I'm not sure it's held to higher standards, SGM. But I have the impression (again, rightly or wrongly) that one false move and you get your head bitten off.
And I said the same the last time this thread came around too, as did others.
It is a bit about how you want to be perceived. We do get the same questions over and over on MN, that's just the nature of the beast.
And calm patience is a better response than 'yawn', 'search the archives', 'FFS, dont you know anything' etc. I don't like those responses in any section btw.
Maybe, if trolls are such a huge problem, feminists should also be opt in? Saves a lot of the passing traffic. And means that people who end up here want to be here. And no dropping in to troll because a thread is seen in active convos etc.
But ultimately, I think a lot of patient explaining is needed, and a lit less frustration. Reserve the frustration for the rdiculiys posts in Aibu, as goblin said earlier.