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πŸ“š'Rather Dated' May: Elizabeth Taylor's 'Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont'πŸ“š

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MotherofPearl · 01/05/2023 09:08

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πŸ“šThe Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to joinπŸ“š www.mumsnet.com/Talk/whatweree_reading/4624300-the-mumsnet-rather-dated-book-group-all-welcome-to-join

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ChessieFL · 01/05/2023 12:54

I read this back at the beginning of February so can’t remember all the details, but I really enjoyed it. I felt very sorry for Mrs Palfrey and all the other people who had just been left to live out their lives in an impersonal hotel. Does this still happen now? I’m not aware of it as a β€˜thing’ now but it seems to crop up quite often in older books, TV programmes etc. I remember in Fawlty Towers there was the Major and the two elderly ladies who lived there all the time and that was in the 1970s.

MotherofPearl · 01/05/2023 11:42

That's interesting @Terpsichore. There are comic moments, but I agree that the best word for the book is poignant. I still really enjoyed it, and felt that the emotional tenor really resonated with me.

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Terpsichore · 01/05/2023 10:25

I finished it last night so it’s still very fresh in my mind. I loved it, but it’s so very unsparing about being old, being dependent, being lonely. The genius of Elizabeth Taylor is her ability to find humour and pathos in the blackest of situations, I think.

I heard a review of it on β€˜A Good Read’ which I think rather misrepresents it…this was before I’d read it, and the two guests made a big deal of the humour and cackled away - it was left to Harriett Gilbert to point out the almost unbearable poignancy of it.

I wanted to scoop Mrs Palfrey up and take her home with me.

MotherofPearl · 01/05/2023 09:32

Overall this felt like a sad story - Mrs Palfrey's loneliness (and that of many of the other hotel residents), and her attempt to save face with the ruse of passing Ludo off as her nephew, all felt quite painfully tragic. At the same time, it felt that there was a genuine connection between her and Ludo, and this was in sharp contrast to her relationship with her daughter and her real nephew, where there seemed little affection on either side.

I veered between finding the dated world of the genteel but slightly down-at-heel residential hotel appealingly nostalgic, and completely repellent (the food!). There were certainly some dated details, including the references to the "Ching-chong" from the awful Mrs de Salis, and the "Eye-tie" comment from Mr Osmond. I felt Mr Osmond was truly dreadful, and Mrs Palfrey dealt with him admirably.

I'll be interested to hear what others think of the novel. I read it earlier in April and so my responses are already fading! I know I raced through it, and that I found the ending a bit of a surprise.

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MotherofPearl · 01/05/2023 09:11

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' book club. This month we are reading Elizabeth Taylor's 'Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont'. Please do add your thoughts when you are ready.

About the threads:

We are reading and discussing fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day. We are reading one book a month. Spoilers are permitted!

We started the chat thanks to a thread where we kicked off with a discussion of Penelope Lively, The Road to Lichfield.

Currently we have these separate threads:
November: Anita Brookner, A Start in Life
December: Margaret Drabble: A Summer Bird-Cage
January: Elizabeth Jane Howard, The Beautiful Visit.
March: Winifred Watson, Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day.
April: R.C. Sheriff, The Fortnight in September.

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FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 01/05/2023 09:11

Place-marking! Thanks MotherofPearl!
I'll start this today. * *