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I don't get 'The Patriarchy'

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Himalaya · 29/03/2011 18:07

I am your basic feminist, in the equal pay, equal rights sense, but not in the sense that I've read a lot of feminist theory (ok, I'll admit it, hardly any)

Quite often on these threads I read about 'The Patriarchy' as an explanation for unequal treatment of women and attitudes towards gender, and I just don't get it...

It seems to indicate that men as a group (all over the world, and throughout history?) have acted together with the intention of surpressing women - la conspiricy theory rather than consideration of underlying factors like biology (the 'genes eye' view of unequal costs and benefits of 'investment' in offspring by men and women) and the impact of class and economics etc...

But maybe I'm reading it wrong?

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Himalaya · 05/04/2011 09:28

Bonsoir -

Yes, I agree it is not that any deviation from 100% equality of outcomes is immoral - but the persistence of poverty is.

Perhaps immoral is the wrong word (I guess philosophically only people can be said to have morals). I think the right word is unjust.

Do you think it is just that a child that happens to be born into a poor family, in a country with poor human rights, corruption etc... will not have the same opportunities to thrive, and to become an adult that can earn and create wealth as a child born in luckier circumstances?

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Bonsoir · 05/04/2011 09:12

See, I don't think it is immoral. I think it is unfortunate that wealth is distributed very unequally, but I don't think it is necessarily immoral at all. If someone is very clever and able and manages to earn a lot of money and live extremely comfortably, why shouldn't he/she have more than others? That isn't theft - on the contrary, capitalism relies on able people creating value through companies employing many people and enabling them to have jobs.

Himalaya · 05/04/2011 09:07

Bonsoir,

Well, it is immoral in so far as many, many people in the other 80% don't have enough resources to be able to live well, healthy, keep their children alive, benefit from education and technology, make free choices etc... that is what is immoral.

The 20/80 statistic is one way of describing that situation, but not the only one.

I suppose if there was a society where 20% had 80% of the wealth, but everyone was happy with that, and able to command enough resources to live as well as they wanted to (a supremely beneficent autocracy? the American Dream?) that could be defended as moral. But that is not the situation anywhere.

Was that what you were asking?

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Bonsoir · 05/04/2011 08:47

Himalaya - do you think it is immoral that 20% of the population own 80% of the wealth?

Himalaya · 05/04/2011 08:12

Herbex and Garlicbutter - thanks for your questions.

I think we are using two different meanings of the word natural.

In everyday speech people say natural to mean good, normal, justified, the way things should be etc...

That is not what I am saying. What I am saying is that everything is natural, in that it is all part of the natural world. There is no such thing as unatural. Everything is part of nature. We are part of nature.

In nature there are emergent properties (complex systems) that are not best explained by design and or authority but because millions of individual parts interact.

It doesn't mean that everything is good or nothing can be changed. Cancer is natural. The more we understand it the better we can fight it.

Natural doesn't mean easy or harmonious. It is natural for lions to chase wildebeest. It is natural for wildebeest to run away. It is natural that bacteria decompose organic matter. It is natural that animals and plants have developed defense systems against decomposition.

Seeking to understand how biology underpins culture and the two interact is not saying that men are naturally dominant or superior or women naturally submissive. That is of course bollocks. Systems are more complex than that.

20% of people own 80% of wealth. If we have a computer, a flush toilet and can afford to educate our children up to 18 that puts are in the top 20%. How do we explain and solve that? It is an immoral situation. it isnt explained by simple morality at an individual level. It can't be that those in the top 20% are 'bad' and those in the bottom 80% are 'good'. It isn't that those in the top 20% could create equality tomorrow just by choosing to. It is a depressing that when one dominant group is overthrown, the new system is not automatically egalitarian or kind, but succumbs to a new elite holding power. Refusing to see this as any more than 'bad people choosing to do bad things' means giving up any hope of building more just systems.

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sakura · 05/04/2011 07:26

cba

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Himalaya · 05/04/2011 07:24

MillyR - it is indeed a ridiculous theory. It is not my theory.

I asked -why are women disadvantaged? Folks said - because men took over power through violence. I asked how were they able to do that - folks said - because they were stronger.

That is why we have been talking about that theory.

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MillyR · 05/04/2011 01:06

Yes, some people object to the term. There is discussion of that objection at Wikipedia:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minority_group

garlicbutter · 05/04/2011 01:02

No, I didn't know that about vivisection. Also didn't know a majority is a minority ... why not use an accurately descriptive word?

sakura · 05/04/2011 00:48

compared to women

sakura · 05/04/2011 00:47

I hold out a lot of hope garlicbutter.
DId you know that vivisection, which is cutting and experimenting on live animals was common practice in male scientific communities in the nineteenth century. no man questioned it

It was only when women entered the field of science that anyone declared it was wrong. Frances Cobbe set up the British Society against Vivisection, and spent her life fighting the men in white coats. It wore down her health. They thought she was mad. But she, as a woman and human, could not accept the patriarchal worldview that harming animals was a right that humans had.

