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Did She Fall Or Was She Pushed? Dangerous Liaisons Readalong 2024

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BishyBarnyBee · 15/04/2024 08:14

Following a series of successful Fallen Women readalongs - War and Peace, Anna Karenina, Madame Bovary, Ruth - we continue our exploration of desire, hypocrisy, disgrace and redemption with the earlier (and even more scandalous) Dangerous Liaisons.

Widely adapted in text, film, opera and even ballet, Les Liaisons Dangereuses is an epistolatory novel comprising 175 letters.

Author Chodelos de Laclos "resolved to write a book that would be quite outside the ordinary trend, which would make a sensation and echo over the world after I left it." His book was a succès de scandale on its 1782 publication, reviewed as "diabolique" while becoming an instant bestseller. Marie Antoinette commissioned a blank cover copy for her library, and Virginia Woolf later read it with "great delight".

Readalongs are Mumsnet's best kept secret - a quiet corner of the site where we tackle the books we might not manage alone, sharing our thoughts and reactions, and encouraging each other to keep going when life - or the book - are challenging. It's fine to dip in and out as life permits, very few of us manage to keep up consistently.

We've only heard good things about DL, so do join us for a cracking good read. We start 1st May, 1 letter a day:

1 - 31 May Letters 1 - 31
1 - 30 June Letters 32 - 61
1 - 31 July Letters 62 - 92
1 - 31 August Letters 93 - 123
1- 30 September 124 - 153
1 - 22nd October 154 - 175

There are summaries of each letter at shmoop.com. I'll post them when I can, but anyone is welcome to start us off if you are first here on the day.

Looking forward to it!


Les Liaisons dangereuses (Dangerous Liaisons) Summary

Free summary and analysis of the events in Pierre Ambroise François Choderlos de Laclos's Les Liaisons dangereus...

Les Liaisons dangereuses (Dangerous Liaisons) Summary

Free summary and analysis of the events in Pierre Ambroise François Choderlos de Laclos's Les Liaisons dangereuses (Dangerous Liaisons) that won't make you snore. We promise.

https://www.shmoop.com/study-guides/dangerous-liaisons/summary.html

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BishyBarnyBee · 15/05/2024 19:51

So the Vicomte is as jealous of the Marquise's affection for the Chevalier as she is jealous of his attachment to the Presidente. Are they actually just in love with each other and playing these games to hide the depth of their feelings?

And what is the Presidente doing, setting a servant to spy on the Vicomte? Only a few letter ago, she was assuring Mme de Volanges that Valmonte seldom goes out and what he does is none of her business. Why would a happily married woman be so interested in what another man gets up to?

It's all very intriguing...

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BishyBarnyBee · 15/05/2024 19:38

Letter 15: The Vicomte de Valmont to the Marquise de Merteuil

  • Valmont and Merteuil aren't just playing treacherous games with others; they're playing each other as well.
  • Determined not to be impressed by Merteuil's plot against her lover, Valmont tells Merteuil that she's under her lover's power and not the other way around.
  • He's shocked that any other man could challenge the power he has over Merteuil.
  • Meanwhile, Valmont's valet has, under orders, made love to a chambermaid in Valmont's aunt's place in an effort to get info about the household.
  • He's discovered that Madame de Tourvel has been asking about Valmont's activities and told a servant of hers to follow and spy on him.
  • Seems everyone's getting in on the intrigue.
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DanceMove · 14/05/2024 15:26

Schmoop is being a bit clunky here, I think -- Cecile's innocent prattle seems like an odd place to get heavy-handed about the fact that everyone writes letters from their own subjective perspective...

The only thing that (I think) is in the background to this particular letter is just that, if Merteuil is encouraging Cecile's flirtation with Danceny, it's for her own ends. Might she, at this point, Valmont having refused the task, be thinking that Danceny will be the one to seduce Cecile before her marriage? Possibly, but it's a bit of a stretch. He's a bit too naive and romantic himself, and the 'revenge' on Gercourt isn't going to work if Danceny and Cecile elope together (or not in the way Merteuil has planned...)

Again, Cecile's naive fascination with other women's looks, and the fact that the older women wear makeup which makes her look less pretty in comparison, she thinks.

Also worth noticing in the previous letters between Madame de Volanges and the Presidente, that Merteuil has escaped the notoriety Valmont has. After a few minor indiscretions when she was newly widowed, she's thought of as virtuous. It's clear Valmont has kept her secrets, and she's thought to have resisted him, but what about her other lovers? How do you keep them all quiet? For instance, why hasn't Gercourt, Cecile's husband to be be, who appears to have left Merteuil rudely for another woman, told anyone he's been her lover?

