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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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MotherofPearl · 14/02/2026 20:26

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 13/02/2026 17:27

We need to start planning our next book.
Thinking caps on, everybody!

Yes indeed; what is next? I have not read any of Winifred Holtby’s novels and am keen to. How about either The Crowded Street or South Riding?

As always I’m happy to fit in with others. I’ve been introduced to some wonderful novels and writers through this book club.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 13/02/2026 17:27

We need to start planning our next book.
Thinking caps on, everybody!

BookEngine · 10/02/2026 07:58

Persephone in Bath have released tickets for their book day - 25th April.

https://persephonebooks.co.uk/collections/persephone-day-2026

I've booked a couple of things. Looks like I shall very quickly have to do an EM Forester deep dive.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 06/02/2026 10:01

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/02/2026 07:55

Thank you Remus, for 'The Lark'. I took note of it from your review on the 50-B thread :)

If you have any other ideas for books, feel free to suggest them!

Somebody on there recommended it to me, for which I was very grateful. I’m hoping to find more lovely old books on here.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/02/2026 07:55

Thank you Remus, for 'The Lark'. I took note of it from your review on the 50-B thread :)

If you have any other ideas for books, feel free to suggest them!

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 05/02/2026 22:29

What are you reading next?

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 05/02/2026 22:28

And how on earth did I manage to underline that?

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 05/02/2026 22:27

place marking - how on earth have I managed to miss this very lovely corner of the internet?!

BookEngine · 01/02/2026 19:21

Joining you....in 100 pages

ChessieFL · 01/02/2026 12:26

Thanks Fuzzy

I’m just finishing it off so will be along later!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 01/02/2026 11:21

I've put up a thread for 'The Lark' on What We're Reading.

Looking forward to our discussion. I really enjoyed this one.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 26/01/2026 09:18

I finished The Lark last night. I really enjoyed it. I'll start a thread on the 1st of February.

BookEngine · 15/01/2026 19:16

Have got hold of The Lark, and joy of joys the intro is by Penelope Lively.

Looking forward to something lovely after dutifully ploughing through the Booker long list.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 15/01/2026 15:12

It's great to hear from everyone! I'm looking forward to getting started.
I suggest we start to discuss 'The Lark' from 1st of February. It's easier to keep track of ourselves if we start on the first of the month. People can chime in when they're ready.

Thanks, everyone!

StellaOlivetti · 15/01/2026 15:04

Hello, everyone.
Happy new year. Thank you for resuming the thread! I love E Nesbit, so I’ll get cracking with The Lark as soon as I’ve finished the Jane Gardam I’m currently halfway through.

ChessieFL · 15/01/2026 12:02

Thanks Fuzzy. Also happy with The Lark as I also thought that sounded good. What’s the plan - to start discussions on 1st Feb or will people need more time than that?

MotherofPearl · 15/01/2026 11:37

Thanks for reviving us @FuzzyCaoraDhubh

I too am very happy with The Lark as our next book.

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Terpsichore · 15/01/2026 10:32

I was thinking this too, @FuzzyCaoraDhubh! (I also mentioned this thread on the 50 Books thread, as there was some discussion of The L-Shaped Room, and I invited any interested new recruits to join us).

Very happy with The Lark as a suggestion, thank you ☺️

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 15/01/2026 10:09

Should we think about choosing our next book @MotherofPearl @StellaOlivetti @Terpsichore @ChessieFL (and everyone who would like to join in)?

All suggestions welcome. There was a recommendation for 'The Lark' by E. Nesbit on the 50 Bookers thread before Christmas that I thought could be an interesting read for our group.

Dolamroth · 10/01/2026 22:44

TheGander · 10/01/2026 22:12

Very interesting. Thank you for the article. I actually grew up in an Arab country so some of the themes are familiar, but it seems Saudi Arabia took ( takes?) it to a whole other level.

You're very welcome! I'm very sad she's gone, I love her writing.

TheGander · 10/01/2026 22:12

Very interesting. Thank you for the article. I actually grew up in an Arab country so some of the themes are familiar, but it seems Saudi Arabia took ( takes?) it to a whole other level.

Dolamroth · 10/01/2026 19:36

TheGander · 10/01/2026 17:48

Yes I found it ambiguous, and you could interpret it any which way- motoring accident/ assassination, flat being used for an extra marital affair/ to sequester someone. Flat bring refurbished by landlord/ very dodgy goings on. I guess it’s the narrators state of mind, being in a country where everything is done to keep things opaque.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2004/sep/11/featuresreviews.guardianreview23

This was an interesting article by the late Hilary Mantel

Veiled threats

Only after she left Saudi Arabia behind could Hilary Mantel address it in fiction.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2004/sep/11/featuresreviews.guardianreview23

TheGander · 10/01/2026 17:48

Yes I found it ambiguous, and you could interpret it any which way- motoring accident/ assassination, flat being used for an extra marital affair/ to sequester someone. Flat bring refurbished by landlord/ very dodgy goings on. I guess it’s the narrators state of mind, being in a country where everything is done to keep things opaque.

Dolamroth · 10/01/2026 11:45

TheGander · 07/01/2026 17:34

I loved Edna O Brien too, such a brave woman. I remember reading the Love Object. Quite sad. I seem to remember it was written from the POV of the mistress. A lot of her books re tread the terrain of women’s experiences, discrepancies in love and desire within relationships, disappointment. Towards the end of her life she wrote Girl, about the kidnapping of schoolgirls in Nigeria, have not read that yet.
Finished 8 months on Gazzah street which I really enjoyed. But was thinking of starting “beware spoilers” thread as I m not sure I understood the ending. Is it deliberately ambiguous? Is it all her imagination? I’m still not sure.

I think it's meant to be ambiguous. The feeling of claustrophobia and menace is so well done.

TheGander · 07/01/2026 17:34

I loved Edna O Brien too, such a brave woman. I remember reading the Love Object. Quite sad. I seem to remember it was written from the POV of the mistress. A lot of her books re tread the terrain of women’s experiences, discrepancies in love and desire within relationships, disappointment. Towards the end of her life she wrote Girl, about the kidnapping of schoolgirls in Nigeria, have not read that yet.
Finished 8 months on Gazzah street which I really enjoyed. But was thinking of starting “beware spoilers” thread as I m not sure I understood the ending. Is it deliberately ambiguous? Is it all her imagination? I’m still not sure.

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