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Can someone please explain to me free childcare?

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QueenOfAllBiscuitsandMuffins · 15/11/2011 15:05

At FEM 11 on Sunday and right now on twitter (if you are following #feministlaw or @thefworkuk) free childcare has been mentioned. Now I really struggle with the concept of why free childcare being provided.
I am not against the gov't helping with childcare costs those who need help but I just don't understand why it should be free. I personally think childcare is cheap at £5ph it's because it comes out of our wages we class it as expensive.
What is the feminist thinking behind free childcare please?

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JuliaScurr · 17/11/2011 13:01

The definition of what a job is needs to change and become more like what a single mother of two under 7 yr olds can do. Currently we still have the idea of the f/t husband job, supported by SAH wife. Women still have to fit the 'husband' job pattern, but with no support.

MillyR · 17/11/2011 12:49

I agree that providing childcare should be seen as the responsibility of the whole of society, not just people who are parents. I also agree that people with higher incomes should contribute more to the cost of childcare, but the fair way to do that is to tax all high income earners, not just those with young children.

I don't think we will get adults acting responsibly towards society as a whole if we keep pushing all responsibility for children on to their parents. We should feel responsible for all children, not just our own.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 16/11/2011 20:41
Grin

You would not thank me if I did, I promise.

I know you can only move costs around. But I don't see what'd be wrong with a NHS-style, free at point of access, funded by taxpayers model. The system we have now is really not financially very efficient IMO.

I agree with you though that many people would probably prefer to pay more for quality care rather than pay taxes for everyone - but that's true of any kind of welfare, isn't it?

Increased child benefit might work fine, though.

Himalaya · 16/11/2011 20:30

LRD - feel free to come and babysit my narky teenagers anytime Grin

I'm not sure what shared responsibility for children in society means in practice (although it sounds nice).

Childcare costs what it costs because of the person-hours involved. You can't make it free, just move the costs around. I think people are more willing to pay more for quality childcare for their own children and to allow their own self or their partner to go to work, than to pay into a big pot for everyone to have free childcare - the pressure would always be to ration it and keep the costs rock bottom (like the NHS analogy) which in the end would not be the best outcome for parents or children.

Increasing child benefit seems a simpler expression of society's contribution to the cost of raising a family rather than free childcare.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 16/11/2011 20:00

Well, yes, exactly.

I do look at it like that.

I just think the solution ideally isn't just both mums and dads doing some of the childcare, it's recognizing that we all have a shared responsibility for children in our society.

Himalaya · 16/11/2011 19:54

Lelainpierce - Yes, but the question was about whether universal 'free' childcare is a good idea. I agree with what Queenofbiscuits said earlier re: CSA etc...

Still though fixing on 'free childcare' as the answer to the problem of why mothers drop out/fall back in work seem to treat all mothers as if they were in effect single parents with dads not expected to contribute either financially or practically to the 9-5 care of their children ...which seems like exactly the opposite if what we should want.

LRD - I just reread your post "In my area, there are very few women at the top level, and the career as a whole is a pyramid shape for women - masses of women start out; very few get to the top. So I've no idea what motivated all of them to get out, but I have a fair sense of some of the general pressures. The reason I commented about men who're not always as well qualified is that when you compare what men at the higher levels have achieved, you can see that some of them were in the second or third 'rank' of the career back when they were starting out, but have made it through. Of course, maybe that would have happened even if their competition hadn't dropped out, but I suspect not."

Equally you could look at it like this ...when you compare what men at the higher levels have achieved, you can see that some of them were in the second or third 'rank' of the career back when they were starting out, but have made it through because when they had children they didn't change their work patterns at all. Of course, maybe that would have happened even if their wives hadn't hadn't dropped out but I suspect not.

lelainapierce · 16/11/2011 16:08

Himalaya- have you heard of single parents?

LRDtheFeministDragon · 16/11/2011 15:56

trills - well, schooling is free, it'd probably be like home educating, wouldn't it? People do have to justify it a lot (which is crap), but it is still seen as hard work and a valid option by most, isn't it?

