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Great literature about the human condition

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kublacant · 11/06/2025 20:10

I’m not sure how else to word it. I have had some bereavement recently close family and further afield and it has really made me contemplate life ((and death)

I am sure greater minds than mine have grappled with this!

does anyone know any great literature deals with life/human condition? I’m thinking they are probably German or Russian!

I am an avid reader, so it’s natural for me to turn to books at these sorts of times. Fiction only.

OP posts:
meditated · 13/06/2025 22:10

I don’t think Anna Karenina was mentioned. Kept me awake until I finished it (many years ago now).

Crime and Punishment does fit the bill perfectly though. Compelling read.

RedBeech · 13/06/2025 00:41

The Bee Sting
Demon Copperhead

AnotherEmily · 13/06/2025 00:41

KeebabSpider · 12/06/2025 18:10

I thought Flaubert wrote Madame Bovary,.....Its a great story though. And I would really recommend Germinal.

Not literature but one of the most totally engrossing books I have read on "being human" is Being Human by Roger Smith. Its a historical and philosophical look at how we have come to understand being human since the enlightenment. He challenges the idea that there is one fixed irrefutable ahistoric human nature.

So he did! I was clearly paying lots of attention in that module 😄

CraftandGlamour · 13/06/2025 00:08

Life After Life has been mentioned a couple of times but the book that really scratched that existential itch for me was the companion piece A God in Ruins which blew me away for...(too spoiler to mention) reasons. I still think about that book years later

Recent novels I've really enjoyed which might fit the bill are Claire Lombardo's The Most Fun We Ever Had and Nathan Hill's Wellness - which is a joy on Audible, if you're so inclined.

Here One Moment, Liane Moriarty is a bit quirky but I found it very emotionally satisfying.

Mandarinaduck · 12/06/2025 23:33

Mumoftwoboysaged4and5 · 12/06/2025 23:23

So many good recommendations! I really enjoy Douglas Coupland when thinking about modern life. He’s bleak but beautiful in his consideration of what it means to be human.

Life After God
Binge
Generation X

Oh I just came back to the thread to say Douglas Coupland and saw you had beaten me to it.
I really liked All Families are Psychotic which was weird, wacky, dysfunctional and all the rest but so very heart-warming and life-affirming with it.

powershowerforanhour · 12/06/2025 23:31

Primo Levi - If This Is A Man + The Truce
Slyvia Plath- The Bell Jar
Quite a bit of Yeats poetry
I know it's not considered "proper" literature, but I found Maeve Binchy novels to be more true to human nature than the likes of Colm Tóibín. I think she's a better writer.

Mumoftwoboysaged4and5 · 12/06/2025 23:23

So many good recommendations! I really enjoy Douglas Coupland when thinking about modern life. He’s bleak but beautiful in his consideration of what it means to be human.

Life After God
Binge
Generation X

Nagginthenag · 12/06/2025 23:15

Steinbeck

Nagginthenag · 12/06/2025 23:13

Olivia Manning
Pat Barker
Muriel Spark

NameChangedOfc · 12/06/2025 23:11

Oh and I highly recommend Irène Némirovsky. All of her novels and short stories.

NameChangedOfc · 12/06/2025 23:08

TheSlantedOwl · 11/06/2025 20:58

Get some Dostoyevsky!

And some Chekhov, too!

mynameiscalypso · 12/06/2025 23:02

This is a wonderful thread; I see so many favourites here. I’m also so pleased to see Middlemarch recommended so many times. The greatest novel ever written.

I will add Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton to the list. A novella that I come back to time and time again.

Boiledeggandtoast · 12/06/2025 22:54

VirtuousGathering · 12/06/2025 17:35

Do we see which novel it is? I was assuming that 'the new Kate O'Brien' was That Lady, but the setting is pre-war, isn't it, though it was filmed in 1945?

Ooh, good question! I'm afraid I don't know.

KeebabSpider · 12/06/2025 18:10

AnotherEmily · 12/06/2025 17:32

I did a module called The Human Condition at Uni. I think the novels were:

Camus La Peste (recommend)
Sartre Nausea (short, but fairly incomprehensible)
Germinal (long, recommend)
Balzac, Madame Bovary (long, recommend - loved)

You could also try:
Sagan, Bonjour Tristesse (short, recommend - loved)
Camus The Stranger (short, recommend - loved)
Les Miserables (long - never finished it!)
Kafka The Trial (short, recommend)

I thought Flaubert wrote Madame Bovary,.....Its a great story though. And I would really recommend Germinal.

