to kinda sum up, one member is not as literary as the rest of us, i am trying to explain this without sounding snobby but certain words are needed to explain this proble,
she always arrives late and so misses the "book" review.
she has read maybe 2/3 books out of the 16/18 we have done. she hasnt even read the awful ones she picks.
she is very confrontational, when points are raised or opinions about the "book" or general chit chat.
its really annoying, it changes the whole ambiance to the evening, last one 3 of us went home furious with her.
i would say she is naive and this doesnt help and shes protecting her ability to be considered a book reader by being so defensive.
anyway one member W sent a txt to another (Z) asking if the problem re her (U) attendance had been solved - text to all nxt event is on X and one must have read the book to attend-
receiver of txt (Z) replied and sent it to our problem member instead (U), stating yes and maybe she'll read the book.
so Z and U had a talk and she was defensive as usual
what to do
we are having a summer recess as some of the other memebrs just cant listen to her silliness for much longer, and these are older members, she is our youngest.
so