LRDtheFeministDragon · 16/11/2011 15:55

I'm not saying it's not worth considering that childcare is both parents' responsibility, himalaya. I think it is and should be. But personally I think society does also have responsibility for the next generation, and if that means subsidising childcare, that makes sense to me.

I'm not sure how it would work, so I am just thinking it through.

I do see your point about dad on 50k paying for childcare - because the household income would be high. But then, couldn't dad on 50k contribute a chunk of his tax to cover childcare instead?

I think that the problem with debating this is that the current situation needs sorting out from two perspectives - we need to sort out the domestic attitude that childcare is women's work, and we need to sort out the employment attitude that it's ok that women tend to get pushed out of careers (especially some careers), even though this isn't only about childcare. It's hard to think how to sort one problem without coming across as if you're dismissing the other one, but I don't mean to dismiss anything.

I think the current system is pretty inefficient, and that's a good reason to dislike it. It's maybe a bit like the attitude to education - people resist higher taxes, and we don't put enough money into early education. But it is then hugely expensive to provide remedial education to adults later on ... and yet that's what we end up doing in many cases. I wonder if childcare isn't similar, in that if it were sorted out at root - with funding easily accessible - then perhaps we wouldn't be bearing the costs that come with losing skilled workers.

I know this is dead biased btw, and I'm not suggesting childcare isn't skilled work (!) - just it seems a lot of people leave careers and don't get back to them, who really would like to.

MooncupGoddess · 16/11/2011 15:53

Himalaya - of course you are right that childcare should be seen as both parents' responsibility, but this is a cultural issue, isn't it? I can't immediately see what the government could do to bring this cultural change about.

Whereas free or heavily subsidised childcare would immediately change lives for both women and men.

Trills · 16/11/2011 15:50

Just an idle thought - if childcare were free would it be socially harder for SAHMs to justify not working?

(not that you need to justify it, but that sometimes people feel that they should)

Himalaya · 16/11/2011 15:30

Elderberry - but why is it obvious that they are they knocked off the career ladder by lack of free childcare provided for by the state? Their partners are not knocked off the career ladder despite also being parents-who-work and not having free childcare provided by the state. It seems to me that the thing that is knocking them off the career ladder is the decision to put their partners career first.

LRD - I don't think childcare is society's responsibility. It is society's responsibility to ensure that parents and families are able to look after their children, not put obstacles in their way and help those who need it.

Why jump straight from 'childcare is a woman's responsibility' to 'childcare is society's responsibility' without even stopping to consider what the world would look like if we believed that 'childcare is the equal responsibility of both parents'. Why is that not even worth considering?

I agree that women shouldn't have to say 'my job is really important/better paid than my DHs' in order to continue to work. We have to make the case that it is worthwhile working for long-term career prospects, financial independence and professional satisfaction etc.. and this is worth doing even if the family might save money, and the dad's work life be simpler if the mother didn't work.

If both parents are low-paid then childcare should be subsidised, but if the dad earns 50K, I don't see why he can't pay for childcare, even if his wife's job is low paid. The childcare is enabling both of them to work, and as a family they are earning more than the average of taxpayers who would be paying for their childcare if it was 'free'.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 16/11/2011 13:51

Yes, that's what I was getting at elderberry.

But I agree with himalaya that we need to challenge the idea that childcare is a woman's responsibility. IMO free childcare (set up like the NHS) would do this - it would suggest it is society's responsibility.

I wasn't really thinking of hoursholds with 'two high flyers' - what would be nice to see would be women feeling they didn't have to be high flyers to justify working outside the home, which IMO seems to be something a lot of women do feel they have to do. There are jobs at all levels of prestigiousness and pay and so on, where women tend to get replaced by less well-qualified men when those women have children. At the moment, that is seen as a simple issue, that these women just choose to have children and leave. And lots of women are really happy to do that and to be SAHMs. I'm not saying there is anything bad about that. But you shouldn't have to say 'my job is really important/better paid than my DH's' in order to justify keeping it, and I think a lot of people still do feel they have to do that.

ElderberrySyrup · 16/11/2011 13:19

Himalaya - I think quite a few are knocked off at a lower rung, actually, and hence never make it to the top.

