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"Delicately balanced on a razor edge of mutual toleration": Rowan Marlow, Saint or ?

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CreativeGreen · 17/01/2026 13:15

Apologies if the quotation isn't quite right there: no Forests to hand.

Inspired by a post on another thread, I need to talk about the Marlows. Is Rowan spectacularly awful, and Lois an Unsangered heroine? Is Giles ghastly? (I think yes). What's your Marlow Family Liking List?

(I will be posting and running for now but I have many thoughts and wanted to start the thread while I remembered to)

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LookingThroughGlass · 21/01/2026 21:34

Marcipix · 21/01/2026 20:56

I had never thought that Thalia rhymed with Failure, although I was dismally aware that my parents wanted a boy, so wasn’t surprised by Lawrie’s assumption.

It’s a horrible horrible thought, that Patrick will turn into Jacob Reese Mogg. Please no.
I know he’s arrogant, but he’s in some ways very privileged. Not in every way. Forced into a truly ghastly school, because it is what one does.
is Claudie pregnant when she is sent home?

Sally Hayward's continuation novel has Claudie sent home pregnant. The last we hear of her from AF is her snogging the jubilant Patrick when he's booted from school; I don't think she's mentioned in RAH.

Claudie is having her friend Charles for 'bed and breakfast' in Attic Term, so pregnancy is a possibility, it depends I suppose whether her disregard of Catholic rules extends as far as using contraception!

Marcipix · 21/01/2026 20:56

I had never thought that Thalia rhymed with Failure, although I was dismally aware that my parents wanted a boy, so wasn’t surprised by Lawrie’s assumption.

It’s a horrible horrible thought, that Patrick will turn into Jacob Reese Mogg. Please no.
I know he’s arrogant, but he’s in some ways very privileged. Not in every way. Forced into a truly ghastly school, because it is what one does.
is Claudie pregnant when she is sent home?

pollyhemlock · 21/01/2026 18:01

Yes, I don’t doubt the sincerity of Patrick’s belief but I do feel it feeds his adolescent sense of the dramatic. The Latin mass! The ritual! The martyrs! You can see a similar mindset in his Rupert persona. I suspect he would always be a Catholic but would leave behind the more traditional aspects eventually.

HelenaWilson · 21/01/2026 16:34

I always saw him becoming a gentleman farming type who wrote his book on Richard III.

He says at one point, doesn't he, that what he is ultimately destined to do is take over from his father running the family estate. But as I recall Anthony says something to the effect that that's a long time in the future and he needs to do something in the interim.

There's a fanfic where he takes over as farm manager at Trennels because Rowan wants to go and do her own thing and is fed up with everyone assuming she's happy to run Trennels indefinitely.

Wrt Patrick and religion, I always felt he got into it when he was stuck at home after the cliff fall, rather like slightly nerdy teenagers in the 80s might do Dungeons and dragons, or be obsessed with LOTR. I felt it was a passing phase, that would fade once he discovered anything more interesting.

I knew several girls, at different times, who went through an intensely religious phase in their teens. They all grew out of it.

TheLemonOtter · 21/01/2026 15:48

Wrt Patrick and religion, I always felt he got into it when he was stuck at home after the cliff fall, rather like slightly nerdy teenagers in the 80s might do Dungeons and dragons, or be obsessed with LOTR. I felt it was a passing phase, that would fade once he discovered anything more interesting.

CreativeGreen · 21/01/2026 15:28

Oh yes to the anti-progressive strand - we love our Fab Trads!

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HumphreyCobblers · 21/01/2026 15:26

Definitely yes to the pro individualism and I would also add very anti progressive. Look at how Patrick's school fares, AF couldn't be more damning!

I can't see Patrick joining the army - he hates team games and isn't very 'hard' in some senses - look at his realistic assessment of his own ability to withstand torture, even in his imagination. Nicola's disgust at this is such a telling moment - Patrick has really gone there in his imagination but Nicola has not. Although she is tough enough perhaps! I always saw him becoming a gentleman farming type who wrote his book on Richard III.

CreativeGreen · 21/01/2026 11:38

I also think that the characters tend to fall broadly into one of two categories that are quite important, in terms of how they think about the individual vs the group.

Lawrie and Tim love the idea of being 'brilliant eccentrics': Tim is very happy to take the highly individual status of 'Headmistress's Niece' and resents Me Auntie's preference for 'a great collective effort' at a number of points. Ginty, too, tends to fall into this category, as does Karen, just making her thing happen and pooh to the rest of us.

