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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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MotherofPearl · 09/08/2024 09:20

Thanks @StellaOlivetti and I think @Terpsichore for the London Belongs To Me recommendation. I'm thoroughly enjoying it.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 31/07/2024 14:20

Of course @maimeo You are very welcome.

maimeo · 31/07/2024 14:14

Just discovered this book club, would love to join? Member of an in person book club for over 20 years but would love to dip in and out of these suggestions also. Off to track down The Pursuit of Love.....

ramblingfool · 25/07/2024 15:35

Go Ask Alice
Black Like Me
Catch In The Rye
1984
Lord Of The Flies
Clockwork Orange
The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy
84 Charing Cross Road
The World According to Garp
Beloved

Tarahumara · 25/07/2024 15:22

Yes @Terpsichore!

Terpsichore · 24/07/2024 20:25

Ooh, @Tarahumara , I hope you were summoned from the 50 Books thread! 😊

Tarahumara · 24/07/2024 19:02

Hello all, I heard you were doing The Pursuit of Love and hurried over to join you! One of my favourite ever books.

ChessieFL · 22/07/2024 15:19

I’m happy with that too. Look forward to discussing The Pursuit of Love soon!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 22/07/2024 09:28

Yes, MotherofPearl. That's fine with me.

MotherofPearl · 21/07/2024 15:13

Sorry, Playfair's A House in the Country.

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MotherofPearl · 21/07/2024 15:12

Thanks @StellaOlivetti. I'm looking forward to it a lot.

It sounds like a Mitford would be okay with everyone? Shall we go for @BadSpellaSpellaSpella's suggestion of The Pursuit of Love? I have not read it but assumed others would have, which is why I suggested some of her less well known books.

I think The Pursuit of Love is quite short too, which is good considering we're very late this month.

We could line up The House in the Country for our next book after that?

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BadSpellaSpellaSpella · 21/07/2024 14:54

I haven't read any Mitford so not sure but what about the pursuit of love?

StellaOlivetti · 21/07/2024 14:41

I read it, @MotherofPearl , when it was recommended on here (by @Terpsichore i think.) It was utterly marvellous. You will love it.

aramox1 · 21/07/2024 13:28

The Blessing is better than Wigs on the Green !

MotherofPearl · 21/07/2024 13:13

I have just downloaded London Belongs to Me to my Kindle. Was it on here that it was being recommended? I've lost track now. Have others read it?

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StellaOlivetti · 21/07/2024 10:52

I’m currently reading Doreen! It’s great so thank you for the recommendation. I’ve only read Love in a Cold climate by Nancy Mitford, so happy with any of hers .

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 20/07/2024 20:51

I've never read a Mitford but would be very interested!

ChessieFL · 20/07/2024 20:03

I would be very happy with a Mitford. I have read them all but have no problems with a reread.

MotherofPearl · 20/07/2024 18:27

ChessieFL · 20/07/2024 17:44

Perhaps we could choose something else if House isn’t available on kindle. Does anyone have any other suggestions?

Would anyone be tempted by a Nancy Mitford? I wondered about Wigs on the Green or The Blessing.

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ChessieFL · 20/07/2024 17:44

Perhaps we could choose something else if House isn’t available on kindle. Does anyone have any other suggestions?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 20/07/2024 17:41

Hello all! Yes @MotherofPearl I can start off our next thread, no bother at all.

I have reserved 'A House in the Country' on the library system. There is one copy of it and it's out on loan in Dublin. I can't see any cheap copies of it on WOB (all around the 20 euro mark) and I don't see it on Kindle. So...maybe I'll get to read it in time for discussion next month?! I think we could pencil it in as our next read even if I'm a little bit late. (I'll put up the thread anyway).

MotherofPearl · 20/07/2024 17:07

I'm currently reading Monica Dickens's Mariana and thoroughly enjoying it.

If House in the Country is available on Kindle then I'm happy with that. I'm going to be away for the next 3 weeks with very uncertain WiFi; can I ask @FuzzyCaoraDhubh or any other of our regulars to start the next thread please?

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BadSpellaSpellaSpella · 20/07/2024 17:01

Happy with any one of those but would swap Westwood to starlight be that author.

The only one I've read is something in disguise which would make an excellent discussion

Terpsichore · 20/07/2024 16:34

I’m reading A House in the Country at the moment, @ChessieFL, so that would suit me very well - I’ve read 3 of the others already. We’ve had a Monica Dickens and an EJ Howard, I think? But happy with any suggestions.

ChessieFL · 20/07/2024 15:56

Nothing yet @BadSpellaSpellaSpella . Spoons is the most recent one and L Shaped Room was before that.

Any suggestions from anyone? Here’s a few on my TBR list if anyone fancies any of these:

A House In The Country - Jocelyn Playfair
Westwood - Stella Gibbons
Something In Disguise - Elizabeth Jane Howard
The Long View - Elizabeth Jane Howard
Doreen - Barbara Noble
Mariana - Monica Dickens

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