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Ruin your favourite books/films with a spot of feminist analysis

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ElephantsAndMiasmas · 12/11/2010 13:04

Got thinking about this on another thread where I was wittering talking cleverly about the problems I have with Bridget Jones's Diary (the book, the problem with the film is that stuffy faced plonker Firth).

One of her boyfriends is a total cheating dickhead, obviously. But the "nice" one, Mark Darcy, is incredibly patronising towards her, repeatedly "rescuing" her because he wants to fuck her. Which is all well and good, but whereas in Pride and Prejudice (the origin of BJD) Darcy has a lot of respect for the female protagonist, which she earns by being smart, witty, standing up for herself etc, BJD removes that whole side of her. When she stands up for herself it is something she later apologises for.

Anyway - anyone else want to join me?

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ensure · 20/11/2010 23:27

I am only at the end of series two of Deadwood. I would highly recommend it.
I knew Joanie and Jane were going to get together, they're nice girls aren't they?

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 19/11/2010 14:27

Haven't seen that one but YES that is exactly what happens in Diva. The young girl (I thought maybe Vietnamese) never actually gets involved with him, just hangs out being self-consciously sexy all the time.

that's right - about the singing/rape of her voice. Despite the fact that he "stole" her voice, which she didn't want recorded, and the dress stealing/prostitute antics, they still end up together at the end.

Other than that, incredibly dull film so please don't bother!

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TeiTetua · 19/11/2010 14:16

"Diva" was a French film from long long ago, but yes, I saw it. In my memory it was more complex, about a teenaged boy who's obsessed with a black American opera star. What he does is steal the dress in which she performed, then hires an African prostitute to have sex with him while wearing it. It's more about her singing though--he secretly records her, and then lets her find out out about the recording and I can recall her saying in horror, "C'est un vol, un viol" (it's a theft, a rape).

There are Asian gangsters out to steal the tape, and a god-like figure who makes everything turn out happily. That man has an assistant, a young Indochinese girl who's a sort of Ariel figure (Shakespeare not Disney) who also gets involved with the hero, or maybe not, I'm not sure.

How about "One Sings, the Other Doesn't"? Kind of self-consciously feminist French film from way back.

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 19/11/2010 12:56

Also, has anyone else seen a godawful film called "Diva". There are female police which is a nice change (and they don't get killed or anything), but the Diva in question is an opera singer who sleeps with Our Hero after he steals her dress and stalks her all over Europe.

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WreckoftheHesperus · 19/11/2010 12:14

I'm sure I've seen one performance of Measure for Measure where the silence is interpreted as her NOT accepting the Duke...

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 19/11/2010 10:09

I watched the first five minutes of some bollocks called "Down to You" last night. Had to turn off after the first five minutes involved a) discussion about one of the (deeply unattractive) male actors being a porn star, and how his female co-star had liked him so much she was coming back to his room for more (unpaid) Hmm b) a competition between three blokes as to whether or not they could get certain girls back to their rooms - the prize? Why, sushi of course. Hmm

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BelleDameSansMerci · 17/11/2010 19:29

I like Pretty in Pink. I did wonder if it sneak past this thread but no...

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 16/11/2010 16:35

:o "Damn you Hugh Laurie and your blue eyes and sensitive musical hands, because this is Not OK!"

I know - he is an arse. Yet he is very interesting...

While we're on doctors - did anyone else watch Green Wing? I love/want to be Doctor Macartney but he does treat Caroline sooo badly. Teasing her, allowing her to be humiliated etc etc etc before finally getting his act together only in the direst of circumstances.

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sieglinde · 16/11/2010 16:33

Cruel Intentions is even more repugnant, overtly made as it is for the randy teen male who gets off on forbidden anality and girls tongue-kissing.

Oh, and did I mention John Hughes' teen movies?

Abusive male gets girl because he's depraved only on account of he's deprived (The Breakfast Club).

Sexy kiss from Charlie Sheen convinces a girl that it's ok for her parents blaatantly to favour her breother (Ferris Bueller). Test audiences again - fidelity means less to girls that beauty and a cool car (Pretty in Pink).

But I kinda love Watts in Some Kind of Wonderful so I'm keeping that one.

Did I mention action-adventure from Lethal Weapon right to Casino Royale? Don't get too keen on sex, girls! You're doomed if you do. Pah.

