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Nicola Horlick says she is not a feminist. Does Nicola Horlick know what a feminist is??

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stillstanding · 23/02/2011 19:24

Am completely confused .... see article

I mean it's pretty nonsensical for anyone semi-conscious to say they are'nt a feminist but for HER to say it? And in the same breath as calling for quotas to get more women in boardrooms??

It's just daft. Am actually quite cross ...

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scottishmummy · 25/02/2011 22:55

is kate price feminist then?she present self as sexual

isaidheysugar · 25/02/2011 22:53

Is Kate Middleton a feminist?

hymie · 25/02/2011 22:51

Is any woman who represents herself as sexual not a true feminist?

stillstanding · 25/02/2011 22:45

Incidentally when I googled the defn this quote came up ...

"People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute" [Rebecca West]

Always makes me laugh!

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itsalarf · 25/02/2011 22:38

Think that makes sense stillstanding. Now I think about it, many women I know are not overly political, and therefore do not associate feminism with themselves. Had this conversation with a friend the other day. She was genuinely surprised that I maintained she should feel like a feminist, as a woman with female relatives. She felt that naming herself as feminist would impede her free choices if they were seen to be "traditional"

isaidheysugar · 25/02/2011 22:37

Surely there needs to be clarity before you nail your colours to a mast?

stillstanding · 25/02/2011 22:34

I just looked up the definiton of feminist again ... I do this regularly whenever this kind of thing comes up just to reassure myself that it means what I think it means. Anyway, it does indeed mean what I think it means but I notice that quite a few of them use "active" words like "a person who advocates equal rights for women".

I wonder if it's this element that makes some women nervous - that while they believe in feminism and equal rights, they don't feel they are feminists because they aren't particularly political or active in any real sense in the battle of the sexes. I suspect (naively hope?) that very few women in this country genuinely aren't feminists but that most are just going about their day fighting the good fight in general low-key day to day way and (rightly or wrongly) don't see themselves as actively "advocating" equal rights. That's for the "real" feminists who burn bras/hate men/leap on soapboxes etc.

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isaidheysugar · 25/02/2011 22:30

Does anyone know what a feminist is?

scottishmummy · 25/02/2011 22:28

not at all.if she feels incongruent with that label then it still doesnt make render her less than someone who is comfortable to use.seeing it so concretely doesn't allow for individual actions and interpretations. problem woth applying an label is that all labels come with associated baggage that may not suit or be applicable

stillstanding · 25/02/2011 22:20

Strange comment, scottishmummy. Of course, the way you define yourself and what you associate yourself with will impact whether you are a "better/lesser" woman.

Obviously we will all have different ideas on how we define ourselves or what good/bad characteristics are but it's bizarre to say it doesn't influence how you are perceived or your impact on the world around you.

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scottishmummy · 25/02/2011 22:01

up to her how she defines and associates herself.doesnt make her a lesser woman

itsalarf · 25/02/2011 21:51

Yes, have re-read your post and can see that clearly now Alice. I should point out that I talk as a "gut" feminist, rather than one who has widely read on the issues. Think so many women misinterpret feminism and believe it to be incompatible with, for example, being a SAHM, wanting to be married. This is why so many people, men and women, are naysayers.

AliceWorld · 25/02/2011 21:28

I think that Faludi's backlash did talk about old backlashes. Framed as a cyclical thing, with a backlash every time progress is made.

harpsichordcarrier · 25/02/2011 21:25

agree with your analysis, AliceWorld but I would locate it much earlier than the backlash.
The feminist movement faced opposition and undermining from the outset from those who wanted to preserve the status quo

AliceWorld · 25/02/2011 21:20

itsalarf - I don't know if you were responding to me but I'm not disagreeing with you. I see this too. I was explaining where I think this misrepresentation comes from. Feminist ideas have been separated from feminism and replaced with a caricature. And I'd locate this in the backlash.

LeninGrad · 25/02/2011 21:18

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harpsichordcarrier · 25/02/2011 21:17

"I'm not a feminist but.... I will take the vote, equal pay, rights to own property, protection against DV, maternity pay, protection against being sacked for being pregnant, protection against sexual harassment that all those 'aggressive man haters' fought for, whilst at the same time insulting them and denigrating them."

harpsichordcarrier · 25/02/2011 21:13

Agreed.
So, if feminism is defined and characterised by the desire to establish and protect equal opportunities for women...
and Nicola Horlick says this is not a feminist..
then Nicola Horlick is a moron who is contributing, shamelessly and unforgivably, to those who don't want women to have equal opportunities with men.
She is not just colluding with the backlash, she is adding to it.
Shame on her.

itsalarf · 25/02/2011 21:12

No, I know plenty of women who claim not to be feminists, despite behaving in a perfectly feminist manner. When questionned they often raise the "aggressive man hating" issue.

AliceWorld · 25/02/2011 21:07

I think the 'branding' is part of the backlash. People who are opposed to feminism undermine it periodically by misrepresenting what it is.

harpsichordcarrier · 25/02/2011 21:00

I am interested about the idea of 'branding' of feminism putting (some) women off the idea.
What is the feminism 'brand'?
Who controls the 'brand'?

BelleDameSansMerci · 25/02/2011 20:55

Oh fuck it... I hate when someone I have always admired turns out to have feet of clay. I had the chance to meet her fairly recently but chickened out. Now, if I get the chance again, this will be all I can think of.

itsalarf · 25/02/2011 20:49

Have not posted on "feminism" board before, but agree that it is the branding of feminism that causes so many obviously feminist women to deny it. They associate it with being an aggressive man hater.

sethstarkaddersmackerel · 24/02/2011 10:43

I think you often find that very intelligent and successful people are staggeringly ignorant about stuff you would expect everyone to know about . Presumably because the reason for their success is partly because they are so focused on their goals that they simply do not waste time reading or talking or thinking about anything else. So it doesn't surprise me that someone who is held up by the media as the quintessential career woman and working mother would not have a clue what feminism means.

I can also imagine her not spending an awful lot of time with politicised women; she probably works with men, doesn't have much time for socialising outside work, and doesn't often talk about non-work or -family related things. I mean if she had a spare 20 mins on a train she would be on her Blackberry getting stuff done, not reading The Guardian or browsing interesting blogs on the internet.

stillstanding · 24/02/2011 10:34

I am very surprised that she says she's not actually. Am always staggered when any person with any awareness says that. But am especially surprised when someone of her alleged intellect who has overcome the odds in an incredibly male-dominated industry would do so.

Having said that, I do understand why a person would not declare themselves to be a feminist ... If you asked me, for example, to describe myself you wouldn't find feminist in my description as I don't consider it to be one of my defining characteristics but that doesn't mean I'm not one. My problem though is with people who denounce it and declare that they are not one. I do think that's odd particularly in someone like Nicola who is so clearly a feminist despite any proclamations to the contrary.

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