Oh bless him! He rescues poor little Kenyan woman who doesn't appreciate him and her second husband for the rescuers they are. But he doesn't hate women.
Well there we are. No need for us to be angry then - he isn't. Does he really think that we are angry because someone dumped us? Really?
Not joining the dots between the personal and political might be a good place to start (and a bit more productive than other starting points I thought of 
).