Himalaya · 16/11/2011 13:07

I think free childcare (or 'free 24 hour nurseries' as it was put in the original 7 demands I think..) is a bit of a red herring.

I agree with you QueenofallBiscuits the ideal should be something like 'mothers and fathers to take an equal role in childcare' ... or something along those lines.

LRD - i don't think women are kept out of the top of the career ladder by lack of free childcare. At the that level it is not the cost that matters, it is the practicality (and choices involved) in bringing up children in a household with two high flyers pursuing uncompromising careers. And as you say the system is not geared to parents. Free childcare wouldn't solve it

Which is not to say there shouldn't be subsidised childcare for families on low incomes, but again its not a panacea. It doesn't challenge the idea that childcare is the mothers job, or really get at what traps women in low paid family friendly jobs.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 15/11/2011 21:17

queen - I do think some people struggle to break even, when you think about transport and so on too. I think it depends where you are in your career - a few years ago most of my mates where in jobs that made them really very little, but they needed to do the time to get further up the career. If you add childcare to that it can be just too much.

I think as well, the current system tempts women away from certain kinds of jobs, where there's more of a linear progression - if your career is set up so you have to do x years of low-paid work/training before your name gets known or you can make money, having to factor in childcare during those early stages is a total bugger. In my very biased, outside-looking-in opinion, obviously.

aliasforthis2 · 15/11/2011 21:17

I work in a care home and receive minimum wage (£6.08). If I did not receive 70% of childcare costs paid by the goverment via tax credits, I could not work. Simple as that. No-one can live on £1.08 an hour! And what happens if you have 2 children in childcare? You would end up owing money and earning nothing! (only 1 of mine goes to childcare, the other goes to his grandparents).

I think the first focus should be on free breakfast clubs and afterschool care. So those with children of school age are covered from 8am-6pm.

lelainapierce · 15/11/2011 21:02

Hazlenutt- i think the 30000 women who are sacked every year for getting pregnant would disagree with you.

Childcare doesnt just benefit that child's parents, it benefits all of society. Choldren's potential is often fixed/ limited by age 3, it is the under 3s who should be the focus of the education/ welfare system, it will have lifelong benefits.

Alsoit was one of the 7 demands of WLM in 1970, and has been the one most ignored.

umf · 15/11/2011 19:25

School is useful comparison. It's good for everyone that children get a high quality free education. We're used to that idea.

QueenOfAllBiscuitsandMuffins · 15/11/2011 19:20

I suppose I wasn't looking at it from the angle of 2 part-time jobs more where the females career is as dominant as the males.

Surely a rise in the minimum wage would just mean either an increase in the price of products/services or the products/services being moved out of the UK?

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MsAnnTeak · 15/11/2011 18:38

By putting more energy into campaigning for a vast rise in the minimum wage and providing cheaper housing, lower income familes would have more choices. Taking a job for £6.08/hr and coming home with a pittance is sacrifice indeed when it comes to missing out on your children growing up.

ElderberrySyrup · 15/11/2011 18:30

because we don't yet have a situation where 2 part-time careers are equal to one whole one.
You risk ending up with 2 parents in insecure jobs with less prospect of promotion.

NMW=National Minimum Wage

QueenOfAllBiscuitsandMuffins · 15/11/2011 18:25

"Well, for one thing, I think a lot of people don't have the option of 'only' breaking even."
Is this true? A lot? I would have thought child tax credits helped (unless you live in a very high cost childcare area)

"I also think it shouldn't be childbearing women who have to choose whether to go for short-term 'pain' or long term loss of career - why should all the burden be on the woman? "

Whilst I agree shouldn't again the discussion be moving childcare responsibility to the father and the mother?

I think nowadays children are seen as a lifestyle choice AND to help sustain the population!

Sorry I don't know what NMW means.

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OldLadyKnowsNothing · 15/11/2011 17:58

"...should it not be that the short-term pain of only breaking even is worth the long term goal of being able to have a career after the childcare costs have receded?"

For many of us, there is no long term career, just a succession of NMW jobs.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 15/11/2011 17:34

Sorry, the italics on parents came across as if I'm being snooty - not trying to! Blush