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What is feminism?

52 replies

InnocentRedhead · 19/09/2011 17:03

How would you answer that question is as few words as possible? I know there is the ever obvious 'Wanting equal rights for women as men in society' which essentially in my uneducated view, is what it seems.

But what is feminism to you?

New to Feminist boards and I want to know if there is a typical view or many differing.

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JosephineB · 19/09/2011 17:33

This is what feminism means to me:

If you're female and...

...you can vote, thank a feminist.

...you get paid as much as men doing the same job, thank a feminist.

...you went to university instead of being expected to quit after school so your brothers could go because ?you'll just get married anyway?, thank a feminist.

...you can apply for any job, not just 'women's work', thank a feminist.

...you can get or give birth control information without going to jail, thank a feminist.

...your doctor, lawyer, vicar, judge or MP is a woman, thank a feminist.

...you play an organised sport, thank a feminist.

...you can wear trousers without being excommunicated from your church or run out of town, thank a feminist.

...your boss isn't allowed to pressure you to sleep with him, thank a feminist.

...you get raped and the trial isn't about your hemline or your previous boyfriends, thank a feminist.

...you start a small business and can get a loan using only your name and credit history, thank a feminist

...you are on trial and are allowed to testify in your own defense, thank a feminist.

...you own property that is solely yours, thank a feminist.

...you have the right to your own salary even if you are married or have a male relative, thank a feminist.

...you get custody of your children following divorce or separation, thank a feminist.

...you get a voice in the raising and care of your children instead of them being completely controlled by the husband/father, thank a feminist.

...your husband assaults you and it is illegal and the police stop him instead of lecturing you on better wifely behaviour, thank a feminist.

...you are granted a degree after attending university instead of a certificate of completion, thank a feminist.

...you can breastfeed your baby discreetly in a public place and not be arrested, thank a feminist.

...you marry and your civil human rights do not disappear into your husband's rights, thank a feminist.

...you have the right to refuse sex with a diseased* husband [or just "husband"], thank a feminist.

...you have the right to keep your medical records confidential from the men in your family, thank a feminist.

...you have the right to read the books you want, thank a feminist.

...you can testify in court about crimes or wrongs your husband has committed, thank a feminist.

...you can choose to be a mother or not a mother in your own time not at the dictates of a husband or rapist, thank a feminist.

...you can look forward to a lifespan of 80 years instead of dying in your 20s from unlimited childbirth, thank a feminist.

...you can see yourself as a full, adult human being instead of a minor who needs to be controlled by a man, thank a feminist.

  • Thanks specifically to Josephine Butler - in whose honour I chose my screen name!
TrillianAstra · 19/09/2011 17:07

Thinking that people should be equally valued, equally respected, and given equal opportunities regardless of their gender.

With a side-order of "believing that it is not currently how things are, but wanting to to be so".

(IMO)

Others will say that you don't count as a feminist unless you do something about it, but IMO it's all about the beliefs.