Nicola is more in this category than not, but this is tempered by the way that she, for example, nurtures even the less talented members of the form for the cricket team. Indeed, sport is often the way this plays out: Tim doesn't see the point of it, Lawrie wavers, Ginty much prefers swimming - solo effort in most cases, as in the diving cup - and flounders when asked to play for a team quite often. Nicola and Rowan ('always plays best on a losing side') can see the value of the collective in this context, though generally lean more toward the individualistic side. See also Ginty and Nicola in particular, with their hero-worship of Churchill and Nelson respectively.

And it's no surprise that both those men are more easily appropriated as heroes for someone on the right, politically, than the left. (AF doesn't say which party Anthony Merrick is an MP for, but she really doesn't need to, does she?). And Nicola's rueful reflection that the death penalty doesn't apply, even to vandals on a rural trainline, feels telling....

Being anti-individualism, possibly correlating with a more left-wing POV, is almost invariably coded negatively, except in team sports. Miss Keith's preference for collective effort over celebrating individual achievement, for example. Edwin Dodd's Guardian reading, too, feels deliberate. Pacifist, 'just boys', Ann never seeks recognition and it's hard to imagine her having a hero to worship. When cast as Mary, she seems to see this as a devotional act rather than .... acting. But just as Nick and Rowan can temper the impulse to individualism for the sake of the sports' team, so Ann is, paradoxically, willing to stand out alone when the rest of the Fifth decide to play to lose in the form cricket.

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HumphreyCobblers · 21/01/2026 07:22

Lawrie is also brilliant in a way that Tim really rates. Tim spots this clearly before anyone else does, except perhaps the teacher who states that Lawrie mimes convincingly as opposed to Nicola who mimes with enthusiasm. I think Tim is also a true artist in her field, she directs plays superbly well and does try to be involved in any way, like trying to design costumes for The Tempest. She is driven to make performances really good, even the carols. There is a recognition from Tim that Lawrie is much more driven by pure ego rather than social niceties and she finds this amusing and recognises that this is one of the reasons for Lawrie's genius.

I find the Tim and Lawrie relationship extremely compelling even though I am generally on Nicola's side when it comes to falling out episodes.

TheLemonOtter · 21/01/2026 05:58

I think Tim likes Lawrie best because Tim sees herself as "different/special", and everyone else likes Nicola best, so Tim goes the other way.

CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 22:46

Oh yes - she's a Marlow, she's good at things! But I think the earnestness all came from Nicola, didn't it? She was the one with the plan in Autumn Term, and Lawrie followed it. Lawrie is never seen to try: Nicola very much is. And I think that's what Tim doesn't care for.

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WryNecked · 20/01/2026 22:43

CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 21:50

I don't think it's being artistic, exactly that makes Tim prefer Lawrie (Autumn Term: "Father's not at all artistic. Father paints"). But I think she sees in Lawrie something of the snarky outsider personality that Tim likes. Lawrie doesn't "do [the] Marlow thing" of being "terribly terrible keen and terribly terribly competent" which I think Tim recognizes, sometime resents, sometimes envies, and only really finds tolerable in Nicola by the time we get to Cricket Term.

Lawrie is amusing - she does impressions and 'bits' - and she doesn't try to be good at things she doesn't care about - like Tim. I suspect Tim knows if she was up against Nicola in almost anything that mattered, she would lose, and she isn't up for that. But she and Lawrie can snark and be a bit irreverent and insincere together, and Lawrie is also a genius and exceptional in ways Tim finds acceptable and interesting: better to be a once-in-a-lifetime Shepherd Boy than a highly competent netball player, in Tim's worldview.

Tim very strongly rejects the code of the schoolgirl, per school books. They all do to an extent, but Tim most overtly. See: when Lois asks her if she's happened upon an epidemic of cribbing in the Thirds and should she Go and Sneak - and Tim uncomfortably recognizes something of herself in that ironic satirical detachment. Nicola is more likely actually to be troubled by such an epidemic - Lawrie wouldn't care at all.

But in Autumn Term, Lawrie is every bit as naively determined to excel at Guides, netball and schoolwork as Nicola, so they can catch up with their sisters — even more than N, as she’s naive enough to pour all this out to Tim.

And yes, she calms down about it all and is less high-achieving generally than Nicola is, but she’s on the netball team and is good enough to be mistaken for Nick, plays cricket well and is in A forms, as well as her acting — and though we never hear anything more about it, she’s good at art (Jennings criticises her work with the seriousness she reserves for people who draw well in End of Term). She’s no slouch at things in general, even if she’s not managerial like Nick re games and the Tidiness picture. She’s good at lots of things, apart from lighting gas and singing!

CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 22:11

Lawful neutral, maybe

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CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 22:10

bookworm14 · 20/01/2026 22:05

Yes, or lawful evil. She does enjoy sucking up to authority.

