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women and muscularity

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MitchierInge · 19/01/2012 12:24

anyone interested in a sort of amorphous chat about this, from the bodybuilding competitions (bikinis and high heels) to women weight training generally?

I would like a pound of lean muscle for everyone who has warned me it is not attractive in a woman when:

  1. I am not attractive anyway (although obviously can't help sort of wanting to be but not to extent that I will actually get a hair style etc)
  2. I think it is attractive, perhaps not the bulked up by steroids look but healthy athleticism definitely is
  3. What does being attractive have to do with strengthening your body? Or is that what they mean, strength is unattractive?
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MitchierInge · 19/01/2012 15:46

Oh what quodlibet said actually. Why can't I express myself properly!

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 19/01/2012 15:45

BTW... Muscularity has been deemed attractive in women for quite some time. If you look at films from the seventies and earlier -something like James Bond where you get a fair smattering of women in bikinis - the bodies are slim but remarkably flabby. Today's models are far more muscular and toned than their predecessors and you've got all kinds of sportwomen like Jessica Ennis regular appearing in adverts etc.

MitchierInge · 19/01/2012 15:45

I don't care much about other people's bodies at all, although sometimes I see physiques that I admire - male or female, human or animal, living or marble - I am a bit interested in why some people are quite so opposed to my quest for muscularity. I'm still waiting for a copy of Venus With Biceps to arrive, maybe that mini history of Strong Women will give me something to think about.

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Hullygully · 19/01/2012 15:45

I find both sexes unattractive if they are really muscled.

OrmIrian · 19/01/2012 15:44

"To be honest, I'm finding this thread a bit creepy and Aryan idealish"

But the point of the thread isn't whether it is essential to be muscular, it's a discussion of whether people find muscular women unattractive and why.

Hullygully · 19/01/2012 15:44

whoops - hadn't rtft.

muscles good in general.

wouldn't personally go to gym or sculpt self. But if people want to, why not?

Quodlibet · 19/01/2012 15:43

I have a close friend who is a female natural bodybuilder (doesn't use drugs or steroids) who has done fantastically well in competitions this year. She says she has never felt more powerful and attractive, though this was a side effect, not the aim. Prior to this she has accomplished major goals in running, swimming etc - it's all about setting and beating goals for her, not about appearance.

The thing that gets me is that women's exercise goals ALWAYS seem to be defined by the end result of how you will look, not what you will be able to DO. I am training at the moment to build strength and stamina - not because I want to be a different shape, but because I want to be stronger and go further! But where are the female role models advocating training for physical ability gains? There are deafening voices when it comes to cajoling women to exercise to lose weight/"tone up" etc. One of the reasons I was so angry about no Sportswoman of the year was because that would have been ONE opportunity to celebrate female physical achievement, not appearance. I don't have high hopes for the Olympics in this regard.

Hullygully · 19/01/2012 15:43

muscles good

ClothesOfSand · 19/01/2012 15:41

To be honest, I'm finding this thread a bit creepy and Aryan idealish. Who cares what muscle tone other people have? Is somebody going to come around and start measuring us with callipers?

As long as people are fit enough not to drop down dead from a heart attack at 50, I don't see why it should be of any interest other than to the person actually going to the gym who may enjoy it as a hobby in the same way people enjoy nail art.

ClothesOfSand · 19/01/2012 15:37

I don't think hunter gatherers do look very muscular. They spend far fewer hours working than agriculturalists do.

If people want to look a certain way, that is up to them. But I don't think it is actually any different from a feminist perspective to putting on makeup or having a time consuming hair style.

If you want a hunter gatherer level of fitness, walk a dog for two hours a day and then look after your children, because that is pretty much all the exercise they do. Unlike farming, hunter gathering is not labour intensive.

OrmIrian · 19/01/2012 15:36

There is nothing unnatural or difficult to attain about a healthily muscled body.

