To cut a long story short DHs family think I am being a loon. DH bought a calendar for his brothers Christmas present. The pictures on the calendar were women 'partaking' in brothers favourite sport, wearing bikinis and posing provocotavily. It's not a sport you'd usually trounce around in bikinis for.
I said I wouldn't wrap the present, DH could do it himself and that I thought it counted as soft porn and I didn't want DD being raised to have the attitude that women are just there to be objectified by men.
DH handed over the calendar at family Christmas and announced to everybody that it wasn't wrapped because I didn't approve of it. His family, including his mum and SIL think I'm mental because the women aren't topless and his mum keeps asking me to explain the problem.
It's not keeping me awake at night, I'm not making a huge song and dance about it. But the family, mil in particular, are mystified at me and determined to understand my reasoning/thinking.