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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 10/07/2025 07:40

I'll see if I can get a copy from the library.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 10/07/2025 07:36

'The New House' isn't on Kindle, but there are two copies in the library. It's too expensive on WOB.

MotherofPearl · 10/07/2025 07:35

We could do The New House now and save The Constant Nymph as the next one?

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StellaOlivetti · 10/07/2025 06:32

I’m really enjoying it and it would fit in very well with the rather dated ethos,@FuzzyCaoraDhubh

ChessieFL · 10/07/2025 04:24

I’ve got a copy of The New House but not read it yet.

MotherofPearl · 09/07/2025 22:23

StellaOlivetti · 09/07/2025 20:29

I am in the south of France listening to the grasshoppers, it’s half past nine and still quite hot; I’m sitting in the garden with The New House by Lettice cooper. It’s marvellous … has anyone else has read it?

Gosh, that’s a funny coincidence - I’ve just started The New House! And, bizarrely, also off to the south of France for my summer holiday in a couple of weeks.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 09/07/2025 21:22

No, Stella, but I'll look it up. Would you recommend* *it for the group?
Enjoy your holiday!

StellaOlivetti · 09/07/2025 20:29

I am in the south of France listening to the grasshoppers, it’s half past nine and still quite hot; I’m sitting in the garden with The New House by Lettice cooper. It’s marvellous … has anyone else has read it?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 08/07/2025 20:58

Just looked back on your first post Mother! 'Fellow fellow' to you too 😉
I must admit to feeling a bit intrigued by Nymph and would like to read it. I don't mind though if others have read it before or don't want to.

MotherofPearl · 08/07/2025 20:38

Oh dear, my earlier post was meant to start with Hello Fellow Rather Dated… Serves me right for typing posts whilst getting off a train.

I’m open to other suggestions of course, and the title of The Constant Nymph has always slightly put me off, but I so loved The Feast that I’m keen to try another Kennedy.

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StellaOlivetti · 08/07/2025 19:43

I must’ve read it off my own bat, but v happy to read again.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 08/07/2025 18:57

Exactly! I think we mentioned that there was a film of The Constant Nymph.

Terpsichore · 08/07/2025 18:51

I think we discussed it but plumped for The Feast, perhaps because of the storyline of the very young heroine and the older man….but I guess that’s what makes it Rather Dated!

StellaOlivetti · 08/07/2025 18:43

Oh dear my brain.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 08/07/2025 18:24

No, we haven't read The Constant Nymph yet.

StellaOlivetti · 08/07/2025 17:53

Haven’t we read The Constant Nymph? (Possibly not as my brain is not what it was!) but I definitely read it within the last couple of years.

MotherofPearl · 08/07/2025 16:37

Fellow fellow RD fans. Yes, I’m keen for us to choose a new book too though am running low on inspiration. I’m off on holiday in a couple of weeks so would like to have some good reading lined up.

One of my favourite books we’ve read was The Feast by Margaret Kennedy, so what about another one of hers? The Constant Nymph?

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Terpsichore · 03/07/2025 10:14

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 02/07/2025 11:30

Hello Rather Dated People! What shall we read next? 📚

I was wondering this, Fuzzy!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 02/07/2025 11:30

Hello Rather Dated People! What shall we read next? 📚

AInightingale · 06/06/2025 21:10

That's fab @Terpsichore. I was a teenager when I read them, one after the other. They were the old Virago classics in forest green and our library was full of them, I miss libraries like that!

Terpsichore · 06/06/2025 20:52

I’ve read Frost in May, @AInightingale but I’m afraid I couldn’t call myself a White superfan. I did however live for a while in the street where she was born, in the house very nearly opposite!

AInightingale · 06/06/2025 20:35

Pym's Quartet in Autumn is outstandingly good...

Any Antonia White fans on this thread? Sorry if she's been mentioned, I haven't rtft, but it is massive.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/06/2025 17:59

Thank you MotherofPearl! I've seen your post and I will be along soon. I'll finish the reread tonight.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/06/2025 07:04

Could you start a thread @MotherofPearl please? I'm away from home at the moment.

I'm trundling through a reread and am nearly finished.