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Happy Patriarchymas!

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thunderboltsandlightning · 24/12/2011 21:48

I know, I know - but this is the feminist section and christmas is about celebrating the birth of the son of god, with women's spirituality and power completely written out of the story. It's the classic patriarchal mindfuck for women. Even Santa's a man, but who does most of the present-buying and wrapping?

Then there's the fact that christmas is all about women doing most of the work, with men enjoying the benefits.

Each year I find it a little more difficult to have to go through it all. Once you've seen what it's about, it gets harder to ignore the brainwashing.

Hope everybody has a happy peaceful time, whatever you are celebrating.

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thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 01:41

I'm not insinuating it. I'm saying it straight out. Which bit of what I said was unclear?

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thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 01:39

That's just another patriarchal mindfuck. "he is genderless"? Can't you see the total internal contradication in that statement. I bet your church never refers to god (not goddess) as she.

Women are just supposed to ignore all the gendering and pretend we're included too.

Christian fathers viewed women as inferior beings to the fully human men:

?Both nature and the law place the woman in a subordinate condition to the man? Irenaeus, Fragment no 32.

?It is the natural order among people that women serve their husbands and children their parents, because the justice of this lies in (the principle that) the lesser serves the greater . . . This is the natural justice that the weaker brain serve the stronger. This therefore is the evident justice in the relationships between slaves and their masters, that they who excel in reason, excel in power.? (Augustine, Questions on the Heptateuch, Book I, § 153.

?Nor can it be doubted, that it is more consonant with the order of nature that men should bear rule over women, than women over men. It is with this principle in view that the apostle says, "The head of the woman is the man;" and, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands." So also the Apostle Peter writes: "Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord." Augustine, On Concupiscence, Book I, chap. 10.

?The Apostle wants women who are manifestly inferior, to be without fault, in order that the Church of God be pure? Ambrosiaster, On 1 Timothy 3,11.
?Who are there that teach such things apart from women? In very truth, women are a feeble race, untrustworthy and of mediocre intelligence. Once again we see that the Devil knows how to make women spew forth ridiculous teachings, as he has just succeeded in doing in the case of Quintilla, Maxima and Priscilla? Epiphanius, Panarion 79, §1.

Confirmation of the inferior status of women was often seen in the belief that only man, not woman, had been created in God's image:

?You (woman) destroyed so easily God's image, man.? Tertullian, De Cultu Feminarum, book 1, chap. 1.
?How, then, would God have failed to make any such concession to men more (than to women), whether on the ground of nearer intimacy, as the male being in "His own image," or on the ground of harder toil? But if nothing (has been thus conceded) to the male, much less to the female.? Tertullian, On the Veiling of Virgins, chap. 10.

? Women must cover their heads because they are not the image of God . . . How can anyone maintain that woman is the likeness of God when she is demonstrably subject to the dominion of man and has no kind of authority? For she can neither teach nor be a witness in a court nor exercise citizenship nor be a judge-then certainly not exercise dominion? Ambrosiaster, On 1 Corinthians 14, 34.

?So the soil, that is the womb, accepts the human race, and she nourishes what is her own after receiving it , and while nourishing this body, and while giving it a body, distinguishes it into various members?. Jerome, Letter to Pammachius.

?They shut themselves up alone with women and justify their sinful embraces by quoting the lines: ?The almighty father takes the earth to wife; pouring upon her fertilizing rain, that from her womb new harvest he may reap.? Jerome, Letter 133. To Ctesiphon, §3.

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MJinSparklyStockings · 27/12/2011 01:36

I think that if Christianity informs a festival that dominates our culture, a bit of analysis/pondering is fair enough.

That I agree with, but I am not sure insinuating God is a paedophilic rapist is the same as a bit of analysis/pondering.

MJinSparklyStockings · 27/12/2011 01:35

In the quote you just used, God did not impregnate the Virgin Mary, the Holy Spirit did, and the Holy Spirit is not God but part of the Holy Trinity, of Father, Son and Holy Ghost.

