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More on ageism at BBC, presenter told HD tv would be crunch time because of her wrinkles!

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sethstarkaddersmum · 04/11/2010 17:14

...and then sacked.

here

Miriam O'Reilly, from Countryfile.
''I also remember that in about March 2008, when I expressed my concern about visible signs of ageing effecting my career to Director Louise Pyne she said 'it's time for Botox'.
'Even though I really wanted to keep my job, I didn't want to have Botox.'

will watch with interest....

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sethstarkaddersmackerel · 14/01/2011 14:55

it's great isn't it?
I didn't actually think she would win at all.

thread here

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BlodynBach · 14/01/2011 13:44

Hey! the good news is that Miriam has won her case & the BBC have been found guilty of ageism (& rather worringly victimisation too). Although having said that, I heard Greg Dyke, BBC controller (?), interviewed on the radio on Wednesday and he sounded very complacent. So lets hope that from now on managers like him are not allowed to continue with this discriminatory attitude...

sethstarkaddersmum · 16/11/2010 11:55

they're doing the 'actually she was rubbish at her job' bit now - that was always going to happen.
Must be such a horrible thing to go through, so brave of her to do it.

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SpeedyGonzalez · 13/11/2010 08:50

The fact remains that TV is a visual medium. It's not just the BBC, it's something which affects all broadcasters. And so, because the focus is on the visual, if you're a wrinkly woman you're out, because who knows what damage you might wreak upon the nation?

Hmm

It's like the younger woman/ older man presenter pairing on shows like Strictly. You'd never see it the other way round.

Aren't there better attitudes towards women presenters ageing in other European countries? I'm sure this says something about UK culture that we treat women this way while those we think of as our counterparts don't.

sethstarkaddersmum · 12/11/2010 10:50

tut tut, Daily Mail

In today's instalment they make out Jay Hunt is not credible when she says looks don't matter at the BBC because she turned up at the hearing wearing a different outfit each day Hmm

Let's not make this about what women are wearing, shall we, and let's not attempt to spin it as woman vs woman.
Jay Hunt is in a difficult position as a senior woman in a male-dominated organisation. The issue isn't whether SHE is anti-woman, it is whether there is a whole sexist, anti-mature-woman culture at the BBC.

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sethstarkaddersmum · 09/11/2010 18:22

latest (thank you for the detailed coverage Daily Mail! Wink)

'But he said the former BBC1 controller had made it clear she did not feel Mrs O?Reilly and Mrs Smith had the ?necessary profile? to present a prime time show and regarded them both primarily as radio presenter.
He later conceded that both women had only been discussed briefly in relation to the new show - despite admitting ?they played a huge part in the success? of Countryfile when it broadcast on Sunday mornings.
Mr Thorman revealed Sir Trevor McDonald, and two much younger, little known presenters, Ellie Harrison and Emma Massingale, had been suggested as options in case Miss Bradbury did not join.'

so - 'she didn't have the profile' used as an excuse but then some young unknowns suggested instead.

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ElephantsAndMiasmas · 08/11/2010 10:30

The words of older women have always been devalued though haven't they. Men acquire "gravitas" while women become "silly old women". Angry ("This was a chat between friends about Botox" wasn't it dearie)

Terry Wogan is 72, Bruce Forsyth is 82, David Dimbleby is 72 - admittedly Terry has been "downgraded" recently but only after literally decades of ubiquity. Forsyth and Dimbleby front two of the most high profile shows on TV.

I literally can't think of a male presenter in his 20s, outside of kids' TV. I like to see a range of ages and looks of people on television because I am more interested in what they have to contribute, and if I am only seeing one kind of person (smooth young women for instance) than it is obvious that something fishy is going on, and we are being deprived of what other kinds of person have to offer. Flicked past an old programme about Hattie Jacques the other night, that had contributions from Mo Mowlem. She was plump and balding after cancer treatment, but that doesn't make me want to hide behind the sofa - who are these wimps who can't listen to a woman without her being approved as shag-ready?

Actually I asked an ex-boyfriend of mine years ago why so many men/boys have the visceral "ugh" reaction to overweight/older/not to their taste women in the vicinity. His answer was that they thought about having sex with every woman they saw, and if they wouldn't fancy it then they get the visceral "ugh" reaction. As if her existence in front of their eyes is a personal insult. The idea that they could just accept her existence without wanting to shag her apparently is a leap too far. I know not all men think like this but I suspect lots do :(

gegs73 · 08/11/2010 10:05

I absolutely hate all the ageism and sexism against women on TV. I think some of the younger women presenting seem very insubstantial compared to their knocked off older counterparts. (Alesha Dixon anyone???!)
A few wrinkles should not mean the end of a womans career. And what after Botox if they agree to that, a facelift??

