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I asked the dcs tonight what's more important

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ThePosieParker · 15/02/2011 20:04

.....being kind, clever or kind.
Ds1 said kind
Ds2 said kind
Dd said pretty......oh dear.

I hope I'm not responsible for that. Now I do think she's lovely, but if she stays beautiful (although I'm prepared to accept I may be biased) will that always be the most important thing? Do I have any impact at all? Is a young woman destined to use it to achieve success in our society?

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FlamingoBingo · 15/02/2011 20:08

Woohoo! At first they said 'all three' but when I said 'if you could only be one, which do you think would be the one you would choose?' and they all (well, the three who are old enough to understand) said 'kind'! Smile[slightly smug]

FlamingoBingo · 15/02/2011 20:06

kind, clever or kind? Do you mean 'pretty, clever or kind?' Confused

I'm just going upstairs to ask my girls the same question!