Yes true - and she's aware of the 'law' that means by being narrator she'll be accused of doing a popularity hunt among the Thirds, but decides she doesn't care....

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CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 22:08

Ann - Lawful Good, obvs. Probably Esther, too
Everyone involved in the Edward Oeschli drama in RAH - neutral good at best
Rowan - Neutral Good (lippy to fool the coppers but disapproves of Lois ever-so-carefully breaking her ankle before every match, takes Nicola for a sundae and a milkshake to make the most of only being allowed to be taken out by a senior twice in a term)
Tim - True Neutral
Giles - neutral good? mutton and mint sauce...
Ginty - True Neutral (it's literally 'evens whether she goes to the good or bad'. When she's playing Mary Nick doesn't dare tell her about the netball swap because she's gone all lawful, but by Attic Term she's bending and breaking the rules all over the place)

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bookworm14 · 20/01/2026 22:05

Yes, or lawful evil. She does enjoy sucking up to authority.

CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 22:03

Lois - neutral evil I think?

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bookworm14 · 20/01/2026 21:57

CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 21:51

Basically Tim and Lawrie are Chaotic Neutral and Nicola is Lawful Good (95% of the time) and Chaotic Good the other 5%

I love this and now want to know all the Forest characters’ D&D alignments! What on earth would Lois Sanger be?

CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 21:51

Basically Tim and Lawrie are Chaotic Neutral and Nicola is Lawful Good (95% of the time) and Chaotic Good the other 5%

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CreativeGreen · 20/01/2026 21:50

I don't think it's being artistic, exactly that makes Tim prefer Lawrie (Autumn Term: "Father's not at all artistic. Father paints"). But I think she sees in Lawrie something of the snarky outsider personality that Tim likes. Lawrie doesn't "do [the] Marlow thing" of being "terribly terrible keen and terribly terribly competent" which I think Tim recognizes, sometime resents, sometimes envies, and only really finds tolerable in Nicola by the time we get to Cricket Term.

Lawrie is amusing - she does impressions and 'bits' - and she doesn't try to be good at things she doesn't care about - like Tim. I suspect Tim knows if she was up against Nicola in almost anything that mattered, she would lose, and she isn't up for that. But she and Lawrie can snark and be a bit irreverent and insincere together, and Lawrie is also a genius and exceptional in ways Tim finds acceptable and interesting: better to be a once-in-a-lifetime Shepherd Boy than a highly competent netball player, in Tim's worldview.

Tim very strongly rejects the code of the schoolgirl, per school books. They all do to an extent, but Tim most overtly. See: when Lois asks her if she's happened upon an epidemic of cribbing in the Thirds and should she Go and Sneak - and Tim uncomfortably recognizes something of herself in that ironic satirical detachment. Nicola is more likely actually to be troubled by such an epidemic - Lawrie wouldn't care at all.

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TarquinGyrfalcon · 20/01/2026 21:41

Oftenaddled · 20/01/2026 20:15

I have an eternal question about K M Peyton. Perhaps there are people here who can answer it.

Peyton was a friend of Antonia Forest's, and she admired Forest's work. I read, on Trennels I think, that she had said that her Peter (in the Ruth / Jonathan Meredith strand of her books) was in fact Peter Marlow, copied in a different setting.

I absolutely cannot see any resemblance beyond the name. Has anyone heard this? Can anyone tell me what I am missing?

Interesting question!

I don't think they are the same character - although I do like and sympathise with both.

Peter McNair is far less of a dreamer than Peter Marlow and has had a much harder life. Dead mum, difficult and harsh dad - mellows after he marries the fat Italian singer, but is still strict with him.

TarquinGyrfalcon · 20/01/2026 21:30

PermanentTemporary · 20/01/2026 19:34

@TarquinGyrfalcon me! Started with Pennington and went back into her other books including Flambards.

I started with Flambards moving onto the Ruth Hollis/Peter Mcnair/Jonathan Meredith books and then Pennington

I love the Pennington/Ruth crossover.

Ruth is so well written, all the angst and pain of being a teenager beautifully portrayed

bookworm14 · 20/01/2026 21:26

I think Tim views herself as a creative, artistic type and sees Lawrie as the same. Nicola is a bit too jolly-hockey-sticks and Navy for her.

HelenaWilson · 20/01/2026 21:18

is whoever says she does ‘My Friend the Actress’ (Miranda?) right, and she only becomes Laurie’s friend after she’s established as an unusually good actress?

I think there's an element of that.

pollyhemlock · 20/01/2026 20:52

Possibly it’s because Lawrie needs Tim ( ‘the only person in this beastly place who ever knows what I’m talking about’ or words to that effect) and it’s always nice for a certain type of personality to be needed. Tim doesn’t seem to have many other friends- she’s too spiky.

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