantage because you can lead them wherever you want as long as you back it up with evidence.

Evidence like two thirds of abuse happening to teenagers, most of whom are female, some of whom may not be garner much sympathy from the general public because of their personal circumstances.

It is the NSPCC's job to make people aware that abuse doesn't happen only to sympathetic victims - that's my word again - but I don't know how else to describe people many people might not have much love for but who they should care about.

The only national coverage I could see was Sky's cliched view of a playroom, and use of the figure of one-third which related to children under 11.

They did use someone who had been abused to her late teens but her story reinforced the view that sex abuse starts with a young victim and happens in a domestic setting.

I've heard her story before. I'm not belitting her experience or disputing her right to keep describing it, but it's the NSPCC's job to provide other voices and different experiences.

As I've said, they have no control over editorial decisions but they could try to influence them.

I do apologise for calling it a survey. It is accurate to use Jon Brown's descriptions which are investigations or a collation of figures.

Now it's my turn not to understand the point you're making

You say you think Jon Brown might not be overall head of strategy for the NSPCC. You might be right. But he is described as Head of Strategy and Development for Sexual Abuse and is the appropriate person to talk on this matter and was put up do it.

So what's your point? Do you think he wasn't the appropriate person? Do you think there was someone more appropriate? Surely, that's the decision of the NSPCC.

I do care about the issue. I work for a wage. My job is not in the field of child abuse but I do understand what's required from a press office.

NSPCC press officers are also being paid a wage. I don't know but imagine it's a pretty big department headed by a Director of Communications, his or her Deputy, a Communications Manager, possibly a deputy and some senior and junior press officers.

This costs a lot of money. Essentially, that's what I'm asking is my final paragraph - I don't think it's money well-spent.

Do you think these jobs should be done by volunteers or interested amateurs?

I don't. I believe they should be done by competent people on appropriate salaries for the sector. Undoubtedly they're being paid. But in this instance they are not competent.

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KRITIQ · 05/04/2012 02:31

Sorry for typos. Insomniac on a phone. Paragraph 3 should read '43 police services,' not policy services.

KRITIQ · 05/04/2012 02:28

My quip was in response to your retort to Nyac's suggestion that you volunteer for NSPCC. After saying in your previous post that you cared about the issue, you then said you only work for a good wage. But then there were your comments suggesting waste of money by NSPCC, coupled with complaints that their PR is rubbish. Anyhow, lets not get bogged down with that.

Once again, Jon Brown is not Head of Strategy for NSPCC, although that.s twice now you've stated that. If your beef is accuracy in the article, then it would help if you observed this, too.

The reports said data was for 2010 - 2011 and came from all 43 policy authorities in England and Wales. Did you miss that when you said you didn't 'notice any timescale' for the figures? Yes, the 2/3 is approximate, but actual figures supplied by the police were also cited.

I could find no use of the word 'innocent' by Jon Brown in his Huff Post piece to describe abused children, let alone to distinguish deserving from undeserving victims. I seriously don't understand where you are getting that from.

I agree that the general public may see the rape of a 5 year old as worse than the rape of a 15 year old. But, if NSPCC's view agreed with this, surely they would only publish data related to under 11s and ignore the rest. And why would the charity have bothered to propose changes to the British Crime Survey to capture sexual abuse data for younger teens if they didn't think abuse of teens to be serious?

I'm still not getting the reason you are so angry about this report. Would you be willing to answer some specific questions?

Is your problem with the figures cited? Do you dispute the accuracy of data given by the 43 police services? Do you think NSPCC have misrepresented the figures? Is the issue that you haven't found the FOI request on line and won't believe the figures without that?

The figures state that 6 times more girls were abused than boys. You haven't mentioned this. Is it just because you think all the figures are rubbish, or is there any other reason for not mentioning it?

Why did you choose to give this thread the title, 'NSPCC Sex Crimes Survey?' That isn't accurate. The figures weren't based on a survey. NSPCC didn't produce the figures. The police services did. The figures relate specifically to sexual abuse of under 18s, and weren't a subset of general sex crimes. I found your title odd, especially as you seem to be questioning the accuracy of information supplied by NSPCC.

Is your beef with NSPCC, with large charities, with children's charities generally? Is it because you think they shouldn't be investing in awareness-raising or trying to influence policy? Is it that you think they should only spend their money on direct services to help children who've been abused?

I also don't understand what you are asking in the last paragraph.

