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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 07/04/2026 09:04

We have chosen our April book @MotherofPearl, An Awfully Big Adventure by Beryl Bainbridge.

Everyone on this thread is welcome to join in too.

CrochetGrannySquare · 06/04/2026 21:21

Sounds good to me too.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/04/2026 09:30

I'm definitely not in Suffolk :)
I've reserved a copy from the library, but I'll get it on Kindle if it doesn't come through.

Terpsichore · 06/04/2026 09:24

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 22:39

Do you all live in Suffolk??? I’ve just reserved it from the library, and I’m fourth in the queue (one copy). I’ll have to buy second hand.

Oh dear, no - sorry, @StellaOlivetti! I think I’ve got a paperback somewhere…but where, is the eternal question!

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 22:39

Do you all live in Suffolk??? I’ve just reserved it from the library, and I’m fourth in the queue (one copy). I’ll have to buy second hand.

Waawo · 05/04/2026 20:52

I’ve never read any Bainbridge so happy with any :)

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/04/2026 19:46

That sounds good to me! Happy to go along with that.

Terpsichore · 05/04/2026 18:48

How about An Awfully Big Adventure? What does everyone else think? Happy to go with other suggestions!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/04/2026 14:32

I don't mind at all, @Terpsichore, so long as I can get it on Kindle. Would you like to choose one?

Terpsichore · 05/04/2026 12:15

I'd be very happy with a Bainbridge. Does anyone have any strong preferences as to which one? Some of her early ones (eg A Quiet Life, An Awfully Big Adventure) tend to be quite autobiographical but later she got more interested in history with books like Master Georgie, Every Man for Himself and According to Queeney. But there are plenty to choose from.

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 12:03

I’d be delighted with that, if everyone else agrees … which one?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/04/2026 11:54

I think that 'An Academic Question' was one of the few books I didn't really like.
'Messalina' was a strange one. It was interesting, though!

Shall we go with a Beryl Bainbridge as our April read?

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 11:44

Me neither, @FuzzyCaoraDhubh . I wasn’t all that keen on Black Narcissus, and I did find Messalina of the suburbs a bit sad. Everything else was great.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 04/04/2026 21:34

There's hardly a book on the list that I didn't like.

Terpsichore · 04/04/2026 21:29

We've been very industrious @FuzzyCaoraDhubh 😂 but also read a lot of great books.

I like @StellaOlivetti 's suggestion of a Beryl Bainbridge next, perhaps?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 04/04/2026 21:26

Bravo, @Terpsichore 👏👏
I think that's everything.
We've read thirty-three books!

Terpsichore · 04/04/2026 21:19

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 04/04/2026 09:56

We need to decide on our next book.

No, we don't have a list, CrochetGrannySquare. Sorry about that!

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@CrochetGrannySquare I've made a list! I think I've included everything. We've read a lot!

The Road to Lichfield - Penelope Lively
Black Narcissus - Rumer Godden
A Start in Life - Anita Brookner
A Summer Birdcage - Margaret Drabble
The Beautiful Visit - Elizabeth Jane Howard
Someone at a Distance - Dorothy Whipple
Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day - Winifred Watson
The Fortnight in September - R C Sherriff
Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont - Elizabeth Taylor
The Feast - Margaret Kennedy
One Fine Day - Mollie Panter-Downes
The Enchanted April - Elizabeth von Arnim
An Academic Question - Barbara Pym
High Wages - Dorothy Whipple
The Last September - Elizabeth Bowen
The Fancy - Monica Dickens
The Messalina of the Suburbs - E M Delafield
The Rector’s Daughter - F M Mayor
The Bookshop - Penelope Fitzgerald
Saplings - Noel Streatfeild
The L-Shaped Room - Lynne Reid Banks
Our Spoons Came From Woolworths - Barbara Comyns
A House in the Country - Jocelyn Playfair
The Country Girls - Edna O’Brien
The Inn at the Edge of the World - Alice Thomas Ellis
Jill - Philip Larkin
Lady Living Alone - Norah Lofts
The Greengage Summer - Rumer Godden
Westwood - Stella Gibbons
The New House - Lettice Cooper
Dusty Answer - Rosamond Lehmann
The Lark - E Nesbit
The Crowded Street - Winifred Holtby

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 04/04/2026 09:56

We need to decide on our next book.

No, we don't have a list, CrochetGrannySquare. Sorry about that!

CrochetGrannySquare · 04/04/2026 05:48

Loving this thread! I've been going through taking a note of books I want to read. Is there a list of books you've already read in this club?

Is a book planned for this month?

StellaOlivetti · 07/03/2026 19:05

We (mum and I) said exactly the same, @Terpsichore . Barbara Pym, maybe, just maybe, but couldn’t see the likeness to Dorothy W or EJH.

Terpsichore · 07/03/2026 18:43

Here’s the article if anyone fancies reading it…

archive.ph/VLYVJ

Terpsichore · 07/03/2026 18:31

I’m definitely up for that, @StellaOlivetti - although I must say I’m extremely surprised by those comparisons!

StellaOlivetti · 07/03/2026 16:39

I’m loving it! Should be finished over the weekend. I’m surprised how much I’m enjoying it because I read South Riding long ago and didn’t really like it. Did anyone see the piece about Beryl Bainbridge in today’s Times? They bracketed her with Dorothy Whipple and EJ Howard and Barbara Pym. Perhaps we could. Try a beryl Bainbridge at some point?

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MotherofPearl · 06/03/2026 20:02

I finished it last night, so will create our discussion thread this evening and post the link. I'm afraid I got so caught up the story that I disregarded @BookEngine's advice and raced through the last part, staying up until well past midnight last night to get to the end. I think that tells you that I loved it!

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