BishyBarnyBee · 14/05/2024 13:38

It's almost as if Schmoop can't cope without an omniscient narrator so they are trying to be one. I think the summaries are more helpful than not, but they definitely bring an added viewpoint into the mix. When I was doing Ruth I had to sit on my hands not to add my own authorial comments, so I understand the temptation - and Schmoop is definitely going for an irreverent vibe here.

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AgualusasLover · 14/05/2024 13:30

I agree.

However, they are all writing letters in their own voice, there is no omnipresent narrator helping to interpret so they are all effectively telling their story and narrative.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 14/05/2024 13:09

I'm glad you raised this point @BishyBarnyBee as I'm also finding it confusing. I'm assuming the unreliable narrator is Mme Merteuil rather than Cécile as she is more likely to be the conniving one and not a young girl?

BishyBarnyBee · 14/05/2024 13:02

So...I haven't read the book before and have only the broadest idea of where it is heading. The Shmoops summaries are obviously written with the benefit of hindsight, and do seem to be dropping hints/spoilers.

This one makes no sense to me at all. I think we've worked out for ourselves that Merteuil and Valmont are well dodgy and we are not supposed to take them at face value. But is this saying that Cecile ia an unreliable narrator? Other than in that she is clearly very naive and a lot of stuff is going straight over her head?

I'm sure time will tell....

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BishyBarnyBee · 14/05/2024 09:13

Letter 14: Cécile de Volanges to Sophie Carney

  • Cécile tells Sophie that she cried her eyes out because she couldn't be with Danceny and Merteuil.
  • The effects of Merteuil's plotting are becoming apparent.
  • Cécile's affections for Danceny are growing and she's excited that he finds her prettier than Merteuil—at least according to Merteuil, who wants to get her excited about Danceny.
  • Cécile finds that she's more concerned with her appearance lately. Wonder why.
  • A good rule of thumb: don't assume that the information these characters provide is accurate. There's a lot of deception going on. Unreliable narrators abound.
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Hoolahoophop · 13/05/2024 09:32

I just caught up, I am really enjoying the speed and directness of the letter style. Also nice quick chapters.

I read the summary and conversations before the letters, when you were all discussing the taking by force I assumed it was all play, society says women should be chase so they need to 'put on a show' of reluctance so as not to be thought less of though actually they want to be liberated. But think that may have been too generous. MM is playing a different game. She really is just nasty, but not unlikable so far.

ViscountessMelbourne · 13/05/2024 09:18

Tourvel has encountered so many men trying to seduce her that she thinks she knows it all. Her overconfidence, and the fact that she obviously fancies the pants off Valmont will (spoiler alert) betray her.

ViscountessMelbourne · 13/05/2024 08:51

Of course Merteuil's "women like to pretend to be taken by force" speech isn't necessarily what she believes. She's presumably deliberately goading Valmont to rape in order to sabotage his pursuit of Tourvel. She is, after all, pure evil.

Contrast with the appalling "all women love semi-rape" passage in The Spy Who Loved Me, which is written as if by a reliable female first person narrator.

BishyBarnyBee · 13/05/2024 08:41

Letter 13: The Marquise de Merteuil to Cécile de Volanges

  • Merteuil offers to come over to keep Cécile's mother company.
  • She suggests they listen to her and Danceny sing duets.
  • Remember, everything's a plot with Merteuil. And with Valmont.
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BishyBarnyBee · 13/05/2024 08:41

Chapter 10 - I was preoccupied with the awfulness of the "she wants it really" narrative and almost missed the elaborate game the Marquise is playing with the Chevalier. Blowing hot and cold, dressing up, reading licentious literature to get herself in the right frame of mind, and the final master stroke of telling the Chevalier he has the key, while keeping a copy in case she decides to take a different lover there. Also, telling the Vicomte he is the one she likes best but the Chevalier is the one she finds the most attractive. So much complex game playing!

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BishyBarnyBee · 12/05/2024 21:49

Letter 12: Cécile de Volanges to the Marquise de Merteuil

  • Cécile sends regrets that she can't attend the opera as her momma is under the weather.
  • She's more sorry to miss Merteuil's company than she is the opera.
  • She asks Merteuil to tell Danceny that she doesn't have the songbook he mentioned to her.
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BishyBarnyBee · 12/05/2024 21:49

@FuzzyCaoraDhubh yes, the writer's loquacious and convincing argument that a women must protest and pretend to resist so that she seems to be yielding to force. Chilling indeed. I don't think we are supposed to accept that as representative of the views of the day, as our conniving pair are so clearly self serving and immoral, but it seems plausible some men might have chosen to believe the argument.

@AgualusasLover I don't think it's in any way wrong for a woman to write a man or vice versa. I do think it slightly weakens the impact of the shock of the female character acting in a classically male way when you remember she has been invented by a man. It breaks the 4th wall for me because it reminds me that what I'm reading has been made up and it's not a real life character. But I agree he's created two most enjoyable dastardly villains.