MrsVincentPrice · 16/11/2010 16:17

Reverting to the "stuff we love but please don't mention the gender politics" theme, I've just finished the box set of Season 6 of House, at the end of which the divine Lisa Cuddy ditches her fiancé, leaves the baby with the nanny (who must be racking up awe-inspiring amounts of overtime) and turns up in House's bathroom to announce that "I love you. I wish I didn't, but I do" Snog, swoon, aaaah.

Damn you Hugh Laurie and your blue eyes and sensitive musical hands, because this is Not OK! House has treated Cuddy like shit from day 1, he has consistently used sexist abuse to belittle her, he's an addict, he uses prostitutes.....I could go on for pages. The occasional nice gesture in amongst the abuse as a cue to the diamond heart amid the asshole exterior is heartwarming in films but a recipe for catastrophe when used as a guide to actual men.

There is some good stuff in House though, and Cuddy is a goddess, and I haven't seen series 7, so feel free to convince me I'm wrong.

Blu · 16/11/2010 15:56

I have not yet recovered from The Jungle Book, where Mowgli, having had numerous liberating adventures and worldly learning in the forest makes his way into the human world via a small girl who will slave for him:

My own home, my own home
My own home, my own home

Father's hunting in the forest
Mother's cooking in the home
I must go to fetch the water
'Til the day that I'm grown
'Til I'm grown, 'til I'm grown
I must go to fetch the water
'Til the day that I'm grown

Then I will have a handsome husband
And a daughter of my own
And I'll send her to fetch the water
I'll be cooking in the home
Then I'll send her to fetch the water
I'll be cooking in the home.

anastaisia · 16/11/2010 15:50

Buffy 'season 8' :)

FairyLightsForever · 16/11/2010 15:47
Grin
ElephantsAndMiasmas · 16/11/2010 15:41
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ElephantsAndMiasmas · 16/11/2010 15:40

"you know, being stalked isn't really a turn on for girls" - hallelujah Buffy! Loved the post underneath the video that says "Be a Buffy, not a Bella" :o

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bigkidsmademe · 16/11/2010 15:40

I'm sorry Sad

I got all confused

anastaisia · 16/11/2010 15:17

Happily admits to being a total geek Grin

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 16/11/2010 15:15

:o at Buffy nerdism on this thread. I love it. I never watched Buffy but loved the buffy - v - Edward video mentioned earlier ()

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anastaisia · 16/11/2010 15:08

ahh but if you read the comics it turns out that wasn't actually Buffy

FairyLightsForever · 16/11/2010 14:49

Buffy was mentioned upthread, I always felt that not having a successful relationship was more down to her youth than her strength. There is an episode in Angel where Angel and Spike rush off to Italy for some reason (returning a head to it's body?!), but really, because they both want to see Buffy. She chooses neither of them in the end, because she is off having fun shagging someone else and being carefree.

Blushat far to much knowledge of BTVS and Angel

chocolatestar · 16/11/2010 12:33

What was Taming of the Shrew like?

Sakura · 16/11/2010 11:18

off topic, but has anyone seen that amazing film "Set it off". It's quite old now. Four black women in America and just all about how the entire system is set up against women.

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 16/11/2010 10:17

The thing is, if they avoid Smurfette casting then zombie movies are a shoe-in for passing the Bechdel test, because by and large female characters are not going to sit around discussing men while a horde of ravening zombies attempt to eat them. So given at least two named female characters neither of whom get eaten in the first ten minutes, you should be home and dry Bechdel-wise.

SparklingExplosionGoldBrass · 16/11/2010 09:48

I have never seen Pretty WOman, Dirty Dancing, SATC etc. Because I have no interest in seeing them- my idea of a good film is one with zombies, explosions, car chases or at least a decent rock soundtrack.

So, of my favourites, erm, sadly neither pass the Bechdel Test (the Lost Boys and Velvet Goldmine) but the Lost BOys is kind of interesting from a feminist viewpoint in that it's basicaly all about looking at sexy men engaging in homoerotic bonding (which is something a lot of straight women rather like)- the camera lingers endlessly on male torsos, males looking moody in misty lighting, males being quite passive too. OK if you watch it now you might well be going 'Pah, mullets and hairspray' but I saw it when it came out and slobbered with delight all the way through.
Same for Velvet Goldmine though there'sa lot more stuff about liberation, represion etc going on there.

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 16/11/2010 09:46

I saw the RSC's 2003 Taming of the Shrew and thought that was an interesting take on it.