Not literature but one of the most totally engrossing books I have read on "being human" is Being Human by Roger Smith. Its a historical and philosophical look at how we have come to understand being human since the enlightenment. He challenges the idea that there is one fixed irrefutable ahistoric human nature.

VirtuousGathering · 12/06/2025 17:35

Boiledeggandtoast · 12/06/2025 17:19

@VirtuousGathering I love Kate O'Brien (and she's mentioned in the film Brief Encounter as a favourite from the Boots' Lending Library!).

Do we see which novel it is? I was assuming that 'the new Kate O'Brien' was That Lady, but the setting is pre-war, isn't it, though it was filmed in 1945?

AnotherEmily · 12/06/2025 17:32

I did a module called The Human Condition at Uni. I think the novels were:

Camus La Peste (recommend)
Sartre Nausea (short, but fairly incomprehensible)
Germinal (long, recommend)
Balzac, Madame Bovary (long, recommend - loved)

You could also try:
Sagan, Bonjour Tristesse (short, recommend - loved)
Camus The Stranger (short, recommend - loved)
Les Miserables (long - never finished it!)
Kafka The Trial (short, recommend)

Boiledeggandtoast · 12/06/2025 17:19

@VirtuousGathering I love Kate O'Brien (and she's mentioned in the film Brief Encounter as a favourite from the Boots' Lending Library!).

Civilservant · 12/06/2025 16:49

good thread, thank you!

NormaMajors1992coat · 12/06/2025 16:32

JaninaDuszejko · 12/06/2025 13:35

Lots of my favourites recommended on here. Here's some more:

Kirstin Lavransdatter by Sigrid Undset. This follows the life of a noble woman in the 14th century. It's ansolutely fabulous and there's going to be a readalong on here starting in July if you want company whole reading it.

King Hereafter by Dorothy Dunnett. The life of Macbeth/Earl Thorfinn. More inspired by the historical sources than Shakespeare's play.

Your Wish is my Command by Deena Mohamed. A graphic novel set in a world where you can buy wishes and what three people decide to do with a first class wish. Short but thoughtful.

The Joys of Motherhood by Buchi Emecheta. Another full life story following a Nigerian woman in the mid twentieth century.

Is there a thread for the KL readalong - I can’t see one but maybe looking in the wrong place…

MissTFied · 12/06/2025 16:19

I came here to say Stoner by John Williams. Just an extraordinary book following the life of Stoner, a university professor.

Dolamroth · 12/06/2025 16:14

abnerbrownsdressinggown · 12/06/2025 16:12

Agreed - I really enjoy it.

It's like a conversation with friends. I don't have anyone irl to talk about books with so here and Backlisted are great for me!

abnerbrownsdressinggown · 12/06/2025 16:12

Dolamroth · 12/06/2025 15:57

I would like to also recommend the Backlisted podcast which talks about lots of the books mentioned here and many more. It's really interesting and funny.

Agreed - I really enjoy it.

VirtuousGathering · 12/06/2025 15:58

Terpsichore · 12/06/2025 15:36

Add me to your William Maxwell list.

And me! Another one who came to him via The Chateau.

Another suggestion of a great and humane but small-scale novel, OP -- Kate O'Brien's The Land of Spices (1941). Banned in Ireland for a single sentence referencing a gay relationship, it's set in a girl's convent school in early 20thc Ireland, and split between the perspectives of a pupil who grows up at the school, and the beautiful, tormented, humane English Mother Superior who becomes a form of alternative enabling mother-figure for her.

It's very good on the slightly feverish atmosphere of a boarding school and the rivalries and snobberies and good feeling among the nuns and girls (and it's a novel in which a Catholic education is a force for good and intellectual enfranchisement), and on goodness, and what makes a good life, and grief, and the tiny ways in which people who remain virtual strangers to one another can nonetheless influence one another for good.

A sort of Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man, but rejigged for a Young Woman.

Dolamroth · 12/06/2025 15:57

I would like to also recommend the Backlisted podcast which talks about lots of the books mentioned here and many more. It's really interesting and funny.

Terpsichore · 12/06/2025 15:41

And I’m coming back immediately to recommend to @kublacant that you seek out the novels of Elizabeth Taylor, unless of course you know them already. They are small masterpieces. Very funny in places, but so true and sad and very definitely grappling with questions of the human condition.

Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont might be a bit close to the bone if you’ve recently suffered a bereavement, but she wrote many other wonderful books.