I can see that you are angry and think a great disservice has been done to abused children. It seems you don't like NSPCC. I'm still not getting the all important 'how and why' though.

limitedperiodonly · 05/04/2012 00:25

No problem nyac Smile

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limitedperiodonly · 05/04/2012 00:24

KRITIQ I am going to try to be clear and I am certainly going to avoid personal insults. I would be grateful if you would return the favour.

Let's start all over again and see if we can find some common ground. I'm confident that we ought to be able to find some because we are adults and I guess neither of us like people hurting young people or their pain being misconstrued in the media.

My particular issue here is the handling of the NSPCC's report arising from their FOI request.

The way I took it from Sky's report is that a third of sexual offences are against young people up to 11years old. Two thirds are against people from 11-17. No timescale that I noticed. Those are approximate figures.

I was angry that Sky appeared to be focussing unduly on 'child abuse' as most people would understand it - eg against so-called 'innocent' victims, rather than concentrated on the more 'unpalatable' area of abuse against 11-17 year olds.

My quotation marks. Forgive me, but I know who Society finds the more sympathetic age group and I guess you do too. Or maybe not. I don't want to put words in your mouth so please say if you agree or not.

I first believed that it wasn't reported properly. That's my default mode, even as a journalist, because that's the way things are.

But thanks to you and CanCant I looked into it and realised that it was reported as best as could be expected and that the NSPCC had failed grievously in getting their message across.

It's not their message. That's the message of the human beings being hurt that the NSPCC is not only being paid to deliver, but has a moral reponsibility to convey.

I have no idea what the terms of that request were because Jon Brown, the NSPCC's Head of Strategy, does not specify them in his blog.

Neither did he do that when he was all over the TV today. Though possibly skilled at something, it wasn't at putting his point across in friendly interviews. That was another gross failure. If he couldn't do that then the NSPCC should have someone who could. If not, then what is their PR budget for?

You couldn't find the report into the FOI request when you Googled it, not because I failed to find the links for you but because it wasn't there.

You can't make head or tail of the links I did give you because the message isn't clear. Feel free to find clearer links.

Even if the press had the time and inclination, it is not their responsibility to do the NSPCC's work for them.

Any professional press office will produce clear press releases and provide good spokespeople to put over their views rather than hoping the press will 'rummage' around for the information.

I'm interested and gave up because there didn't appear to be a coherent point. Do you think anyone else would be interested in a rummage?

As said before, what do you think their PR budget is for and what you think the department should do?

How much was wasted on this so-called campaign and the continuing efforts of their press office and what do you think might be the outcome for abused young people if it was done properly?

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Nyac · 05/04/2012 00:18

I hope that didn't come across as undermining you.

It's just if you can see something sometimes you need to sort it out yourself, and if you're a journalist you have those skills. And charities do have volunteers even right up to their press office.

However you're right, it's the professionals in their office who should be doing this and if they aren't there's a big problem. The NSPCC is big enough to be able to pay for high calibre communications staff.

KRITIQ · 04/04/2012 23:20

You don't have to be a smart arse, btw. It's not making your point any clearer.

KRITIQ · 04/04/2012 23:19

Thanks for the links. Perhaps I'm missing something here.

The article in Huff Post Impact that you linked above was written by Jon Brown, Head of Strategy & Development for Sexual Abuse. I'm not that familiar with the NSPCC's internal structures, but it sounds like he's the manager of one strand of their work, not the over all Head of Strategy for the charity.

As a fairly big national charity, I would guess they do have a Press Officer who probably would have at least looked over the article and/or news release. Having said that, I've read some pretty appalling news releases issued by big statutory agencies and companies as well as charities. They can be turgid, full of "industry jargon," and really miss the target. The Huff Post article is a bit on the jargony side and all the numbers might befuddle the average reader, but I've seen far worse.

Anyhow, I've looked at the links, read through a couple of other articles on other media websites, but what I'm not getting what it is in this story that you are so unhappy about.

Is it the use of the word "children" rather than "children and young people?" (the former possibly implying it only refers to pre-teen age children, although some agencies do use "child" to refer to a person up to age 19, in my experience.)

Or, are you objecting to the sentence from Jon Brown, "A concentrated effort has to be made if we are to start reducing this distressing level of offences, many of which are committed on extremely young and helpless children," (which might suggest that sexual assaults on very young children are worse than those on older children?)

Nope, I'm still not getting it.

I linked to the full text of the study conducted by Bristol University and NSPCC. It's not actually intended to be a "turn-on," but evidence from their research. There is an executive summary on their website somewhere but it's late so if you're interested, have a rummage yourself.

If I could understand what it is that you are unhappy about, I might agree, or not. But frankly, I don't understand at all what you are saying. Sorry.

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