MitchierInge · 19/01/2012 15:33

I don't know what you mean by naturally really, a 'natural' hunting/gathering lifestyle and lugging water around and that sort of thing would result in the kind of muscularity I'm thinking of.

Suppose it depends where the threshold is, in anyone's mind, but people have always modified their bodies one way or another haven't they? That much is 'natural' at least.

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 19/01/2012 15:31

Mostly I see people with their clothes, male or female, on so can't judge whether they are muscular or not. Don't think there's a problem with 'strength' for either gender... too simplistic to say 'women must be weak-looking' sorry..... but that unnatural bulking up, swollen, vein-popping thing people do for body-building competitions just looks wrong outside of a cattle-market. The Michelin Man effect.

ClothesOfSand · 19/01/2012 15:26

I don't find muscular bodies attractive on anybody, male or female. I have never weight trained in my life; it doesn't stop me from lifting heavy furniture or doing any other day to day physical tasks that most people have to do. Part of my work is also very physical for some of the year.

I just think this is another way of trying to mould women's bodies, because women's bodies constantly have to be representing something.

I am as strong a person as I need to be to get through life's tasks. I don't see what the appeal is of wasting time in a gym to get a certain appearance or change people's perceptions of you.

tethersend · 19/01/2012 15:19

I'm not sure that swapping one prescribed body image (which requires hard work and is not attainable 'naturally')for another is a good thing...

sportsfanatic · 19/01/2012 15:14

Strong is good. Can't stand women who stand around feebly waiting for a bloke to lift anything heavier than a brick.

Treasure your muscles - I was always fit and strong. The one thing I hate as I have got older and have arthritis in my knees and fingers (not bad but enough to restrict range of movement and give some pain) is diminution in physical strength, no matter how fit I am or how much training I do. However, without years of training decrepitude would likely have set in much earlier Grin

So flex those muscles, enjoy being strong... you lose it soon enough.

SardineQueen · 19/01/2012 15:06

Read thread now, good thread Smile

The boxing thing is telling isn't it. Women are allowed to box now, but they must wear a skirt while doing so. Just in case. Just in case of what, I don't know. Just in case viewers don't understand that they are to look out for eye candy as well as boxing skills? Just in case some people at first glance don't notice they are women? Because it's fun to have short skirts flying up and down? Who can say...

Pseudonymity · 19/01/2012 15:05

But surely in the real world, i.e. outside of the media pages, strong, athletic women are seen as attractive by everyone?

LineRunner · 19/01/2012 15:01

Interesting link, Sardine. What next, compulsory small pants underneath?

As a digression, I actually saw Prince Naseem box in his heyday and he was wearing a leopard-print skirt thing. That was about his flamboyance and his choice as a money-drawing elite sportsman, I presumed.

LineRunner · 19/01/2012 14:55

I find it hard to distinguish Jodie Marsh from her tattoo-work.

Her body is certainly a project that is pulling away from the former 'glamour' construct.

But it's still very much a public project.

SardineQueen · 19/01/2012 14:52

not read thread but wanted to quickly post this about olympics and female boxers

may have to wear skirts to distinguish them from men Confused

MitchierInge · 19/01/2012 14:43

oh thank you, yes that's her

what do you think?

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LineRunner · 19/01/2012 14:42

Jodie Marsh, OP.

LineRunner · 19/01/2012 14:42

I think it's interesting where cultural aesthetic preference becomes politically promoted ideal, e.g. ancient Athenian torso-defining body armour or Soviet poster imagery. There are twists and turns of gender identity that can be quite surprising to some modern eyes.

I think if women can deconstruct, they can be women.

I am quite strong physically and like it.

MitchierInge · 19/01/2012 14:37

I don't think Madonna's arms are bulky anyway?

Wish could remember name of recently in news 'former glamour model turned body builder' but I was fascinated by her physique (not the implants though). She looked like an anatomy lesson.

That is me doing some objectification and slightly letting the side down a bit, sorry.

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