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Am I right to be annoyed by this kind of comment?

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roboticdaydream · 15/07/2011 22:22

At a leaving do for a very attractive teacher at the school I teach at the boss said that she was always given the bottom set boys groups, because from the moment she walked into the room they would just go silent [here he did imression of them gawping at her] and then she could imress them with her teaching skills.

I felt a bit uncomfortable with the comment - but feel that that kind of remark is often accepted as a joke. I just think it reminded me of how often women are judged on their attractiveness first and foremost.

AIBU to find it incredibly crass to mention this in a leaving speech (and to imply that this is the reason for this particular staff member being given boys' groups).

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SauvignonBlanche · 16/07/2011 17:34

Uurgh! Shock

roboticdaydream · 16/07/2011 17:32

The teacher just looked a bit embarrassed. This comment was made in front of about 60 people. The teacher is in her mid 30s and a mother, not a new young teacher.

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TrillianAstra · 16/07/2011 14:35

The headteacher said this about a teacher? Blimey.

I read that as "Slimey", which is also true

CrapolaDeVille · 16/07/2011 14:22

We have a very attractive male teacher at our school and most Mum's say it's shorts day when he wears shorts!!

CaptainBarnacles · 16/07/2011 11:09

YANBU - this IS incredibly crass.

scarlettsmummy2 · 15/07/2011 23:12

The headteacher probably said it because it is true. It is offensive but unfortunately this kind of thing still goes on. My best friend is also a gorgeous young secondary teacher in an underperforming school and she always gets the naughty boys too, for pretty much the same reason. As a parent it wouldn't bother me if it brought the standards up.

yousankmybattleship · 15/07/2011 23:12

I think there is something in the head's comments. Children do notice if a teacher is pretty. Maybe we wish they wouldn't but I have seen it happen. There is one very very pretty teacher in my son's school, and the children defintely flock round her. I'm not sure it is appropriate to mention in a leaving speach though!

GetOrfMoiLand · 15/07/2011 23:08

The headteacher said this about a teacher? Blimey.

I would be mortified if anyone said this about me (not that it would be likely)

Prolesworth · 15/07/2011 23:06

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roboticdaydream · 15/07/2011 22:24

A very attractive male teacher left the year before and no such comment was made about him!

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roboticdaydream · 15/07/2011 22:23

*impression/impress

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