God himself cannot be automatically considered to be male either.
"This does not mean however that the Church wishes to anthropomorphize God by projecting human maleness onto Him. The Church knows that God ?is neither man nor woman: He is God? and ?God?s parental tenderness can also be expressed by the image of motherhood? (Catechism, no. 239). The Bible in various places uses feminine imagery to refer to the Holy Spirit ? imagery that goes a long way back in both Catholic and ancient Jewish tradition. There is much theology in the Jewish tradition with regard to the ?breath? of God or the ?wisdom? of God cast in feminine, maternal, or bridal terms. The great Shekinah glory cloud who led Israel through the wilderness and who surrounded Solomon?s Temple, was understood by the rabbis in feminine terms. Though God is usually referred to in masculine imagery, Isaiah 42:14 describes the Lord giving birth after much travail. This image may lie behind Jesus? saying in John 3:5 that we must be born of water and the Spirit. It is probably significant that Jesus uses ?born of the Spirit? and ?born of God? (John 1:13) rather than ?begotten of God,? which would reflect more paternal parentage. This does not take away from Isaiah?s specifically calling God ?Father? (Is. 63:16, 64:8) and Jesus echoing this dozens of times in the Gospels. The Holy Spirit inspired the scriptures and therefore respect for the Holy Spirit means respect for His choice of words and images to describe God in all their paradoxical tension.

The masculanising of God came from Jesus, prior to that, God can, in some Catholic circles, considered to have been Gender Neutral.

Tortington · 27/12/2011 01:31

god is spirit

he is genderless

Tortington · 27/12/2011 01:29

Man and woman are both with one and the same dignity "in the image of God"

from the catechism

thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 01:28

Patriarchal religion was made and is made in the minds of misogynistic men's minds. It reflected what they did and what they wanted to do.

Men at that time raped young women and girls and got them pregnant and forced them into marriage. So that's what they got god to do, minus the marriage part. Of course they said Mary wanted it, but then rapists always say that about their victims.

To understand patriarchal religion you need to look at its symbols and myths and see what they are really representing. It's not good.

And yes, god is a man. God the father, remember?

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Tortington · 27/12/2011 01:26

we - humankind are made in his image - bothmale and female

and i think i read a lot of the confusion is about genderised words there are not a lot of languages where you can refer to something without it being male or female

but i can't go and researcht his so maybe some theologist or something could wade in on that point

also god is spirit anyway

thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 01:24

Well looking at Wikipedia, and depending on how much you think you can trust them on chrsitian dogma, the concept of the virgin birth (using the same idea of virginity as we do) has been around since the second century:

"The virgin birth of Jesus is a tenet of Christianity and Islam which holds that Mary miraculously conceived Jesus while remaining a virgin. The term "virgin birth" is commonly used, rather than "virgin conception", due to the tradition that Joseph "knew her not till she brought forth her firstborn son".[1] This doctrine was a universally held belief in the Christian church by the 2nd century,[2] and is upheld by Roman Catholicism, the Church of the East, Eastern Orthodoxy, Oriental Orthodoxy, Protestantism and Anglicanism. It is included in the two most widely used Christian creeds, which state that Jesus "was incarnate of the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary" (the Nicene Creed)[3] and was "born of the Virgin Mary" (Apostles' Creed),[4] and was not seriously challenged, except by some minor sects, before the Enlightenment theology of the 18th century.[2]
The canonical gospels of Matthew (Matthew 1:18)[1:18] and Luke[1:26-35] say that Mary was a virgin and that Jesus was conceived by the Holy Spirit. These gospels, later tradition and current doctrine present Jesus' conception as a miracle involving no natural father, no sexual intercourse, and no male seed in any form, but instead brought about by the Holy Spirit.[5][6][7][8] In Roman Catholic and Eastern and Oriental Orthodox usage, the term "virgin birth" means not only that Mary was a virgin when she conceived and gave birth, but also that she remained a virgin throughout her life, a belief attested since the 2nd century.[9] (See Perpetual virginity of Mary).
The general Christian doctrine of the virgin birth of Jesus (i.e., Mary's virginal conception of Jesus) is not to be confused with the Roman Catholic doctrine of her Immaculate Conception, which concerns instead her mother's conception of Mary. This is thought to have occurred in the normal way, not miraculously. What the Roman Catholic doctrine of the Immaculate Conception holds is that, when Mary herself was conceived, she came into existence without the "stain" (Latin, macula) of original sin.[10]
Mary's virginity at the conception of Jesus is also a tenet of Islam.[11][12] Muslims refer to Jesus with the matronymic Jesus son of Mary (Isa bin Maryam), a term repeatedly used in the Qur'an.[13]"

God impregnated her and she never had intercourse.

