Tulisa - wonderful role model

Lots of people film these sort of things I think everyone is over reacting.

IMO she had no choice but to come out about this tape. What would be really good is if she impressed to young women how stupid she feels for allowing her boyfriend to film her and that her parents have now probably seen her have sex.

Why haven't you got anything to say about the guy who bashed her in the face with his purple willy, filmed it and probably released the film Karma?

Well the man she's accusing of doing this is denying that it's him in the video. Since all you see in the vid is a purple willy and not the body attached to it it is hard to say. If it was one of her ex boyfriends who purposely put this video out there to harm her than that is despicable. It would be quite interesting to hear her ex's side of the story. So far he seems to be simply saying that it's not him in the video.

Why haven't you got anything to say about the guy who bashed her in the face with his purple willy, filmed it and probably released the film Karma?

Like Tulisa said, it was an intimate moment which she wasn't expecting to share with anybody except her boyfriend - he's violated her privacy and her sexuality and her trust. Thats' pretty bad.

Is that the way you describe the sexual acts you engage in with partners?

to be fair I'm not allowing somebody to video-tape me bashing myself repeatedly in the face with a purple willy. If I was doing so it would be a stretch to describe such a spectacle as an 'intimate moment'

This is actually taken from a comment left by someone on a Tulisa article in the Observer. I thoroughly agree with it:

^So, definition of 'my hero' is:

1. you blowjob an idiot and get taped doing it
2. idiot leaks the tape
3. you deny through your pr that it is you
4. you realise that is not going to work
5. you do a 2nd video 'apologising that you have nothing to apologise for'^

Listen Im the first to say we shouldnt have to like or agree with each other just because we are women but come on, KarmaK the words you are using are so so nasty.

Is that the way you decribe the sexual acts you engage in with partners?

Yes it shows. so you are taking pleasure in her misfortune, how sisterly of you.

She's absolutely not my sister and I have made it extremely clear that I don't think much of her. You can't expect everyone to agree with your views.

Its the language you have used KarmaK sucking cock being slapped in the face by a purple willy^ its derogatory and nasty, which was clearly your intention.

let herself be filmed sucking cock, I do have to admit that I find it slightly amusing

Yes it shows. so you are taking pleasure in her misfortune, how sisterly of you.

You can like or dislike who you want, you just sound like you are taking perverse pleasure in her misfortune. Personally I find that sad.

It's fair enough to put Tulisa forward as a "role model" but I think it's important to accept that many, many of people will disagree with you. In my view the woman is a joke. While I certainly do not take "perverse pleasure" in her silly decision to let herself be filmed sucking cock, I do have to admit that I find it slightly amusing. There are so many women who have gone through really difficult experiences and come out triumphant - those are my role models. Tulisa in comparison is a bit of a joke to me. Sorry if that offends anybody but that is how it is.

It doesnt at all, im not a fan of hers either.

As I said before, you just appear to be taking pleasure in her humiliation.

You can like or dislike who you want, you just sound like you are taking perverse pleasure in her misfortune. Personally I find that sad.

Why does it matter so much to you whether I like her or not? I've already said that I have no respect for Tulisa and I am of course allowed to feel that way.

I don't actively dislike her

You do a very good impression of someone who does then.

You sound almost glad at her humiliation KarmaK.

not glad just indifferent. I had very little respect for Tulisa before this sex tape scandal and I have the same lack of respect for her after the event. I see her as a vaguely irritating woman with very little talent. I don't actively dislike her, but I certainly have never seen her as a role model.

She didn't make a film of herself by the sounds of it. A film was made of her.

The guy is saying that people need to hear both sides of the story, and that silence is a sign of integrity (since when?) which are two contradictory statements. It sounds like he's working to get his story straight.

any person who makes a film of themselves in this ever so global world is a stupid fuck monkey.

but who hasn't been a stupid fuck monkey - maybe not on a global scale, but that is only due to the fact htat iw as born in the 70's and global fuck monkeyness wasn't an issue - nowadays....sheesh - i hate to think what could have made it to you tube with me in an unwitting starring role!

that includes tulisa

that she tried to hide away and pretend it wasn't her after said fuck monkey ness.

i think iwould too tbh - but that shit aint flyin' T'lis we all knew it was you

so she did the next best thing

she said

sure i gave a bloke a blowy

and the bloke involved is this shithead fuckwank [cue photo] if you are going to judge /./..judge us both

which it hought was fair enough

and i don't follow popular culture very much as it happens, but tulisa [custy waves hands up an down in semi wanna be cool way] props to you t'lisa for reminding people that there are two people to judge here

so i think your both stupid

but thanks for reminding me to think that ...seriously i aint kidding - cos the reaction is always against the 'whorebag' woman - well fuck that shit

You sound almost glad at her humiliation KarmaK.

the problem is that none of us know the full story behind the scenes. Only Tulisa and MC Ultra know the truth and at least one of them is lying...

She might have made a mistake but her scumbag ex boyfriend made a choice. It's good she's naming names and putting the responbility for this where it belongs.

It is very likely she knew about this. It has not done her any harm as she launches a solo career without N Dubz.

I think it was shortsighted of her to be filmed like that but she was/is young and mistakes are made.

I agree. How must she feel to know that millions of people are watching her slapping herself around the face with a purple willy??

I dont believe its a publicity stunt at all.

I think it was shortsighted of her to be filmed like that but she was/is young and mistakes are made.

I think her ex is a slimeball.

It must be horrendous for her and im glad she made that response video. the only stance to take is to hold her head up and not be shamed by this.

Given her fan bases age group, I hope its a lesson for youngsters about who you have sex withand the whole issue of being filmed/taking intimate pics.