I would love to see more older, well presented, intelligent women in prime positions on TV as are men. Women have more to offer than just a (young) pretty face.

sethstarkaddersmum · 08/11/2010 09:43

Amanda Platell cheering her on.
Pity she had to do it by slagging off Most Other Women, but still....

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KerryMumbles · 06/11/2010 17:40

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sethstarkaddersmum · 06/11/2010 17:24

I am astonished that Lorraine Kelly is 50. From the photos online she looks about 40 but could easily be younger. (I never watch her on tv so don't know if she looks older on tv than in soft-focus pics.) I don't think Paul O'Grady looks 70 but he certainly looks his age and more.
Which just underlines the point, I think, that you have to be much better-preserved as a woman than as a man to be allowed on tv at the same age....

which men are bald or receding on tv, apart from Harry Hill? (am not disbelieving, just can't think of any myself).

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annoyingdevil · 06/11/2010 14:30

ooops, apologies to Paul O'Grady. He's obviously not aging too well. My point is that you would never see an older woman presenting a prime time chat show. Lorraine Kelly just presents a 'fluffy' lifestyle show.

dittany · 06/11/2010 12:09

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DamselInDisgrace · 06/11/2010 10:39

That cross-examination is awful. Even if she had a bald patch that should be no reason at all to remove her from our screens. Can't we have tv presenters who (non-tokenistically) reflect how people actually look?

TryLikingClarity · 06/11/2010 10:30

I was watching Breakfast on BBC1 this morning at 7am when I was up with DS.

The female presenter was a good deal older than the women I'm used to seeing. I didn't catch her name, but she was blonde, had lots of make-up on but noticeable wrinkles and saggy neck.

I have to admit I did a bit of a double take as I wasn't expecting to see an older women on TV.

She was wearing this crazy patterned top though, it was mind-boggling to look at... I wondered if BBC put her in that to detract from her sagging.

Was good to see an older lady though :)

TheProfiteroleThief · 06/11/2010 09:06

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ColdComfortFarm · 06/11/2010 09:00

paul o'grady is 55! Five years older than Lorraine Kelly.

sethstarkaddersmum · 06/11/2010 08:55

latest from the tribunal
(I wonder if anyone other than the DM is reporting this?)

'Cross-examining, the BBC?s lawyer Jason Galbraith-Marten accused Miss O?Reilly of ?embellishing? her evidence.
He said: ?This wasn?t a manager telling you to get Botox to save your career, this was a friend.
?She is a friend of yours. This was a chat with a friend about Botox.?
Miss O?Reilly replied: ?I was talking with Louise about the culture of ageism.?
Mr Galbraith-Marten then suggested the ?white gap? on her hair parting was a ?bald patch? and her colleagues were trying to avoid presenting her in an unflattering way.
She replied: ?I do not have a bald patch. It?s just the way my hair falls.'

how to humiliate someone in court....

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annoyingdevil · 05/11/2010 23:08

It's sexism. I was watching the Paul O'Grady chat show this evening, and he's got to be pushing 70. Could you ever imagine a woman of that age presenting a prime time chat show?

TryLikingClarity · 05/11/2010 09:44

Shocking!

I'm 26 and I want to see people from a range of ages on the TV. I don't know who they are aiming these beautiful, tanned, smooth faced women to. Surely normal people at home watching TV don't mind who is presenting.

sethstarkaddersmum · 04/11/2010 21:23

that would be quite splendid.
it would be good to be a fly on the wall for quite a lot of this case.

I'm pessimistic about the outcome though - I can see the BBC arguing that actually it is fine to have a different beauty standard for men and women because we are biologically different blah blah blah, and getting away with it.

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dittany · 04/11/2010 20:04

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TheCrackFox · 04/11/2010 19:50

Do you think they told John Craven to get botox?

sethstarkaddersmum · 04/11/2010 19:48

how do you reckon they'll defend themselves? I think they'll produce a humiliating montage of all her worst moments, mistakes etc to try and make out she was being dropped because she wasn't good at her job. I'm sure they'll fight dirty.
Good on her for having the guts to do this.

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sethstarkaddersmum · 04/11/2010 19:47

'Don't they spend half their lives in equality training?'

according to Jeremy Clarkson they do, perhaps there's not quite as much as he makes out Grin

people who reckon they know all about equality being shit hot on homophobia, racism and disablism while blatantly ignoring sexism is nothing new though....

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