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Tortington · 27/12/2011 01:22

there was not penetration - not in my faith

in my faith god doesn't have a dick

and mary was a virgin


there was not sex

you presume God has a dick had sex with a woman with a penis. the all knowing creator who knows and thinks everything, needs to go for a piss - you're blowing my mind - omg - to piss be must need to eat and drink.....holy shit .....godpenetrated mary the virgin ....for teh rape bit....but then there is just this little matter of the eternal virgin thing...hmmmm right then lets call this double speak bollocks and just say that god raped a woman with a dick and its well known in feminist theory

ok then

MJinSparklyStockings · 27/12/2011 01:12

Purely from a threoretical point of view, Mary wasnt impregnated (ie with sperm), at least not in the rabidly Catholic (put me off religion for life) schools I went to.

Greek and Roman Mythology do talk about Gods ravishing women, but the basis of Christianity is that Mary was pure and devout, that this is something she wanted to do.

If I remember correctly, Islam also concurs with the virgin birth (but I cant remember where I read that because in school other religions didnt exist).

I dont believe myself, but neither do I think attacking one of the underlying principles of Christianity, at the time of one of their biggest celebrations, is particularily appropriate.

TheBrandyButterflyEffect · 27/12/2011 01:04

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MJinSparklyStockings · 27/12/2011 00:52

Genesis 1:26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

Genesis 5:1 This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him;
2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created.

Man is the generic term for the species, and does not refer to the fact god made only "men with penises".

thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 00:43

Our father who art in heaven.

God made man in his own image (including a penis I presume).

The thing about god impregnating Mary but her still remaining a virgin is just another of those patriarchal double-think mind-fucks. Like BrandyButterfly says, the context was the patriarchal rape of the goddess(es) which has old roots and was repeated in the nativity story.

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Tortington · 27/12/2011 00:38

but god wasn't a man and didn't have a penis and if he did then the virgin mary woudnt be a virgin

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thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 00:30

Oh yeah, Zeus the rapist (amongst others). It's true that that's the context. It didn't spring out of nothing.

Mary was the rape victim who "consented".

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thunderboltsandlightning · 27/12/2011 00:16

I'm also a rape victim. The "this offends rape victims" claim gets old pretty quickly.

The analysis of Mary's rape by god is common knowledge in feminist circles and in feminist theology. It's not a new idea or limited to me saying it on this thread. I realise it's shocking, but something being shocking should stop feminists saying it. The sexual politics in the creator coming along and telling Mary that she's going to bear his child, are shocking. Do we think she could have said no? What would have god said if she had? What would have been the consequences? Remember this was the god of the old testament - Mary and Joseph were Jewish.

Patriarchal myth bolsters the patriarchy in a myriad of ways. I probably need to talk about this more fully. Will try tomorrow.

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kickassangel · 27/12/2011 00:02

tbh, it doesn't matter whether it was rape, or holy or whatever. It romaticises the concept of young innocent girl, there to provide for the big powerful man & let him be ruler.

So many stories are based on the idea of the young, pure innocent girl being 'rescued' or falling in love with the big strong guy. She looks up at him with her adoring eyes, and then gives him babies to continue his patriarchal reign through the generations.

Which then totally justifies men going after younger women, and expecting them to hero worship them.

Prob why older women aren't seen as so sexy - they just don't fall for the bullshit so easily.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 22:16

I have been a victim of date rape

I don't take offence at feminist analysis of religion

StewieGriffinsMom · 26/12/2011 21:50

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ElfenorRathbone · 26/12/2011 21:45

It always really pisses me off when people decide that women who have been raped must feel a certain way about certain things btw.

Completely off subject, but one of the reasons we have such lousy attitudes to and conviction rates for rape, is because of the things we demand that rape victims say, think and feel and if they don't, we decide that they're not "real" rape victims. Very dangerous for women and needs to be called on when it happens. Sorry Architien I'm sure you don't mean any harm by it, but it's not any of our place to say what is (or should be) offensive or not to rape victims.

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