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AgualusasLover · 12/05/2024 17:15

I am LOVING this book. The Marquise and Vimcomte are just so vile. I have really enjoyed their banter, winding each other up.

I have a lot of patience for the way characters are sometimes written, especially when historical, but I also think fictional characters don’t always need to be at all realistic for me. I sort of think writers should for the most part be able to write what they want and create the characters they want. I don’t think I shouldn’t write men because I’m not a man - the net result may well be (as mentioned here already) that I write my perception of a man from a woman rather than a convincing man perhaps.

What I’ve read so far, I’m just willing to give the benefit of the doubt and enjoy this dastardly man and woman he has created.

Alas, I will likely never make a literary critic.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 11/05/2024 18:15

I had to read over letter 10 a couple of times to make sure I understood that. It was chilling with its implied violence towards women and then the added dimension that it was written by a man. Not good! I take it that this is about men and women playing power games.

Letter 11. La Présidente is a ninny. I suppose Valmont is good at what he does though and knows how to impress her.

I like your book cover Brie2001 and now I'm smiling* thinking of what Bishy said about the feather! *

Burnfort · 11/05/2024 17:41

Merteuil writes a wonderfully come hither sexy letter. ‘See what you’d get from an experienced woman like me, if you weren’t pining after that silly pride? Let me describe to you in salacious detail exactly what I was wearing, as I cavorted with my current squeeze on the sofa where we had our last sexual encounter!’

The mediation on rape is chilling, especially when you bear in mind that this is a female character written by a male author.

BishyBarnyBee · 11/05/2024 17:33

Letter 11: Madame de Tourvel to Madame de Volanges

  • Tourvel isn't concerned about Valmont and tries to calm her friend's fears.
  • He's being all gentlemanly and not at all flirty. Deceptively, of course, but Tourvel doesn't know that.
  • She's so assured of his virtue that she would be OK with having him as a brother.
  • To her, Valmont shows all the signs of being on a path to redemption and reform.
  • We get a very clear picture of how good Valmont is at creating this persona for himself
  • If you're like us, you're screaming, "Wake up, girlfriend!" right about now.
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BishyBarnyBee · 11/05/2024 17:32

Letter 10: The Marquise de Merteuil to the Vicomte de Valmont

  • Merteuil teases Valmont that his obsession with the Madame de Tourvel is changing him. He's turning into a foolish schoolboy.
  • She seems a little put out that she's not getting much attention herself from Valmont.
  • She accuses him of falling in love with Tourvel.
  • She thinks he should just take Madame de Tourvel rather than waiting for her to give herself to him.
  • The Marquise claims that women love to be taken aggressively, since this gives them an excuse for giving in, even when it's what they wanted in the first place.
  • She tells him about a romantic evening with her chevalier.
  • After torturing him with suggestions that she was leaving, she arranged a series of events that left him lusting after her.
  • She enjoyed watching how her words and behavior could make him crazy.
  • She finally spent a steamy night with him in her bedroom; the reader gets all the details.
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BishyBarnyBee · 11/05/2024 17:30

Buttalapasta · 11/05/2024 06:56

I'm already behind. Catching up this weekend!

It is traditional that most of us will either be lagging behind or got carried away and raced ahead. It's surprisingly tricky to read one short chapter a day.

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BishyBarnyBee · 11/05/2024 17:29

Brie2001 · 10/05/2024 17:33

My paperback came today (previously reading it on Kindle) thought I'd throw my cover into the mix. It's a bit Blackadder, I prefer the illustrated covers.
I noticed that this translation is by Ernest Dowson and the other books shown have different translators, I wonder if and how they vary, I'll have to compare it with my Kindle edition.

Love the Blackadder vibe! Given the slightly soft focus pic, I'm choosing to believe she has him gripped by the collars and is pulling him towards her in a forceful manner, though to be fair, it's much more likely she's pressing her hands against his chest in a much more passive stance.

The feather made me smile, remembering the Stockport Council RSE video where a man rather coyly chased a woman round the bedroom with a feather, leaving a generation of primary kids with a slight misapprehension about what the sex act actually involved.

Thanks for sharing.

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Buttalapasta · 11/05/2024 06:56

I'm already behind. Catching up this weekend!

Brie2001 · 10/05/2024 17:33

My paperback came today (previously reading it on Kindle) thought I'd throw my cover into the mix. It's a bit Blackadder, I prefer the illustrated covers.
I noticed that this translation is by Ernest Dowson and the other books shown have different translators, I wonder if and how they vary, I'll have to compare it with my Kindle edition.

Did She Fall Or Was She Pushed? Dangerous Liaisons Readalong 2024
Did She Fall Or Was She Pushed? Dangerous Liaisons Readalong 2024
FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 10/05/2024 10:13

Yes Cornish! exactement :) * *