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Are you with the offended ones?

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bronze · 31/03/2011 12:20

nice baps

A petition and letter of complaint has been handed to owner John O'Toole, decrying his bakery's choice of title: Nice Baps.

Am I uptight and odd to be uncomfortable with this. My problem is I'm not very good expressing myself but...
it feels like theyre saying its ok to make womens breasts something you can comment on because it's ok it's only a joke

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marmaladetwatkins · 04/04/2011 10:57

God, I'd be bloody embarrased to shop in there.

Worse yet, in my mum's village, a lady called Carol has seen fit to call her sandwich shop 'Carol's Hot Baps' One is most definitely NOT amused Hmm

LeninGrad · 03/04/2011 21:02

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garlicbutter · 03/04/2011 20:59

Oh, gawd, I've started playing a game all by myself now! Is it offensive for a kitchenware shop to put Large Jugs in the window? The butcher to advertise Breasts & Legs on Special Offer? The cafe to offer Spotted Dick on Tuesdays?
... better get myself a copy of Viz and shut up Grin

garlicbutter · 03/04/2011 20:51

There used to be a famous bootmaker called R. Soles. I believe it was the owner's real name, but somebody somewhere probably found it offensive.

garlicbutter · 03/04/2011 20:47

Doesn't bother me, either. I think it's a bit dumb because I do, obviously, see the intended pun. But it makes me itchy when people get offended by puns like this which you can only understand if you think the same way as the punner. Since a bap is a perfectly legitimate name for a bread roll, my aunty wouldn't even get that it was meant to be a pun ... se what I mean? The complainants are as bad as the sniggerers.

I reckon this sort of thing is best ignored, like any other feeble joke.

AyeRobot · 03/04/2011 20:07

I don't think anyone is saying that it's the worst anti-feminst crime ever committed. Or even that it's even anything other than irritating. But "women are their own worst enemy sometimes" certainly fits somewhere in between.

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Kittytickle · 03/04/2011 20:02

What about "Knobs and Knockers" then? That mentions both breast and mate genitalia so it must be even stevens.

I wouldn't even waste my breath over "Nice baps". It is not interesting, original nor particularly offensive to me, unlike the Boots painkiller advert and some other posters being horrible to others by ending their messages with "innit" in order to implicate that someone is thick. Not nice.

Feminism great, but women are their own worst enemy sometimes.

omnishambles · 03/04/2011 19:59

And Bronze is right - he's opening his staff upto loads of Phwoar type comments. Nice.

omnishambles · 03/04/2011 19:59

There are loads of things this bloke called have called his bakery in a hairdressy play on words way without making it sexist - but he has got his publicity out of it hasnt he...Hmm

AyeRobot · 03/04/2011 19:56

I agree that we see things differently. And I would imagine that there are many things about which I am much more relaxed than you. It's just that this isn't one of them.

I think the small things matter. I think that sexual sterotyping is damaging and am interested to see where that starts and where the small things fit into the bigger picture. This is one of those things and this is the feminism board where some like-minded people hang out. That's all.

HaggisNeepsnTatties · 03/04/2011 19:50

Am interested. What do you think the comments would be??

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bronze · 03/04/2011 19:47

Well I for one wouldn't want to work somewhere called nice baps. I can imagine the comments

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BlueAmy · 03/04/2011 19:41

I'm not worrying myself. Grin

I don't really care about what you believe to be the mainstream view either. It's all about perception. Some of us see things and are able to take it in the spirit it was intended. Others see red immediately and take it very seriously.

Neither is wrong, it's just we see things differently. I just don't like to worry myself about things that don't really matter. I am a bit more relaxed I suppose.

AyeRobot · 03/04/2011 19:24

BlueAmy, don't worry yourself, the mainstream view is that sexist nonsense is acceptable and even dersirable. You have an option not to read criticism of it by not viewing posts in this section. Those of us who don't like it don't have a choice not to see and hear it every day.

BlueAmy · 03/04/2011 19:14

Thank you. :) Glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks like that!

HaggisNeepsnTatties · 03/04/2011 19:02

Blue Amy....well said! The worlds gone mad.... Grin

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glammanana · 03/04/2011 18:55

Well said BlueAmy

BlueAmy · 03/04/2011 18:48

Oh dear. There's no such thing as a sense of humour with some people anymore is there?

This shop does not bother me in the slightest.

StewieGriffinsMom · 03/04/2011 18:43

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glammanana · 03/04/2011 18:42

Give the guy a break he has opened a new business obviously not a drain
on society and trying to make an honest living,what do you do when you
want to order a roast beef nudger at the local deli or spotted dick and custard for dessert do we all start looking for alternative names,for goodness
sake live and let live and get a life.

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bronze · 03/04/2011 17:52

doggies- thank you. you managed to say so clearly what I actually meant

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