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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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I just finished reading a book, published in 1977, set either 1975 or 1976. I went on Amazon to look at some reviews (I know these are not worth readi...

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MotherofPearl · 06/08/2025 11:54

Rictasmorticia · 06/08/2025 11:01

Thank you for this thread which I have only just found

I hope you will join us @Rictasmorticia.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/08/2025 11:09

Thanks MotherofPearl! The link has worked and I have posted some thoughts!

Rictasmorticia · 06/08/2025 11:01

Thank you for this thread which I have only just found

MotherofPearl · 06/08/2025 10:37

Gosh that link looks a bit odd. Anyway, I’ve started a thread in What we’re reading. Do join when you’re ready.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/08/2025 10:20

Yes please MotherofPearl. I just need to kick-start my memory!* *

MotherofPearl · 06/08/2025 10:12

Shall I start the discussion thread Fuzzy, and you can join when you’re ready?

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/08/2025 09:17

I'm also ready although I should probably look over it again before our discussion. It's too long to read through a second time.

StellaOlivetti · 06/08/2025 06:46

I’m ready now!

Terpsichore · 05/08/2025 23:09

When should we start discussing The New House, do you reckon? (or have I missed it? 😱)

WhisperTree · 04/08/2025 18:32

Must dig out my copy of the Constant Nymph for a re-read. Its been a good while...I do wish I'd just bought the full set of dark green Viragos when I had the chance. Sigh.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 01/08/2025 11:59

Thanks @FreeButtonBee I like the sound of both of these and they are on Kindle too.

FreeButtonBee · 01/08/2025 11:27

hello and sorry to drop in but if you'd like to try a different margaret kennedy then Troy Chimneys and The Ladies of Lyndon are far more enjoyable than the Constant Nymph. Troy Chimneys has a really interesting layered style which shows generational thinking/victorian prudishness re their elders in a really interesting light. Constant Nymph is problematic and i think the story really hasn't aged well.

Terpsichore · 31/07/2025 19:06

I’ve finished The New House now too.

MotherofPearl · 30/07/2025 21:34

I can’t remember if we agreed to read The Constant Nymph as our next book, or even whether to read it at all, but I’ve made a start on it. I’m currently on holiday and hoping to get through a few novels.

I loved Dombey & Son @Terpsichore- though it’s decades since I read it.

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tobee · 30/07/2025 18:54

Ooh ohh I read the New House and loved it! Although it was 10 years ago and can't remember it that well. But so happy to think of other people enjoying it! 😊

Terpsichore · 30/07/2025 17:46

I was convinced I’d read it but on examination it turns out I was thinking of another book entirely 🫣 However, I’m now romping through it and should be finished fairly soon (although this month's Dombey & Son chapters have to take priority)

MotherofPearl · 29/07/2025 13:23

I’ve also finished it Fuzzy, and looking forward to hearing what everyone made of it. I liked it a lot.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 25/07/2025 23:54

I finished this tonight. It was good! I enjoyed it. I think it makes for a good book to read on holiday as the pace is leisurely. Looking forward to our discussion. There's a lot in it!

MotherofPearl · 17/07/2025 07:29

Thanks Fuzzy. I’ve made a good start on The New House and can be ready to discuss in August.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 16/07/2025 20:35

Great! What date do we want to start our discussion? I could be ready for August.

StellaOlivetti · 16/07/2025 20:26

Great! I’d love to. I’ve finished and have started another Persephone title, The Expendable Man.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 16/07/2025 19:46

My copy of 'The New House' is available for collection at the library, so we can go ahead with this as our book of the month if everyone is happy to proceed :)

gailforce1 · 10/07/2025 10:51

Just to say that The New House is Persephone Book No. 47 and if you go to the Persephone website there is a beautifully illustrated write up about it...
Warning: you may feel the need to pop a copy in your basket along with one or two others! I can never resist so have to limit my visits.

Terpsichore · 10/07/2025 07:59

I’ve read The New House but still have my copy and very happy to read it again

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