When you think about how much power men had, economically and politically compared to men it's amazing that none of them even questioned vivisection, let alone set up a campaign group against it

MillyR · 05/04/2011 00:44

SGM, you were asking for stuff written that refutes the idea that men have evolved to rape. A colleague recommended a book called 'Evolution, Gender and Rape.'

It refutes the idea from an evolutionary perspective, by looking at the relative reproductive success of not raping, the benefits for women of choosing a particular sort of mate, child rearing and so on. But it is also looks at social contexts that make rape more likely, social climate, educational settings and so on, to argue for the cultural basis of rape.

The editor is Cheryl Brown Travis.

MillyR · 05/04/2011 00:39

Garlicbutter, when people refer to minorities in a social sense it is usually determined by the amount of economic, social and political power the group holds, not their actual numbers.

sakura · 05/04/2011 00:38

Great posts Herbex
yes HImalaya is arguing that we need to look at evolution because that then explains male dominance.

Which I find interesting to say the least because men have always believed they're the ones who have true insight into the human condition. Men believe their art is important and women's is trivial. that their thought is relevant and women's are not.
Is it true that men cannot understand that cruelty, exploitation and using violence to uphold the patriarchal regime is wrong and should be stopped at once? Why aren't they throwing their hands up and saying "FUck evolution, I no longer want to be a member of a group that has treats humans so cruelly."

How can they hold the moral high ground in any other area of life?

How can we trust anything they write or say? They have no agency, according to Himalaya, and cannot be held accountable. They are born to be oppressors.. but then how can they ever understand the full complexity of the human condition?

Actually their insights over the millenia have been pretty narrow and stunted, not to mention wrong, so one thing is for sure: if a person belongs to an oppressor group it harms their sense of morality- their concept of right and wrong

Milly, LOL "Tall people would be violently attacking short people on the street"

haha, so true.

And himalaya didn't answer my question about his beauty-healthy children connection. WHere do beautiful infertile women fit into that worldview?
And if his "theory" was right then if you plotted a graph of healthy children against patriarchally defined beauty you would find there was a causal link.
Except there isn't. Is there. A "plain" woman is no more likely to have difficulty conceiving, carrying and delivering a child than a beautiful woman.

garlicbutter · 05/04/2011 00:37

Women are a majority. As are South African Blacks.

Actually, I don't share the view that female rule would lead to world peace & loveliness. But I totally believe we deserve to find out.

MillyR · 05/04/2011 00:10

I can't think of any situation where a minority isn't kept a minority by an ultimate threat of violence. The situation of Apartheid in South Africa is based on violence, but white people are not more muscular than black South Africans. Homophobia involves gay bashing, but straight men are not more muscular than gay men.

So I cannot see that somebody's body shape has anything to do with a human's decision to use or fail to consistently challenge the use of violence by the group they belong to.

If there was some connection between relative body size and violence, tall people (me and my brother for example) would be violently attacking short people on the street, or supporting other tall people who do, or justifying short-bashing by others by telling short people they were flaunting their lack of height and making themselves into victims. But we're not.

It is ultimately a ridiculous theory.

HerBeX · 04/04/2011 20:39

And if you are arguing that, can you explain why such a natural state of affairs has needed such incredibly repressive policing? Why have men needed to be so incredibly cruel to women throughout history, in order to maintain their dominance over them? Surely if it were natural, women would simply go around being submissive the whole time and men would never actually need to keep them in line by rigging the whole world against them, ensuring that they could never compete for jobs, property, land etc., on an equal basis. They wouldn't bother to mutilate our genitals or rape us or exclude us from public life, because they wouldn't need to in order to control us. We would just accept their control unthinkingly and automatically, without question.

HerBeX · 04/04/2011 20:37

God sorry to say this, but those unending posts about evo-bollocks really are extremely tedious. Who cares about what makes men more muscly etc.?

What are you actually arguing Himalaya? That patriarchy doesn't exist? That we're imagining that most power in the world is held by men at the expense of women? Or that it is a natural state of affairs, that men own 90% of the world's wealth and that they have constructed a society with all the institutions in it geared towards their needs and excluding women from all but a serving role in them? Is that what you're arguing, that this is natural and inevitable because of evolution? Because that's what it sounds like you are arguing.

garlicbutter · 04/04/2011 14:10

Ah, I see!

sakura · 04/04/2011 14:09

yes I know it was weird,

Hence the oops.

I posted on the wrong thread. You ever done that?

Go to the other thread and you'll get it

garlicbutter · 04/04/2011 13:53

Sakura, Not a very authentic proletarian if you've got a PC are you Classwar is just a weird comment! There's enough weirdness in this thread already, surely no need for bonkers classist interjections too?

FWIW it looks to me as if Himalya does get "The Patriarchy" after all; it's more a matter of answering some of the most tediously well-worn objections to the concept: namely, that male supremacy is caused by male superiority and male control of the birthing resource is an evolutionary advantage. Himalaya, you have demonstrated that you don't agree with such Victorian idiocy - are you basically trying to get some clarified answers to those objections?

sakura · 04/04/2011 11:36

oops

sakura · 04/04/2011 11:36

Classwar. Is that someone who is against the class system, against the bourgoisie

Not a very authentic proletariat if you've got a PC are you Classwar

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