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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 29/09/2025 08:40

I'm afraid I'm way behind. I've gone back to college for a ten-week course and I'm overloaded with coursework. I'm not finding any time to read. Please carry on without me and I'll join in again in a few weeks time! I really miss my books at the moment but it's for a short time only.

MotherofPearl · 28/09/2025 09:07

I’ve finished Dusty Answer and am ready to discuss when everyone else is.

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tobee · 17/09/2025 23:05

Jumping on (again!) to say Lonely Londoners is a great read!

StellaOlivetti · 06/09/2025 19:09

Now to find my copy. One day, before I die, I will put all my books in alphabetical order.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/09/2025 09:25

I like the sound of The Lonely Londoners as well Glitterbiscuits. I would be interested in reading it.

That sounds great MotherofPearl.
Dusty Answer next then, to discuss in October.

Glitterbiscuits · 06/09/2025 08:43

I have Dusty Answers ordered ready. The last rather dated book I joined in with was Lady Living Alone so I have to catch up!

I’d be interested to see if anyone else thinks The Lonely Londoners might be worth a try in the future.

MotherofPearl · 06/09/2025 08:35

That sounds like an interesting book @Glitterbiscuits. We can add it to our list for a future read. It sounds like the majority are going for Dusty Answer next? Hope that’s okay. We can then move through the list:

Another Elizabeth Taylor
Another Margaret Kennedy
The Lonely Londoners

I know there are a few others upthread we can refer back to.

Shall we aim to discuss Dusty Answer in October?

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Glitterbiscuits · 05/09/2025 11:16

I have a suggestion!
I haven’t read it myself but how about

The Lonely Londoners Samuel Selvon. Its publication was one of the first to focus on poor, working-class black people published in 1956.

Glitterbiscuits · 05/09/2025 10:17

I have just ordered Dusty Answer too. Never heard of it. 1927 doesn’t sound like it was nearly one hundred years ago!

Stillamum3 · 04/09/2025 22:29

I Think I've found my people! Just downloaded "Dusty Answer" so will be reading along with you.

MotherofPearl · 04/09/2025 21:30

So hard to choose. I love Elizabeth Taylor’s novels, and I’m also keen to read another Margaret Kennedy.

I’ve not read any Rosamund Lehman though, and I’d be very happy to read Dusty Answer, so will download that onto my Kindle now.

Thanks for posting that Persephone review/essay of The New House on the other thread Fuzzy. I so enjoyed it.

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ChessieFL · 03/09/2025 21:28

Hope you enjoy it again magi

magimedi · 03/09/2025 21:11

ChessieFL · 03/09/2025 19:06

I’ve just bought Dusty Answer by Rosamond Lehmann - published in 1927. Don’t know anything about her but the book description sounds good and it’s only 99p on kindle. No idea if it will be any good though!

It was my favourite book when I was 18 - some 50 years ago.
I'd totally forgotten about it & have just bought it (99p) and am off to bed to read it.
Many thanks @ChessieFL

StellaOlivetti · 03/09/2025 19:41

Good idea. I’m sure I’ve got a copy of Dusty Answer somewhere. It’s a quotation, isn’t it?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 03/09/2025 19:39

They both sound good. We could do one this month, the other the next?

Terpsichore · 03/09/2025 19:19

ChessieFL · 03/09/2025 19:06

I’ve just bought Dusty Answer by Rosamond Lehmann - published in 1927. Don’t know anything about her but the book description sounds good and it’s only 99p on kindle. No idea if it will be any good though!

Great suggestion, @ChessieFL

ChessieFL · 03/09/2025 19:06

I’ve just bought Dusty Answer by Rosamond Lehmann - published in 1927. Don’t know anything about her but the book description sounds good and it’s only 99p on kindle. No idea if it will be any good though!

Terpsichore · 03/09/2025 18:38

I’m very fond of The Soul of Kindness - just putting it out there. But I know we’ve already done one of hers, so maybe it’s time to try someone completely new?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 03/09/2025 15:45

Of course you can @Terpsichore

Terpsichore · 03/09/2025 15:44

Thanks @FuzzyCaoraDhubh! Can I lob in a vote for an Elizabeth Taylor, please?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 03/09/2025 08:55

Hello all! Does anyone have a suggestion for our next book? We could do another Margaret Kennedy perhaps? 'Troy Chimneys' and 'The Ladies of Lyndon' were mentioned upthread. Or something else!

Peggysue14 · 06/08/2025 17:37

Thank you. Both books are Australian the first is Careful, He Might Hear You by Sumner Locke Elliott (1963) Set in Sydney in the 1930s and based on Elliotts own childhood and being at the centre of a custody battle involving his working class aunt Lila and snobby aunt Vanessa, it was made into a very good film.
The second book is Come In Spinner by Dymphna Cusack and Florence James (1951) Set in a beauty salon in a Hotel in Sydney during one week in 1944 it centres on three women Debs, Guinea and Claire it has a amazingly rich cast of characters, this one really brings home the difficulties that women faced during WW2 its long but so well written that I read it very quickly.

MotherofPearl · 06/08/2025 13:27

Peggysue14 · 06/08/2025 13:08

Hi there I’ve just discovered this thread, could I suggest a couple of books that I absolutely loved?

Certainly, and thank you. We are always open to new suggestions.

I don’t think we’ve decided on our next book, after The New House?

I can see that the story is more than ‘rather dated’, but I did rather enjoy The Constant Nymph, which I finished a few days ago. It was the anti-Semitism which I found more jarring than anything else. However, I will take a look at some of the other Margaret Kennedy suggestions made by a pp.

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Peggysue14 · 06/08/2025 13:08

Hi there I’ve just discovered this thread, could I suggest a couple of books that I absolutely loved?

Rictasmorticia · 06/08/2025 12:47

Yes I will. I have just ordered the New House from he library

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