Is this for real?

Do these women have no self-respect? Is this a symptom of abuse? Is it Stockholm syndrome?

Not sure. Maybe ripped bodice syndrome?

Possibly in their minds were it not for the nasty feminists, life would have the rosy tint of yester year (mostly gleaned from historically dodgy bodice ripper romance novels), where men were Men, women were women, and one didn?t have to confront the kinks in ones sexuality because those needs were nicely met by the status quo.

All you have to do was drop the milk bucket accidentally on purpose and you got your arse smacked on demand in guise of normal matrimonial power balance.

I could be wide of the mark but that is what it is coming across as to me. Mainly cos it looks like they are trying to recreate the social\sexual dynamic that was portrayed as the norm in the trashy novels my grandmother used to read.

FFS at "dog obedience school". Agree that entire post sounds like the braindump of someone with odd obsessions and levels of anger hinting at deep, deep problems.

I wonder about the woman she's condemning, the one she can "see right through". It's probably someone we'd regard as completely normal.

Oh god it's really so sad and so worrying for the kids being raised in homes where this stuff is spouted. It makes me sad and fearful when I imagine what that sort of upbringing, with parents who think that sort of thing, might do to a person. Even assuming they rebel against it and naturally question/turn away from it, it would just be so ... I don't know. So insidious and probably damaging unless you were massively resilient.

:(

They sound so sadly desperate for male approval don't they?

Pathetic.

Circle of Moms even has a little group for Taken in Hand

I am comforted by the fact there are only 6 members.

God help the poster's daughter if she has one

"Nothing is worse than a man who unwillingly lets a vindictive, nasty woman walk all over him. Modern times are labeled progressive but how can human beings progress when our leaders, builders and creators (MEN!) aren't allowed to BE men?!?!? Worse over, how exactly do women view themselves as "empowered" when all they want to do is emasculate their men into brow-beaten little boys? Women crave dominance, not equality. And women aren?t qualified to dominate in the ways that men naturally do. Sorry...but that is the truth. That is why there are TWO genders, not one. There are differences between us and to mess with the natural balance is to bring misery unto yourself and the man you allegedly love.

Just a bit frustrated today. I saw a good man go down recently when he married a woman that I could see right through. Unfortunately she has him under her spell for now but the bubble will burst and she will be hopefully be out on her ass by the end of their first year of marriage. I warned him as best as I could without meddling or being pushy (like SHE is) but he genuinely loves the woman he THINKS she is. Cracks are already starting to show through though. Women like that need to be put on a leash and sent to dog obedience school. Take away their feminine guiles and they have nothing; they are nothing. I wish more men would wake up and take their power back. The world would be brighter, happier and safer if that were the case."

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Is this some form of repressed fetish spilling out ?

"Too educated for my own good"... Wow, take it for granted, why don't you? Up until 100 (ish) years ago, a degree wasn't an option for us women...

"I learned, through these relationships, that pain has one purpose for me ? as punishment for misbehaviour. " Yup nothing like a regular beating from your DP

Doesn't happen often, but I'm lost for words...

....punishment spankings, maintenance spankings and submission exercises, such as kneeling silently at the foot of the male.

Maybe he was murdered.

This is a joke, right? :(

lol at died. That is actually a comforting notion

The site dates from 2003 and I don't think anything new has been added since 2006 - the last time the stats were updated was 2006. Hopefully the site owner has seen the light (or died).

I thought it was some horrible wind-up, dangerous, really dangerous site.

I am still in shock about this. I really hope it's just some kind of incredibly sick joke.

It's a gift for abusers isn't it.

Surely this dangerous shite is encouraging hate crimes.WTF? Totally shocking.

I don't want to make you feel sick but, from Edwina G, about sex:

Now I don't worry whether he's working up to it and what time is it, or worry if we're going to do it we should get started or we'll be tired tomorrow. If he wants it, he wants it, and he'll say "come here." I don't have to think or worry. It's very relaxing. And let's face it, it doesn't take years to get the thing done. If it's late, he typically isn't wanting something extended. Short and sweet. And I always feel happy and loved and secure and drowsy afterwards. Nice.

One thing I notice, and that delights me no end, is that he's always touching me now. When we're out he's holding my belt loop or stroking my back, at home he's smacking my butt as he passes or pulling me into a big kiss. He's obviously got a feeling of ownership that he hadn't before. His wife. I love that, it simply melts me. And it arouses me. I find that it takes him about 10 seconds to get me fully engaged now, and none of that time is spent discussing or worrying whether I'm tired or whatever, or making passive verbal approaches (because he was trying to be sensitive, and also feared rejection).

God ZZZZ that man sounds like a real psycho. He's only interested in confident, strong women so that he can wreck them. Yuk.

"head of the household behaviour"

fromthe section entitled the Resistant Woman: "If a girl is submissive, obedient and docile, she's probably not strong enough to withstand what I'm going to do to her. It's part of my particular brand of masculinity to be physically and mentally tough and challenging so in general I'm not attracted to girls like that. If a girl won't enjoy the rough and tumble, the physicality, the violent love and verbal jousting they'd get from me we won't have the compatibility. If she will, we might have a future."

??????

I cannot bring myself to look at the section : "The Gift of Rape". I just don't want to know

Ugh. Ugh ugh ugh.