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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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MotherofPearl · 05/06/2025 20:19

@FuzzyCaoraDhubhshall I start a thread for Westwood? I can’t see one but maybe you have already done it?

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/06/2025 17:30

Sunwarddangledhardens · 05/06/2025 16:58

Looking forward to joining this group!

You're very welcome :)

Sunwarddangledhardens · 05/06/2025 16:58

Looking forward to joining this group!

Terpsichore · 04/06/2025 15:43

I’ve finished it too.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 04/06/2025 13:15

We can start chatting about it now if you like MotherofPearl! I'm only jogging my memory.

MotherofPearl · 04/06/2025 07:58

Thanks Fuzzy. I finished it last night so am ready to discuss when you are. Looking forward to hearing what everyone thought.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 02/06/2025 07:54

Hello! I'm going to do a quick read through again before we start our discussion.

MotherofPearl · 26/05/2025 19:28

I’m about halfway through it Fuzzy. It’s very enjoyable so far.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 25/05/2025 11:45

I finished Westwood last night. I'm looking forward to hearing everyone's thoughts on it. I'm going on holidays next weekend so my posts may be a bit scrappy. * *

DoAsYouWouldBeMumBy · 22/05/2025 17:44

I first read the whole of Pym, plus her letters and diaries, when I was about 19, and living in a house - as a mother’s help - that had them all in the library. Then u got the Paula Byrne book and realised I’d forgotten too much, so was forced to read them all from start to finish again! Loved them just as much the second time around. Maybe more!

MotherofPearl · 19/05/2025 22:07

Another Pym fan here. I obsessively worked my way through all her novels a few years ago.

I know that Nicola Beauman, founder of Persephone Books, is decidedly not a Pym fan. I heard her mention this at a talk but now I can’t remember her objection. I think perhaps she said she found Pym a bit too moralising.

I really enjoyed the recent (ish) biography of Pym by Paula Byrne.

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StellaOlivetti · 18/05/2025 22:28

I agree about Barbara Pym. I read her first as a twenty something and didn’t get it … rediscovered her in my forties and adore her. I think Excellent Women or possibly Crampton Hodnet are my favourites.

Terpsichore · 18/05/2025 17:21

Excellent Women was my gateway drug into Pym. A friend chose it for our book club and my heart sank, as I’d passed over her for years thinking it wasn’t for me. I absolutely devoured it and promptly read pretty much everything by her in the ensuing year.

ChessieFL · 18/05/2025 17:13

I didn’t get on with Barbara Pym. On paper she’s everything I should enjoy but I just didn’t. Perhaps my expectations were too high.

ShrubRose · 18/05/2025 16:59

Side note about another rather dated book - Barbara Pym's Excellent Women. I'm a bit late to the party (!), but really enjoying it. Sharply observed and hilarious in bits. The scene in Mrs. Bone's drawing room had me laughing out loud.

ChessieFL · 16/05/2025 21:39

I’m happy to discuss Westwood at the start of June.

MotherofPearl · 16/05/2025 17:43

I downloaded Westwood ages ago but haven’t started it yet. I’ll try to get it read by the start of June.

My excuse is that I’ve been reading East of Eden and it’s taken me weeks. Still have about 60 pages to go (of 600 pages of absolutely minute print!).

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Terpsichore · 15/05/2025 10:04

That’s good for me, Fuzzy, thanks

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 14/05/2025 20:23

I haven't started it yet, but I could be ready to discuss it at the start of June.
What does everyone else think?

spanishcheese · 14/05/2025 20:23

Joining

Terpsichore · 14/05/2025 20:20

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 14/05/2025 19:37

Hello! Yes, Terpsichore! I was about* revive the thread. I think we decided on Westwood by Stella Gibbons. *

Thanks, Fuzzy - I thought so too but we diverted into discussing other things and then it all went quiet! When are we reading it for?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 14/05/2025 20:18

My phone has done funny things with the bold text!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 14/05/2025 19:37

Hello! Yes, Terpsichore! I was about* revive the thread. I think we decided on Westwood by Stella Gibbons. *

Terpsichore · 14/05/2025 17:34

What ho, Rather Dated friends! Just wondering whether we ever decided what to read next?

ShrubRose · 19/04/2025 23:43

StellaOlivetti · 19/04/2025 21:13

There’s an interesting piece on Dorothy Whipple in today’s Times!

Thanks @StellaOlivetti

Just downloaded the e-audiobook on Libby.